Being there for people shouldn’t come expectations.

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Don’t expect people to be there for you just because you were there for them.

The reality is, not everyone will be there for us when we need them, regardless of how much we've done for them in the past.

It's a harsh lesson, but an important one in setting healthy boundaries and managing our expectations.

People who were there for you in tough times,
Are the only people you should be concerned about.

Expectations can breed disappointment. Instead, cultivate self-reliance and inner strength.

Give without seeking reciprocity; your actions will radiate positive energy.

And they may wish to be there but circumstances are pressing them and can't do anything but only God can come through for us at all times. Be it fire or storms , he keeps his word[emoji120]

Let go of expecting people to be a certain way just because you are. You are a deep soul with a big heart. Not everyone will understand or respect that.

Detach yourself from wanting to be understood & flow in your self-love.
Who and what will be in your life will reveal itself.
 
When you put so much people on but eventually challenges come up instead of seeking the bare minimum support from them, stay strong and figure way out underneath or go through your pains alone reciprocating shouldn’t be your next move funny
 
When you put so much people on but eventually challenges come up instead of seeking the bare minimum support from them, stay strong and figure way out underneath or go through your pains alone reciprocating shouldn’t be your next move funny
 
Yeah![emoji846]
Expecting & Accepting are two sides of Life where expecting ends in tears, while accepting makes you cheer .... Accept Life the way it comes,,,
[ Control how you respond to things sent to destroy your PEACE] [emoji94]
 
Cause you see people, people, people
People don’t really know you
(they don’t really know you)
They don’t really know you
‘Cause you see people, people, people
They don’t really know you
They don’t really know you


I’ve been drinking more alcohol
for the past five days
Did you check on me?
Now did you look for me?
I walked in the room, eyes are red
And I don’t smoke banga
Did you check on me? (Did you check on me?)
Now did you notice me?

Song: PEOPLE
ARTIST: LIBIANCA
 
You nailed it, we shouldn't be expecting too much from others especially from those who are much closer to us.
 
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