Relationships will drain you as a man

Bujibuji Simba Nyanaume said:

I am already drained. Help me please

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ngome1838 said:

There is no help sir, just wait to die softly. After your funeral we shall eat what remained

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ngome1838 said:

There is no help sir, just wait to die softly. After your funeral we shall eat what remained

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demigod said:

This is a fact we have to accept, a man in a relationship (especially in modern times) has already limited his potential. A woman will drain you financially, emotionally & mentally. It's the harsh reality wr have to accept...

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Nafaka said:

Uko sawa kabisa, nilikuwa na raha zangu bila kuwa na mahusiano kwa miaka mitatu, isipokuwa yale ya one night stand. Mwaka jana katikati nikajichanganya, kuna watu nilipiga nao interview tukakubaliana mshahara fresh, lakini baadae wanakuja nipa offer ya kipuuzi nikawakataa, nikaona nafasi hiyo nimlengeshee demu flani hivi.
Kweli nikamlengesha akaipata ni kazi nzuri ofisi nzuri sana.
Baadae nikajikuta niko kwenye mahusiano nae bwana.
Akataka nigeuza mimi baba yake, baba wa mwanae, mwanasaikolojia wake, sugar dady wake, matatizo yake yote yangu, plan za biashara zake nizifinance.
Nikajisemea wewe hunijui, mimi mwenyewe nisharuka mishale mingi usinpe stress.
Nilitoka speed ya 6G.
Mtu kazi aliopata ana take home ya laki kama nane lakini tarehe 8 ashaanza sina ela ya nauli, [emoji23][emoji23] mara sina ela ya kula [emoji23][emoji23] mara sijsenda shopping.

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demigod said:

This is a fact we have to accept, a man in a relationship (especially in modern times) has already limited his potential. A woman will drain you financially, emotionally & mentally. It's the harsh reality wr have to accept...

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Nafaka said:

Uko sawa kabisa, nilikuwa na raha zangu bila kuwa na mahusiano kwa miaka mitatu, isipokuwa yale ya one night stand. Mwaka jana katikati nikajichanganya, kuna watu nilipiga nao interview tukakubaliana mshahara fresh, lakini baadae wanakuja nipa offer ya kipuuzi nikawakataa, nikaona nafasi hiyo nimlengeshee demu flani hivi.
Kweli nikamlengesha akaipata ni kazi nzuri ofisi nzuri sana.
Baadae nikajikuta niko kwenye mahusiano nae bwana.
Akataka nigeuza mimi baba yake, baba wa mwanae, mwanasaikolojia wake, sugar dady wake, matatizo yake yote yangu, plan za biashara zake nizifinance.
Nikajisemea wewe hunijui, mimi mwenyewe nisharuka mishale mingi usinpe stress.
Nilitoka speed ya 6G.
Mtu kazi aliopata ana take home ya laki kama nane lakini tarehe 8 ashaanza sina ela ya nauli, 😂😂 mara sina ela ya kula 😂😂 mara sijsenda shopping.

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demigod said:

This is a fact we have to accept, a man in a relationship (especially in modern times) has already limited his potential. A woman will drain you financially, emotionally & mentally. It's the harsh reality wr have to accept...

Ask yourself why is it that it's only men who are of the opinion that relationships cost money, because they're the ones doing all the spending. A woman is a whole liability, all that money for outings, vacations, gifts - financial madness to be honest...

Emotionally you will be tasked with the burden of being someone's therapist, as if you don't have your own issues. What's worse is this patient always has new issues each day. You're supposed to come up with solutions to these problems though she'll still go on & do the opposite

Mentally drained as well, instead of thinking of life changing ideas, you're on pussy impressing ideas. It becomes that difficult to think beyond your relationship, the bigger picture, as your focal point now revolves around your relationship...

Observe, a guy who was single then he gets into a serious relationship or worse married, you'll notice a drop in his lifestyle. If he was a gym freak, starts working less & eventually quits, gets that dad bod. Very rare to see married guys in shape...

This is the hidden truth.

SK.

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demigod said:

This is a fact we have to accept, a man in a relationship (especially in modern times) has already limited his potential. A woman will drain you financially, emotionally & mentally. It's the harsh reality wr have to accept...

Ask yourself why is it that it's only men who are of the opinion that relationships cost money, because they're the ones doing all the spending. A woman is a whole liability, all that money for outings, vacations, gifts - financial madness to be honest...

Emotionally you will be tasked with the burden of being someone's therapist, as if you don't have your own issues. What's worse is this patient always has new issues each day. You're supposed to come up with solutions to these problems though she'll still go on & do the opposite

Mentally drained as well, instead of thinking of life changing ideas, you're on pussy impressing ideas. It becomes that difficult to think beyond your relationship, the bigger picture, as your focal point now revolves around your relationship...

Observe, a guy who was single then he gets into a serious relationship or worse married, you'll notice a drop in his lifestyle. If he was a gym freak, starts working less & eventually quits, gets that dad bod. Very rare to see married guys in shape...

This is the hidden truth.

SK.


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ngome1838 said:

There is no help sir, just wait to die softly. After your funeral we shall eat what remained

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