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What Does Confidence Really Mean?

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by herrypeter1, Aug 2, 2012.

  1. herrypeter1

    herrypeter1 JF-Expert Member

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    Even if you’re not feeling fly like Bruno Mars, try and act like you are, but don’t try too hard, because that’s obvious and a turnoff

    We hear a lot about confidence as a key factor of attraction, but many men don't quite understand what, exactly, is meant by "confidence." So I would ask the lovely ladies: To you, what is an example of confidence in a man, and what is an example/sign of a lack of confidence

    Nine times out of 10, when you ask a woman what attracts her to a man, she'll reply with one simple word (as if it were just so straightforward and obvious): "confidence." If I were a man, specifically one who is soliciting advice, as I presume many of you are, I think I would find that reply to be incredibly frustrating, quite limiting and all around just pretty unhelpful. So, with that in mind, I’m going to try and explain this mythological “confidence” -- how to get it, what it looks like and also how women can spot a man who is faking it or overcompensating for his lack thereof.

    Confidence is an attitude, a demeanor of coolness, a “swagger,” if you will. Confidence is not something that you can wear like a T-shirt or a gold watch, but it is something that can be enhanced by putting on a fresh, crisp new item of clothing or by putting a little extra effort into your physical appearance. It’s a certain pep in your step. A way of walking. A contagious charisma. It’s seductive. It makes all people, not just women, gravitate toward a man and want to be around him, in the hopes of catching just a little bit of his energy. And also to see what else he’s got going on underneath that, and most important, whether or not he can back it up. Contrary to what many men have been wrongly brainwashed by the media to believe, you do not have to be rich to have confidence.
     
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    IGWE JF-Expert Member

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    Kiinglish happa naseppa bila kurudi nyuma...lo!
     
  3. Nyani Ngabu

    Nyani Ngabu Platinum Member

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    Did you write this on your own or you lifted it from somewhere? Be honest, please.
     
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    herrypeter1 JF-Expert Member

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    Be honest please???????? ni kama wataka nipa kazi ati kwa vile naandika>>>>>>><<<<<<<<<<<<<<
     
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    Nyani Ngabu Platinum Member

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    Wewe hii umeinakili kutoka hapa. Safari ijayo utoe attribution.
     
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    Confidence simply means belief in yourself and belief in your abilities, kwisha.
     
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    Nyani Ngabu Platinum Member

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    Mkuu Mchambuzi kumbe na huku unakujaga? Mi nilidhani we ni muzee wa siasa tu.
     
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    umerahisisha mno
    wapo watu mfano kina Bill Gates
    wako very accomplished kwenye maeneo yao
    but ukimuweka kwenye lift na mdada yeyote mzuri
    'hana confidence hata ya kutoa hi anabaki kutetemeka tu'
     
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    Safari_ni_Safari JF-Expert Member

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    You are damn right.......I caught him brother... What Does Confidence Mean? - AskMen
     
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    Nyani Ngabu Platinum Member

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    Boss wewe ndo nadhani hujamuelewa Mchambuzi. Kama Bill Gates ukimuweka kwenye elevator na mdada mzuri na akashindwa kutoa hata hi na akabaki anatetemeka basi atakuwa hana 'belief in himself and his abilities.

    Mchambuzi's line is concise and to the point.
     
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    Yaaaaaaah
     
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    when u have as much as gates, ladies will just throw themselves at u.

    on topic: confidence is believing that u have what it takes to make it in w/e u choose
     
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    sasa kama Bill Gates atakuwa hana confidence na haamini hi ability

    kwa sababu ya a girl.....

    na upande wa success zake je?
    amewezaje kuwa successful?
     
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    eheee nilipata kufurai ona watu wa jf mnajua nanyi kuwa mpo apaaaa askmen.com
    mwapata kutumia na kuelewa jinsi yetu in finding information
     
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    Confidence

    is a noun

    meaning ... trust, belief, faith, credence, conviction,.....
     
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    You can't be good in everything. Kama Bill Gates ni successful katika mambo ya innovation na entrepreneurship hiyo haimaanishi hata kwa totoz atakuwa mack daddy.

    Michael Jordan is the greatest basketball player ever but that doesn't mean he can rap like Lil' Wayne or run like Usain Bolt.

    Kwa hiyo Bill Gates ameweza kuwa na mafanikio katika fani yake kwa sababu anaamini kuwa ana uwezo katika hiyo fani. Uwezo katika fani moja ama mbili haimaanishi uwezo katika fani zote.
     
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    sasa hapa sio sawa na kusema confidence is believing in urself and your abilities....
    kwa sababu unaweza kuwa na confidence kwenye jambo moja
    na usiwe na confidence kwa mengine

    so Mchambuzi hajajibu swali la muanzisha mada
     
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    Bosi The Boss nadhani no matter how successful you are, inawezekana kuna areas ukawa weak. Say you are very good in bed and you are confident about it but when it comes to work you perfom miserably so you cant be successful in everything
     
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    not all the time
     
  20. Nyani Ngabu

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    Mchambuzi kasema "Confidence simply means belief in yourself and belief in your abilities". Sioni ambacho Mchambuzi hajajibu maana alichoandika kiko self explanatory.
     
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