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Magoya2000

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Relationships are one thing that can mess up your life. Be careful. Pray and be sensible when falling in love. Love can turn a bright future into a miserable life. It's painful to know that the person you love is actually in love with someone else

It's even more painful to fall in love with a person who has another thing in mind. Every relationship is a game of risk. No one can say which one is really going to work. Some relationship mistakes can cause a lifetime regret.

Search for a good heart and not a beautiful face. Beautiful things are not always good but good things are always beautiful. Age and pressure are never a reason to date or marry. If you are single, sometimes it means God is putting you on reserve for the person you deserve....

Don't allow the rate of marriages these days makes you feel left out.. Not all marriages are normal.

..some are suicide mission while some marriages are motivated by Sexual urge and money greed. No love in it. Be careful who you date..the heart of a man is only known by his GOD

Forget face, shape, fame, qualification or money. All these things become Irrelevant in just 5 years into the marriage.

And never date someone you know deep down you cannot Marry.

May we not choose wrongly.
 
"And never date someone you know deep down you cannot Marry" You started so well but till this statement, do u care to clarify that? Like what if by dating deep-down u realize that's the person u need to marry... I feel like by explaining the pressure was enough to give depth to your statements, these things don't have formular and here u r trying to create for it... You can get a good face with a good heart and a bad face with bad heart as well
 
Finding the right partner feels like a whole lot of work. There are so many moving parts to a relationship–attractiveness, trust, honesty, communication, intimacy, sex life, etc.–that it may feel like there’s no hope in finding a partner that you can spend your life with.

Choosing a wife or a husband isn’t hard because it’s impossible. It’s hard because we go about it the wrong way. We look outward to the world and hope we can find someone to complete us rather than looking inward at ourselves and making ourselves whole first.

5 tips for making a wise decision while choosing the right life partner​

Selecting the right life partner is pivotal for lasting happiness. Explore these five essential tips to make a wise and fulfilling choice:

  1. Prioritize a partner who aligns with your core values and life goals to ensure a harmonious long-term relationship.
  2. Choose someone with whom you can openly and honestly communicate, fostering understanding and resolving conflicts constructively.
  3. Assess emotional intelligence and compatibility as these factors contribute to a supportive and resilient partnership.
  4. A healthy relationship requires mutual respect. Ensure your partner respects you, your opinions, and your autonomy.
  5. Look for a partner committed to a shared long-term vision, as this fosters stability and a sense of security in your future together.


marriage.com
 
Magoya2000 said:
Relationships are one thing that can mess up your life. Be careful. Pray and be sensible when falling in love. Love can turn a bright future into a miserable life. It's painful to know that the person you love is actually in love with someone else

It's even more painful to fall in love with a person who has another thing in mind. Every relationship is a game of risk. No one can say which one is really going to work. Some relationship mistakes can cause a lifetime regret.

Search for a good heart and not a beautiful face. Beautiful things are not always good but good things are always beautiful. Age and pressure are never a reason to date or marry. If you are single, sometimes it means God is putting you on reserve for the person you deserve....

Don't allow the rate of marriages these days makes you feel left out.. Not all marriages are normal.

..some are suicide mission while some marriages are motivated by Sexual urge and money greed. No love in it. Be careful who you date..the heart of a man is only known by his GOD

Forget face, shape, fame, qualification or money. All these things become Irrelevant in just 5 years into the marriage.

And never date someone you know deep down you cannot Marry.

May we not choose wrongly.
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''...in reserve for the person you deserve''. This is more lyrical.

Even though, relationship things and a lot of tantalila are meant for women.

Men just dont care.
 
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Finding the right partner feels like a whole lot of work. There are so many moving parts to a relationship–attractiveness, trust, honesty, communication, intimacy, sex life, etc.–that it may feel like there’s no hope in finding a partner that you can spend your life with.

Choosing a wife or a husband isn’t hard because it’s impossible. It’s hard because we go about it the wrong way. We look outward to the world and hope we can find someone to complete us rather than looking inward at ourselves and making ourselves whole first.

5 tips for making a wise decision while choosing the right life partner​

Selecting the right life partner is pivotal for lasting happiness. Explore these five essential tips to make a wise and fulfilling choice:

  1. Prioritize a partner who aligns with your core values and life goals to ensure a harmonious long-term relationship.
  2. Choose someone with whom you can openly and honestly communicate, fostering understanding and resolving conflicts constructively.
  3. Assess emotional intelligence and compatibility as these factors contribute to a supportive and resilient partnership.
  4. A healthy relationship requires mutual respect. Ensure your partner respects you, your opinions, and your autonomy.
  5. Look for a partner committed to a shared long-term vision, as this fosters stability and a sense of security in your future together.


marriage.com
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All these talks about respect either way, what's more though?
 
Sijui kwanini maandiko yakiwa kwa kingeleza yanavutia na kuonesha ukubwa wa jambo.
Ukiligeuza hili andiko kuwa kiswahili watu watalichukulia poa poa.
 
Take your time, patience is the key

Just wait and see

Use your head, though your heart may not agree

And think, Is this the one for me?

Possibly, if you just take your time

And choose wisely
 
You never mentioned the parents
Wao ndio mizizi na kuna matawi
Ukitaka kuoa sio tu kuchagua unaangalia mama yukoje pia na baba pia, je wametoka katika familia yenye adabu?

Wengine wanapata wenza wao kama ni kazini au kilabuni au kwenye buses, bila kujua wazazi wao baadae ukiibiwa unasema hii tabia kaipata wapi?
Hii ni kwa pande zote mbili
 
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