LEARN TO CONQUER YOUR SEXUAL ORGAN
Think about it. A lot of the confusion and pain in the world is brought about by that small part between our legs. Gentleman, lady; learn to control your sexual urges. The sexual organ when not controlled leads to the following...
1. KEEPS PEOPLE IN RELATIONSHIPS THEY SHOULD NOT BE IN
You know the person is not good for you but you stay because the sex is too good
2. BLINDS LEADERS, KILLS VISIONS
Nations and companies fall, the heart of leaders get corrupted; because the leader at the top is at the mercy of the sex from a foreigner
3. WASTES YOUR YOUTH
Instead of the youth spending their energy and time studying, advancing, debating about issues; they search for sex buddies, search for sex online, they follow booty socialites, they spend hours watching twerk videos, they cling to sponsors, the young ladies destroy the marriages of elderly couples, they look for sex in clubs, in getting high and strip clubs
4. LEADS MANY INTO PAINFUL ABORTIONS
Some find it difficult to heal from the guilt of abortion. They don't know why they keep having sex with people who are not serious about a future with them. Lack of self-control has led to irresponsible fathers who impregnate women and run away
5. LEADS MEN TO SEE WOMEN AS SEX OBJECTS
If a man has no control of his sexual organ, his view of women becomes warped. He rapes women, demeans women, stalks women, sexually abuses women, touches women inappropriately; he becomes a pervert
6. LEADS TO LOVE OF MONEY
The media fueled by peer pressure has led many to believe that the more money you have, the more women you get to sleep with. It has led women to cheapen themselves, bought sexually to the highest or any bidder. It has made men desire wealth simply to get women and the highest priced sex
7. DESTROYS CAREERS AND DESTINIES
So many great people or people who have had great potential have been brought down by sex scandals. If not, they spend the rest of their lives rising up from the damage of being caught in improper sexual relations
8. LEADS PEOPLE AWAY FROM GOD
One of the easiest ways to drive yourself away from God is when you engage in sexual activity that you know is wrong. Your conscience convicts you but you deliberately rebel; the greater your rebellion, the further you move from God. So many know that the one thing they need to do in order to be at peace with God is to have self control in matters of sex; but they choose to disobey
9. REDUCES THE MEANING OF GOOD RELATIONSHIPS
A lot of people in young relationships that could have matured into something deep and lasting; feel that their relationship has become empty and motivated only by sex because they engaged in sex too early. Now sex has started and they don't know how to undo it; deep down, each feels if they stop having sex, the other will think they are no longer loved
10. BLINDS US FROM THE MORE IMPORTANT THINGS IN LIFE
Our society has become over sexualized. So many social issues need our attention, so much to do to take Africa forward, so many visions to accomplish, so many lives crying for help, so many souls hurting; but instead of allocating adequate time to address those meaningful things, we chase after sex. There are few meaningful friendships. Once our hearts become consumed with lust, we become lesser people. We are having so much sex, but very little intimacy and human connections
11. TURNS YOU INTO A SLAVE
Some are getting jobs and promotions by sleeping with people in power. They do this using sex as a short cut. Not knowing that when someone gives you benefits, a job or promotions in exchange for your sexual favours, you become their slave; they have dominated you
12. TRAPS YOU IN ADDICTIONS
With alcohol, easily comes more casual sex; people do sexual things that they end up regretting and blaming it on the bottle. Lack of sexual control has trapped others in pornography; destroying their self esteem and wasting their time and money constantly chasing after a new sexual thrill with images and videos
13. BLINDS JUDGEMENT
The more we lack self-control, the more our judgement becomes impaired. We make decisions thinking with our vagina and penis. We keep wondering why we mess up
14. DESTROYS MARRIAGES AND HOMES
Unfaithfulness is the surest way to destroy your marriage. It cuts deep to know the one you call husband/wife can get naked with another and sex another. Completely forgetting about you and your marriage vows and gets hard and wet for another, and allows another man inside them or enters inside another woman. If that spouse can disrespect you and reject you sexually, their heart is saying you are no good, of no value
If only we learn to control our sexual urges, less people would hurt, marriages would stand, we would think clearly and have more meaningful interactions. Don't let your penis or vagina lead you, lead your penis and vagina. If you have been guilty of being sexually mislead, it's time to take control of your sexuality. You have no right to call yourself a grown adult if you cannot control that small part of your body that is between your legs.
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