nzalendo Platinum Member Joined May 26, 2009 Posts 13,094 Reaction score 15,215 Jan 21, 2014 #1 Be a patient listener (it is this, not fast talking, that gets a con-man his coups). Never look bored. Wait for the other person to reveal any political opinions, then agree with them. Let the other person reveal religious views, then have the same ones. Hint at sex talk, but dont follow it up unless the other fellow shows a strong interest. Never discuss illness, unless some special concern is shown. Never pry into a persons personal circumstances (theyll tell you all eventually). Never boast. Just let your importance be quietly obvious. Never be untidy. Never get drunk.
Be a patient listener (it is this, not fast talking, that gets a con-man his coups). Never look bored. Wait for the other person to reveal any political opinions, then agree with them. Let the other person reveal religious views, then have the same ones. Hint at sex talk, but dont follow it up unless the other fellow shows a strong interest. Never discuss illness, unless some special concern is shown. Never pry into a persons personal circumstances (theyll tell you all eventually). Never boast. Just let your importance be quietly obvious. Never be untidy. Never get drunk.
nzalendo Platinum Member Joined May 26, 2009 Posts 13,094 Reaction score 15,215 Dec 30, 2025 Thread starter #2 nzalendo said: Be a patient listener (it is this, not fast talking, that gets a con-man his coups). Never look bored. Wait for the other person to reveal any political opinions, then agree with them. Let the other person reveal religious views, then have the same ones. Hint at sex talk, but dont follow it up unless the other fellow shows a strong interest. Never discuss illness, unless some special concern is shown. Never pry into a persons personal circumstances (theyll tell you all eventually). Never boast. Just let your importance be quietly obvious. Never be untidy. Never get drunk. Click to expand... Nilikutana nae ...nikawa namsikiliza tu......
nzalendo said: Be a patient listener (it is this, not fast talking, that gets a con-man his coups). Never look bored. Wait for the other person to reveal any political opinions, then agree with them. Let the other person reveal religious views, then have the same ones. Hint at sex talk, but dont follow it up unless the other fellow shows a strong interest. Never discuss illness, unless some special concern is shown. Never pry into a persons personal circumstances (theyll tell you all eventually). Never boast. Just let your importance be quietly obvious. Never be untidy. Never get drunk. Click to expand... Nilikutana nae ...nikawa namsikiliza tu......