He wants it before taking shower....

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msikieni SOPHY

My name is Sophy. Been going out this guy for 3 months now. He is a very caring and nice guy and we love each other so much. But there are some things he does that really irritate me. First of all, when he comes from work, he wants to immediately make love to me without taking a shower. This drives me crazy. And when i tell him to take a shower first, he tells me iam not being exciting. He also does not like kissing at all and also does not want Foreplay, he wants to shoot the penalty immediately before he passes the ball and dribbles. No matter what i tell him or how much i try to teach him, he says iam wasting time and he just wants to get in immediately. Seriously iam not enjoying lovemaking at all. Is there any hope of him changing?
 
Complaining here won't solve a thing! It is him you were supposed to be telling this.
 
haha huyo jamaa anakuwa ametoka kugongwa ndio mana anakuja kwa kasi kabla mzuka haujaisha, hao wapo wengi hawagongi mpaka wagongwe, wakitoka kugongwa hata chakula kiwe mezani hawezi kula chakula kwanza lazima amuite mamsapu kwanza chumbani , anajua akisubiri mpaka ale mzuka utakuwa umeisha hivyo atakuwa hawezi kugonga tena
 
Oh poor... you just having sex and not making love...!
 
mmh hii kali mpaka aliwe ili naje aje ale ha ha ha
 
nitavumilia vyoote ila mapenzi kama ya nguruwe nooo
 
Leave him, asap
 
after there let him relax take shower and ask him for second round with summersolting,dribleling, acrobaticking etc if only not a ms..... baridi.
 

Dear Sophy,
Most of the problems in love - relations are actually due to the art of lovemaking. Nevertheless, in this age, most men do know the significance of their participation in the whole process of making love. For this case of yours, I real suggest that you make some research before you decide otherwise (3 months is very short period of time). Here are the things that probably one would like to know before he/she provide you with a word of advice.
1. How old is he?
2. How old are you?
3. What plans do you two have regarding your love affair? i.e., long term/short term.
All these issues do play an important role, (particularly to a man) when comes the issue of lovemaking. Also, you may need to convince yourself that the guy is not having an affair before he comes back to you.
:confused3:
 
Unamaanisha jamaa ni 'bwabwa'
 
Inawezekana jamaa ni mvivu wa kuoga halafu girl wake kamtafsiri vingine
 
Your thread poses more questions than answers girl; do you mean, love/sex is only done when he comes from work? what about other times eg. after dinner, in the mid-night or morning? if you do sex at these other times, what happens? what sorts of scenario can you tell? if you don't, do you have any explanation(s)? This sounds strange if not a fabrication, otherwise both of you, have problems...
 
Hakuna kiss, foreplay na mnapendana sana usemavyo. Wewe unajuaje anakupenda hivyo na hataki kukusikiliza?
Kwani ananuka akitoka kazini ndio lazima aoge?
Mapenzi ni muda wowote kama unampenda usingetoa masharti.

HAMPENDANI NYIE
 
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