Yes I am....... Sijawahi kukosa relationship ya kimapenzi kwa sababu hiyo but nimekosa friendship na watu kadhaa.
He is nice but too lowd, she is sweet but dumb, interesting but too wild ........
I have been living in a perfectionist culture for a long time, and it does not allow any 'buts'.....
"better not to have than have something filled with but" that is the basic principle of this culture
siipendi culture hiyo but papo kwa papo Kamba hukata jiwe.......so I guess inaniathiri bila kujua sometimes