Kwanini wanawake ni wabinafsi na wachoyo?

[MIXOLOGIST]

Ila mbegu mliyopwnda nyie ndio hamuoni madhara yake

Tena, hela ni zako na mwisho wa siku unagombanishwa na watoto

 

[Bangida]

Mkuu, utapigwa tu mwisho wa siku, soma sababu zote saba, hauchomoi

Why are you being pessimistic?
Kama unaamini kupigwa ni lazima, why cant we come up na solution juu ya hili.?
Je ni jambo la ujasiri kukimbia matatizo?
Sisi wote tumezaliwa na mwanamke, na kwa kias kikubwa wengi waliofanikiwa kukulia kwenye familia zenye wazazi wote wawili ni watu ambao wanakua bora sana katika maisha yao.
Kwanini leo sisi tuwanyime vizazi vinavokuja hii asali jus because tumeshindwa kuhandle bad experiences zetu?

 

[Joannah]

Tunawapenda tunataka mbadili tabia

Mbona Kama umeongeza chumvi Sana lkini?

 

[MIXOLOGIST]

Sawa naelewa hili. Lakoni tumeangalia impact ya hiyo experience.
Kwa mfano wewe uwe mzazi wa mwanao, i think experiences zako zingetumika vyema zaidi katika kujitahidi kumuonyesha mwanao jinsi ya kuepuka kupatana na experience ngumu kama zako.
Vivyo hivyo, ukiangalia the sharing ya experience kwa hawa vijana wanaochipukia sidhani kama ni positive. Mostly imefocus kwenye kuwaonyesha ubaya wa ndoa na wanawake kwa ujumla and at the same time tunahangaika kuwaaminisha kua ni vyema wawe vitombi zaidi..
Tunasahau pia sisi wanaume tutazaa mabinti ambao they have to deal with these same toxic men (ambao tumewatengeneza wenyewe through experiences zetu). So presha inakua mara mbili maana sidhan kama kuna mtu anataka mwanae wa kike ateseke.
TUnaziba tundu la panya kwa mkate. Very hopeless.

Mkuu, we must call a spade by its name. Kama hakuna chema hakuna chema.

 

[mzabzab]

Punguza hasira tafuta hela swahba

🤣🤣🤣 Tusio nabhela kweli hasira tupunguze maana dah...mbususu tunaishia kuziona xvideos tuu

 

[MIXOLOGIST]

Mbona Kama umeongeza chumvi Sana lkini?

Mbona ata chumvi sijaweka?

 

[mzabzab]

Tena, hela ni zako na mwisho wa siku unagombanishwa na watoto

Wapuuzi sana hawa wanawake ila mbususu zao tamu.
Tusiache kuwagegeda mwanawane ila kuweka ndani hapana kabisa. Tusifanye huo ujinga

 

[saleni]

Tumekukera Nini mbona kutusimanga alfajiri?

Wanaume wengi suruali, wanataka mtelezo kwa wanawake, mama zetu zamani walipata raha kweli kwenye ndoa, walivaa miwax bila malalamiko sio wanaume wa leo best, mara kataa ndoa, wanawake wa choyo, wakati mama yangu alisugua gaga nyumbani na kwao kajenga.

 

[Bangida]

Mkuu, we must call a spade by its name. Kama hakuna chema hakuna chema.

Sawa.. nakubali.
But if sisi kama wanaume we are so perfect,
Kwanin tusibadilike?
Mi nna wazo, instead ya kila siku kukomaa kukataa ndoa na kuwaponda wanawake,
Kwanini sasa tusigeuze gia na kuanza kuwaelekeza hawa hawa wanawake jinsi ya kuishi na sisi?
Maana smtyms tunawalaumu lakini yaweza kua either hawajui what we want, au pia sisi wenyewe tumekua reason ya haya yote.
Kila stori ina pande mbili

 

[MIXOLOGIST]

Me bahati mbaya au nzuri ninaamini kwenye traditional roles za men and women.
Men as breadwinners na women wako entitled domestic

Tena traditions and customs zetu role ya mwanamke ni kubwa kwenye kuzalisha mali. Babu zetu walikua wanaoa majembe, kigezo kilikua mwanamke sharti awe mchapa kazi, mlikua mnashindishwa shambani na kutunza mifugo huku wanaume tumenyoosha miguu tuna sip local brew

 

[MIXOLOGIST]

Wapuuzi sana hawa wanawake ila mbususu zao tamu.
Tusiache kuwagegeda mwanawane ila kuweka ndani hapana kabisa. Tusifanye huo ujinga

Thats a way to go brother

 

[Nakadori]

Tena traditions and customs zetu role ya mwanamke ni kubwa kwenye kuzalisha mali. Babu zetu walikua wanaoa majembe, kigezo kilikua mwanamke sharti awe mchapa kazi, mlikua mnashindishwa shambani na kutunza mifugo huku wanaume tumenyoosha miguu tuna sip local brew

Hapana sio kwa society yangu mimi.
Traditionally mwanaume ndio mtafuta mkate hadi pale alipoharibu na kufanya hayo unayoyasema

 

[Nakadori]

Thats a way to go brother

Duh 🙄

 

[Bangida]

Tena traditions and customs zetu role ya mwanamke ni kubwa kwenye kuzalisha mali. Babu zetu walikua wanaoa majembe, kigezo kilikua mwanamke sharti awe mchapa kazi, mlikua mnashindishwa shambani na kutunza mifugo huku wanaume tumenyoosha miguu tuna sip local brew

My nigga, quick question, would you be okay if binti yako angefanyiwa hivi?
Lets emphasize, aolewe, awe jembe kwelikweli akikomaa, then mumewe awe amekaa ana sip local brew.
If that okay with you, then sina swali zaidi. U a lost cause.
If its not okay, then come up with a better solution rather than kupinga na kuponda.

 

[MIXOLOGIST]

Why are you being pessimistic?
Kama unaamini kupigwa ni lazima, why cant we come up na solution juu ya hili.?
Je ni jambo la ujasiri kukimbia matatizo?
Sisi wote tumezaliwa na mwanamke, na kwa kias kikubwa wengi waliofanikiwa kukulia kwenye familia zenye wazazi wote wawili ni watu ambao wanakua bora sana katika maisha yao.
Kwanini leo sisi tuwanyime vizazi vinavokuja hii asali jus because tumeshindwa kuhandle bad experiences zetu?

You cannot teach an old dog new tricks

 

[Joannah]

Mbona ata chumvi sijaweka?

Hapo unaposema wanawake hawapendi familia Ni chumvi,tunaona jinsi vile wanamme mnaongoza kukimbia familia na kutelekeza watoto wakati mama ndio anakuwa ameshiklia majukumu yote mvua iwe jua,
Halafu unasema ni zana potofu kufikiria mwanaume ndio bread winner,hebu refer tangu kuumbwa kwa misingi ya ulimwengu Nani Ni breadwinner kwenye familia,nyie kizazi Cha kataa ndoa ndio mnataka kubadil nature....
TAFUTENI HELA JAMANI

 

[Bangida]

You cannot teach an old dog new tricks

Then now you see where shida ilipo.
HAuko tayari kuona how to solve this, wewe umekomaa na kushindilia mtazamo wako kwa watu woote.

 

[MIXOLOGIST]

Hapana sio kwa society yangu mimi.
Traditionally mwanaume ndio mtafuta mkate hadi pale alipoharibu na kufanya hayo unayoyasema

Nimetembea nchi nzima mashambani wako akina mama na machungoni wako watoto

 

[Joannah]

Wanaume wengi suruali, wanataka mtelezo kwa wanawake, mama zetu zamani walipata raha kweli kwenye ndoa, walivaa miwax bila malalamiko sio wanaume wa leo best, mara kataa ndoa, wanawake wa choyo, wakati mama yangu alisugua gaga nyumbani na kwao kajenga.

Kizazi Cha baba zetu wanaume wa shoka ndio kinaishia,tumebaki na waume zetu walalamishiii

 

[Nakadori]

Nimetembea nchi nzima mashambani wako akina mama na machungani wako watotot

Hao ni wanaume waliosahau majukumu yao ila baba yangu mzazi hakuwa hivi