What is wrong with my dad?

The Dude

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Here goes my pal;Unamshaurije? I quote him in verbatim..excerpts

"In the past 5 years I have seen him twice. Tunaishi wote hapa Dar. Hapokei simu zangu, wala sijui anaishi wapi,wala hajawahi kujua naishi wapi.
I am 25 yrs old. Wametengana na mama yangu nikiwa form 2,wakaanza kuishi apart. Nikakaa kwa mzee,with a step mum. He fled home. My Step passed away. Mzee never came bck. Kodi ikaisha ikabidi tuhame. During 4 yrs in college he would pay the fees smtimes,or he wouldn't. He was never available hata ungeenda ofisini kwake. I thought anakimbia majukumu initially,coz hata cm alikua hapokei. Bt nw nimemaliza chuo,and he knows it coz i saw him after grad we bumped into each othr huko Temeke. Rumour has it that that's where he resides. He stil avoids me and doesnt pick my calls even though sipigi kumbomu bt kumjulia hali. He did call me on his birthday,April 14th,he was so much under the influence we couldn't talk. I hinted i was going to enroll for grad skul he querried, 'are they paying you (to study i guess)?He went hiding again ever since hapokei..Now he's retired last month ofisini hayupo so nobody knws where he is. Nt even hs relatives.
Could he be suffering psychologically he can't face us? may be he's depressed? was he so much disappointed by my mum and the wrecked marriage that he's taking it out on us?
 
sijaelewa kitu zaidi ya heading
bora ungeandika kiswahili moja kwa moja
umechanganya rang
mazima.
 
Endelea na maisha yako,
Muombee, saa nyingine haya mambo ni magumu sana kwa mtu kama wewe. Inawezekana the women alioishi nao (Ur mum n step mum)
1) Aliexperience vitu vilivyosababisha awe frustrated na kutamani kufuta hizo memory.
2) Aligundua kitu kuhusu ur partenity na akawa na regrets.
3) Ana stress zake za maisha na kila mara anatamani kuanza upya akisahau some things cant be undone(like children)

I'm not suggesting those but u might have to look into those. Every story has two sides. One day u will tok to him calmly and he will explain everything. Just pray and hope. Yet don't make the same mistakes choose ur partner wisely.
 
sa kinachomsumbua ni huko kutoonekana kwake kwa hizo siku

au namna ya kubond relationship yake na dady!!!!!!!!!

kiaina fulani bora umuache tu ukaendelea na maisha yako kama ulivyofanya siku zote
 
sijaelewa kitu zaidi ya heading
bora ungeandika kiswahili moja kwa moja
umechanganya rang
mazima.

duh, tafuta mkalimani kidogo. Samahani lakini.
 
Kwa hiyo hapa anashauriwa nani?
 

the problem here is you tried to explain the scenerio as if everyone in this forum knows about it! try to explain clearly my dude you lost us dude...
 
Sorry man, I feel you!!
Ushawahi kujaribu kuongea na mama yako kujua what really happend to their marriage? Myb that will give you a clue
 
the problem here is you tried to explain the scenerio as if everyone in this forum knows about it! try to explain clearly my dude you lost us dude...

well, I get your concern. I copied and pasted from the email he sent.That explains it.
 
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