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theriogenology said:

Ukweli mchungu huu kwa wadada wote.....

Kweli mwanamke mpumbavu ataivunja ndoa yake kwa mikono yake mwenyewe....

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Castr said:

"Pride is a poor substitute for intelligence"

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Nokia83 said:

Mwanamke anayeenda kuomba ushauri wa ndoa yake kwa watu wengine huwa anaishia pabaya sana lazima upambane mwnyw ndani kwa ndani.


Kuna kipindi wakati tunakua home mm nipo darasa la 5 baba yangu(Mungu amlaze pema) alikuwa na mwanamke akawa harudi home na akija ni ugomvi tu mama anapigwa lkn she never left alikomaa akapambana mpk mwisho ingawa alikuwa na kazi nzuri na mwisho wa siku baba alipoumwa mama aliacha kazi ili amhudumie mzee mpaka anafariki.

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Simple F said:

Nikiona mama vipigo alivyovumilia, matusi mazito acha tu lakini sasa wanakula kuku kwa mrija wanafurahia matunda yao

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madia madia said:

That's good. I always tell people that women are the source of family problems especially when they are supported outside. Every man is weak in front of a man but it depends on how a woman treats him. Weakness is that, a woman can make a man feel responsible for his family, can make a man to be humble and loved, can make him smart, energetic and determined . A woman can make a man slave and just give anything she want. Etc. Its better for people outside to say a man herbed au amelishwa limbwata because of love kuliko kusifiwa kwa ugomvi. So women wake up take of your husbands and never take negative dvice from outside. Your husband is your life. He is on behalf of your parents. Respect him as you respect your parents. Obeying him sio kwamba ndo unajidhalilisha hapana. That is your responsibility and if you do it then he will be responsible for you. Amen

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moses Mwanja said:

hamia kwa malkia tu hapa kwa anko magu hapakufai, au umecopy na kupest

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Bacary Superior said:

Mimi kiengereza kikizidi sana ata sipendi kusoma, maana kila muda nabidi niangalie dictionary

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Black Coffee said:

Yaani shida Wanaume wengi wanaingia kwenye ndoa na shit maana wanajua ni Majukumu ya mwanamke kumvumilia yaani hawazi kubadilika,,, maisha ni kuvumiliana sio kuvumiliwa

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Thad said:

_*A DIVORCED SINGLE MOTHER WROTE*_

I am writing to you in order to make someone understand that it's good to appreciate our partners despite their flaws.

I am 32 years of age.

My ex husband and I dated for 6 years.

We where best of friends.

I waited until he completed college and started work.

My family and his family then met.

We got married and had a son. (7 years old now).

My husband was short tempered at times but our problems started when I wanted to make him feel he couldn't control me.

Every time we argued, I would pack my bags, go to my family and explain.

My sisters would phone my husband and shout at him.

If he was controlling me I would always dare him that if he wished, he could divorce me.

I never wanted divorce.

I just had pride and I never wanted to look like a loose woman in his eyes.

One day I pushed him so hard that for the first time he beat me and locked me outside.

I went to my family, my family took him to the police, every time I looked like I was being abused!

But to be honest, I used to abuse my husband emotionally.

He was arrested and detained.

I was asked by his family to withdraw the case.

I felt that what I was doing was wrong.

My husband was never a violent man, he did what he did because I pushed him to the wall of which he openly knelt down and apologized.

I withdrew the charge, and we reconciled.

After three months, I packed my bags after a small issue and he remained alone.

After two days, I
received a call that he was in the hospital.

My family told me that I shouldn't go there because it would look like I was begging him and my sisters believed he was feigning the illness.

All this time, people felt sorry for me like I was the one being abused.

He spent a week in the hospital, after he came out, I just received a divorce summon.

I wanted to say no to divorce, but because I felt this pride, I wanted him to change his mind and beg me.

I called him and said he would get the divorce because I lived like I was in hell.

When we went to court, I wanted to make him pay, so I told the court that I needed his properties to be shared.

To my surprise he openly told the court that whatever he and I acquired together should be given to me, all he wanted was divorce.

We were divorced in 2009 July.

Now, my husband is married, whilst l am here wasted!

My family members are gossiping about me.

I depend on what my ex husband gives to my son for survival.

I know I wasted my
marriage.

I am here telling all wives that they should be careful how they get advise.

Don't be cheated, don't entertain family interference in your marriage my dear reader.

Even my young sisters are much more respected than me.

Those who encouraged me to get divorced are always teasing and bad mouthing me.

Please ladies, be vigilant in your marriage.

Thought it wise to share my story to save your marriage.

There is no benefit in pride for nothing.

*SOMETIMES IT'S NOT THE MAN'S FAULT AT ALL, IT'S YOUR PRIDE,AND THE PEOPLE YOU ALLOWED TO ADVISE YOU,SO BE WISE AND VIGILANT IN YOUR MARRIAGE*

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