Live long broInawezekana ukawa unampenda, unamuamini au una malengo nae kwaiyo ukakataa kukubaliana na ninachokisema hapa, lakini huu ni ukweli mchungu ambao kwa kuwahi au kuchelewa kuelewa lazima ukubaliane nao.
Ukweli ni kwamba uyo mwanamke ulienae ana list ya replacements wako. Wanaume hawa kawaweka kwenye friendzone na itakapotokea selfish demands zake kutoka kwako hazijatimia basi anaswitch upande mwingine.
Kuna jamaa anasubiri uachwe ili yeye achukue nafasi, kuna jamaa wapo uko dm zake kwenye mitandao ya kijamii, kuna jamaa uko ofisini, chuoni, mtaani kwake n.k wanampigia timing.
Utakua mjinga ukifikiri uyo mwanamke wako hawazingatii hawa wanaomtongoza, utakua mjinga zaidi ukimuamini kwa sababu anakuletea kesi za hawa wanaomtongoza. Ukweli ni kwamba atakuambia kuhusu ambao hana interest nao kabisa lakini wale ambao ana interest nao hatokuambia, utakuja kugundua tu tayari ushakua replaced.
Uwezekano wa kukuacha kwa ajiri ya mwanaume mwingine mwenye mafanikio zaidi yako ni mkubwa sana. Uwezekano wa mwanamke kuwa na mafanikio kukuzidi wewe ni mkubwa zaidi. Kumbuka yeye ana thamani ambayo ni mwili wake ni suala la kukutana na mwekezaji kwenye iyo thamani yake lakini wewe hauna thamani unatakiwa kuitengeneza thamani yako.
She may dating you while you are not stable financially but you will be a fool to think she is doing you a favor. The truth is, at that point you are her better option, when the best option show up along the way she will dump you for him without considering your sacrifices.
With women nothing is certain, anything can happen at any time.
Kwanini nakuambia haya?
Sikuambii ili uachane na mwanamke wako, ili umtreat vibaya au umuogope. Nakuambia haya ili na wewe pia uwe na mpango mbadala.
Sasa nisome kwa makini. Ninaposema uwe na mpango mbadala simaanishi kwamba na wewe uwe na circle ya wanawake. Infact iyo itakurudisha nyuma kimaendeleo kwa sababu uhusiano wowote na mwanamke ni liability, kwa maana iyo ukitengeneza circle na wanawake maana yake itakugharimu muda, umakini na rasilimali/hela.
Mpango mbadala ninaoumaanisha ni mafanikio yako. Work hard to be the best version of yourself, be financially stable and build your value. That's is a man's ultimate plan.
Unatakiwa kujua, mwanamke tayari anayo thamani kwenye mwili wake ya kumpa mpango mbadala, lakini mwanaume thamani iyo unatakiwa kuitengeneza kwenye akaunti yako ya benki.
Na hii ndio sababu wewe kama kijana unatakiwa kuacha mara moja kuwekeza kwa mwanamke ili upate sifa za kijinga. Your focus should be investing in yourself, your mind and your financial life. Build yourself and not a woman or relationship.
Don't put yourself under pressure to impress a woman. Women are cheap, are everywhere and almost all of them have just one same thing to offer(their private part). It just a matter of your value, build your value and see how women are senseless with their delusional entitlement.
Ukifeli kimaisha utampoteza uyo mwanamke, utapoteza furaha, amani, uhuru na hautakua na mpango mbadala.
Nilikuwa natafuta sana comment yakoI was all intrigued and enjoying the content until u started using kiswahili...it debases ur valid and intelligent arguments. Please kindly rewrite in english so that i can fully assimilate wat u r saying
Utamu wa bia ni kulewaHivi nyie utamu wa bia mnauoataje mbona mie sioni utamu wake
Nenda direct girl sema mimi ni gay then nafanya advertisement kwenye hii threadsSasa wee mbususu imekushinda utaweza kweli kisoda cha mzabzab 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Jamaa bwana ebu kuwa seeious nawe. Kwani kutokujua kutomber nacho ni kitu cha aibu mzeya? Sii ni sawa tuu na kutokujua kupiga boli ka aziz ki...sio kila mtu duniani atakuwa mtombajiiii mzuri the sonner u make peace with that the better u will enjoy life
Mie mwenyewe hapa najijua na hiki kibamia changu sijui kutomber...wanawachafua tuh wanawake sema ndio hivyo wanaoenda pesa zangu🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ebwana naomba kuuliza ..wee ndio yule makusu aliyekuwa anachezea vita club ya drc?Nilikuwa natafuta sana comment yako
Nakukubali sana Mwamba.....natamani siku moja tukutane live......You are My Role ModelSasa nisome kwa makini. Ninaposema uwe na mpango mbadala simaanishi kwamba na wewe uwe na circle ya wanawake. Infact iyo itakurudisha nyuma kimaendeleo kwa sababu uhusiano wowote na mwanamke ni liability, kwa maana iyo ukitengeneza circle na wanawake maana yake itakugharimu muda, umakini na rasilimali/hela.
Very very true...ndio maana vijana wanapaswa kuambjwa kuwa lazima kidume uwe na mademu watatu at the same time....After a break-up, a woman knows how is next, but you don't.
Think about it!
Huo ndio ukweli, manzi ikikumwaga na ukaona haikutafuti tena, ujue huko ilipomwaga moyo wake, inapata Kila kitu bora zaidi..🤣🤣🤣🤣 Yeye alipewa mbususu hakuitendea haki wacha demu akagegedwe na wengine wanaojua kazi
Sasa suala la ugay na mie wapi na wapi mzeya. Wee tuzisasambue mbusus hizi sawa mwanawane.Nenda direct girl sema mimi ni gay then nafanya advertisement kwenye hii threads
Kuna dogo jana kapost Anataka ushauri achague demu gani kati ya wawili. Yeye mwenyewe umri wake miaka 23.Na hii ndio sababu wewe kama kijana unatakiwa kuacha mara moja kuwekeza kwa mwanamke ili upate sifa za kijinga. Your focus should be investing in yourself, your mind and your financial life. Build yourself and not a woman or relationship.
Jamaa mbishi huyo sasa anaanza nishambulia mie kwa kukubaliana na wewe.Huo ndio ukweli, manzi ikikumwaga na ukaona haikutafuti tena, ujue huko ilipomwaga moyo wake, inapata Kila kitu bora zaidi..
Dunia imemezwa na mfumo jike/feminism, taratibu kizazi cha mwanaume halisi kinaenda kupotea. Lazima tuchukue hatua kabla jahazi halijazama kabisa.Umetema madini sana👍. Sema unapiga spana sana hii gender, nimejaribu kufikiri tu, maybe wayback ulikutana na something ambayo imeku-influence uwapige spana hawa viumbe.
One day tutakutana, kikubwa uhai tu.Nakukubali sana Mwamba.....natamani siku moja tukutane live......You are My Role Model
Nakuombea uzimaOne day tutakutana, kikubwa uhai tu.
Harakati za kupata utelezi zimekua kipingamizi kikubwa sana kwenye maendeleo ya vijana wa kiume wa kizazi cha leoKuna dogo jana kapost Anataka ushauri achague demu gani kati ya wawili. Yeye mwenyewe umri wake miaka 23.
Nilimuonea huruma sana unlesss awe ni Mtoto wa Mwigulu, Chongole au Mtoto wa Kamanda Muliro. Nje ya hapo dogo atafika miaka 40 akiwa amechoka sana