Mwanamke hatakiwi kabisa kuwa na jeuri wala kiburi, si tu kwa bf, au mume wake bali hata kwa watu wote . Ila kama wewe ni msichana/mwanamke na unaona kwamba hauwezi kuficha kiburi chako. Fanya tathmini hii kwanza. Angalia ukubwa wa " manundu" yako. Hakikisha kiburi chako hakiwi kikubwa kuliko ukubwa wa " manundu " yako. Kanuni iwe hivi " THE BIGGEST THE MANUNDUZ, THE HIGHER THE KIBURI ", THE SMALLEST THE MANUNDUZ, THE LOWEST THE KIBURI". Kama manundu hayapo basi na kiburi kisiwepo kabisa... Jamani haya si maneno yangu, nimeyakuta somewhere.
" Among the Kuryas of Mara Region in Northern Tanzania, a man is absolutely perfect to his wife, he can never do any mistake to her and should never be heared to utter the word " sorry " to his belived wife, no matter what a bad thing he has done to her . This is because, there are only three rules which govern HUSBAND-WIFE RELATIONSHIPS among the Kuryas. Rule No.1: A man can not do a mistake to his wife . Rule No,2; If do a mistake , refer to rule number 1. Rule No.3; If the mistake is VERY BIG, the mistake should be considered as a NEW IDEA "