Inspiration

AshaDii said:

Kosa ambalo wengi hufanya ni kulazimisha ukweli kuwa uongo; kwa madai kuwa mzigo uliotuwa ni wa kuusahau na kuupotezea sababu hauko worth it.

Siyo kweli; Mazuri na mabayo yote ni ya kukumbuka maana ndiyo part of what 'defines' us... Kitu chochote kile ambacho umewahi beba hadi likawa 'Mzigo' ambao ukatamani kutua ama kufanikiwa kutua kabisa ni kuwa kuna siku kilistahili kubebwa na wewe, kuna siku kilikushawishi (pengine bila hata kushawishiwa) ukakibeba na ulifurahia kabisa... Haijalishi kuwa ulifurahia briefly, kwa mda mrefu or forever.

What matters ni kuwa huo mzigo in one way or another lazima utakuwa umekujenga, kukukomaza na maybe hata kukuongezea busara kuwa makini sana next time unabeba kitu kwa kuhofia kuwa zigo lisilo bebeka....

Sijui nimeeleweka SnowBall? Hopefully umepata jibu...

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Hi! Pal .. I-didn't-know you r that good in-handling-the stress ... they all have the lessons and we deserved them in one way or another (for our-growth-and some kind of maturity) ...??? So good!!! AND though tough to accept anyway ... I love this cause its the only truth which will keep us strong-against-our stress and always very positive to them!!! ... But AshaDii ... I was expecting your tag kind of..??? what happened? .. I guess you thought its a little stress for me to handle???Lol!-

You know I-don't-handle anything.. stress, pressure any life frictions with EMOTIONS ... AND that makes me free from all sort of its negative outcomes because its the only RIGHT way to deal with stress and get a benefit out of it!! AND the only wrong way to confront a stress is do it with emotions!!!

NB I saw it and thanks!!!! ..the best way is I am-humbled??-:smile-big:

gfsonwin said:

you can only talk like this when you are out dears but ukiwa ndani asiwambie mtu ni ngumu sana.
imagine AshaDii may be may be una mtoto mmoja tu, kish akaugua HIV ambayo ni transmission ya mother to child, wakati anakuwa ukawa unaandamwa na fikra za stigmatization so ukahofia umwanzisha dawa. in few yrs mtoto anaugua unagundua kwamba unyanyapaa hakuna nimwanzishe dawa ila inakuwa too late mtoto anafariki je dhamira itakaa ikome kukusuta??

what will you do kama ni wewe??hapa naomba King'asti, SnowBall, wewe mwenyewe na wengine mnijibu.

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gfsonwin sijui kama nitakuwa nimepatia? The srtess in your case is " dhamira itakaa ikome kukusuta"? au stress kwenye huo mfano itakuwa ni ugonjwa wa mtoto?

Nina maana hiyo glass ya kuachia hapo ni ipi?

Iwe takavyokuwa mtoto kafariki sawa ... Mama hatakuwa na cha Kujifunza? au kuwafunza wenzake?