Yes they are jus words but they are beter than nothing...im not sure kama utaridhika if i were ur bf n i hv done smthing wrong to you and never say a thing....what will you think???? be practical
as for me its better for some one to say she is sorry than to keep quite, mind you to forgive is anothercase!
It seems to me Lara,you don't make mistake at all, I think we all mistakes once and a while, even god commanded us to forgive one another ,forgiving others allows us to overcome feeling of anger, bitterness or revenge, it's healthy too!
Hahahaaaaaaa! HOW IRONIC!!!!!!!!!
YOU DO SOMETHING PURPOSELY THEN YOU ARE SORRY!!!!!!!!! HOW ABOUT NOT DOING IT IN THE FIRST PLACE!!!!! FEEL SORRY FOR ME AND CHOOSE NOT TO DO IT!!!!!!!!!!
I prefer HONEST people who know the depth of their misconduct and punish themselves like disappear from my life! Too ashamed of themselves, too guilty !!!!!!!!!
I HATE HYPOCRITES who have the audacity to do you evil and look you in the eyes like it doesnt matter! Hypocritically sayin they are sorry but in reality all they think "SO WHAT YOU GONNA DO ABOUT IT BIMBO?????
DONT BE SORRY!!!!!!!!!!!
Kulikuwa na mtoto mmoja yatima alielelewa na Master wa kungfuuu mbabu. Mtoto alikuwa kila akikosea anamwambia master wake I AM SORRY! Na master wake humsameheee hapo hapo. Basi ikawa ndo tabia yake kukosea kosea na kuomba msamha na kusamehewa!
Siku akachezea kiberiti na kuunguza nyumba wanayolala! Bahati nzuri akawahi kutoka, basi wakauzima moto ule, na akakimbilia kumtafuta master wake amwambie I AM SORRY kama kawaida yake.
Lakini safarii hii hakufanikiwa kumwambia master wake I AM SORRY sababu alifariki kwa kuungua na ule moto. Yule mtoto alilia sanaaa. Na akaapa to NEVER SAY I AM SORRY or DO ANYTHING THAT HE WILL BE SORRY!
trying to be infallible or what?
Just being REAL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Ukinafanyia kitu mbaya usijikaushe as is nothing happened mazeee!
God damn it! You sis you're really good! I like and admire your thoughts and killing some presentations, I bow down madame!.. you're magnificent.Hahahaaaaaaa! HOW IRONIC!!!!!!!!!
YOU DO SOMETHING PURPOSELY THEN YOU ARE SORRY!!!!!!!!! HOW ABOUT NOT DOING IT IN THE FIRST PLACE!!!!! FEEL SORRY FOR ME AND CHOOSE NOT TO DO IT!!!!!!!!!!
I prefer HONEST people who know the depth of their misconduct and punish themselves like disappear from my life! Too ashamed of themselves, too guilty !!!!!!!!!
I HATE HYPOCRITES who have the audacity to do you evil and look you in the eyes like it doesnt matter! Hypocritically sayin they are sorry but in reality all they think "SO WHAT YOU GONNA DO ABOUT IT BIMBO?????
right, ndo maana baada ya kuona kosa langu, I come and say sorry. you have so far not convinced me that there are guys who will always say it for fun.
Hamna tatizo mkuu, nawakumbusha tu.
Those words I AM SORRY to me dont mean a thing! Yes your sorry! SO WHAT?
How do they undo what you did to me?
How do they erase the pain and anger i am feeling towards you!
How do they justify your selfish actions towards me?
How do they return us to where nothing had happened between us?
I GUESS IN THE END IN REALITY THEY ARE JUST WORDS AND NOTHING MORE!!!!!!!!!!
wakati mwingine hayanaga maana hasa kama mwombaji hakiri kwa dhati na haonyeshi kujutia alichokifanya
Youa are grown man ARENT YOU????? Dont tell me you dont know what is right or wrong!!!!!!!!? Doin somebody bad is A CHOICE SOMEONE MAKES!!!!!!!!!! Not that they didnt know what they were doing was wrong or somethin!
So for me if you CHOSE to do me evil, then dont act like IT AINT YOUR FAULT AND YOU AINT TO BLAME CAUSE IT IS DAMN SURE YOUR FAULT AND YOU ARE TO BLAME!!!!!!! Be a man and face the consequences!!!!!!!
This is why I asked you if you are infallible and you kind of said NO. Being growing up involves appreciating we men are up to making mistakes and be ready to bow, go down to earth and seek apology and be ready to accept the apologies and forgive each other, and not the hard way you putting here, lara1 you almost mean that you never make mistake RIGHT?? because this is the best basis for you not to grant okays to I AM SORRIES because you personally never do wrong, like never Joke,never lie,never get late,never break promise,never over promise,never forget,never get hungry,never have your phone off, RIGHT?
Well, being growing up also involve being in a position to pick up between sincere apologies and fake apologies but this is not a ticket for denying people apologies because they need be smart or what ever you want them be.
The other thing is, seeking apologies, mercies, forgiveness etc is not a common thing in our lives, just like how love have become to be. in our community (africa). and listen careful here, in african, women are rarely asked for forgiveness, go ask your mama how many times your dad had told her I am sorry, lets stop bullying, this is a quite a foreign practice in out lives, just like how LOVE IS.
And, this is not an issue of denying responsibilities or blames,or trying to get away with it, when some one says sorry doen't also mean He tries to avoid the punishment, but rather He is ready to face it, and look into you deciding his or fate, unless you want to take advantage of it and shoot him/her away but if you still find your relationship important, you do not have many options, you either pour tears infront of him/her and let off the weight of hunger you had for him/her or smile and give him a hug.