A Man can love without marry you

A man can love you and not marry you.

A man can have $ex with you for years without marrying you.

But immediately he finds someone who brings stability in his life, he marries her.

Men are visionaries when they think about marriage, they do not think about wedding dresses, bridesmaids, anything the woman thinks is fanciful.

They think that this woman can build me a home.

Women are tender, they have the capacity to receive and reproduce.

You give her groceries, she prepares a meal, you give her money, she gives you peace, you give her sperm and she gives you children.

You give it discomfort, it becomes your worst nightmare and most men know it. This is why a man can stay with a woman for years and meet another in a month, then get married.

It's the stability they want.

Sex is a pleasure, love is an affection, RESPECT is stability
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Mkuu. English kama ya jiwe

Sawa

Haya kwa wanaolalamikia lugha,
Mwanaume anaweza kukupenda na asikuoe.

Mwanaume anaweza kuwa na ngono na wewe kwa miaka bila kukuoa.

Lakini mara tu anapokutana na mtu anayemletea uthabiti katika maisha yake, anamuoa.

Mwanaume ni mtazamaji mbele anapofikiria kuhusu ndoa, hawafikirii mavazi ya harusi, wasaidizi wa bibi harusi, chochote kile kinachowazia mwanamke kuwa ni cha kupendeza.

Wanapofikiria ndoa, wanawazia kama mwanamke huyu anaweza kujenga nyumbani kwangu.

Wanawake ni wanyenyekevu, wana uwezo wa kupokea na kuzalisha.

Unapompatia chakula, anakupikia mlo, unapompatia pesa, anakuletea amani, unapompatia mbegu, anakuletea watoto.

Unapompatia usumbufu, anakuwa ndoto yako mbaya zaidi na wanaume wengi wanajua hilo. Hii ndiyo sababu mwanaume anaweza kuwa na mwanamke kwa miaka kisha kukutana na mwingine ndani ya mwezi mmoja, kisha kuoana.

Wanachotaka ni uthabiti.

Ngono ni furaha, mapenzi ni hisia, HESHIMA ni uthabiti.

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