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Wanawake mnisaidie, elezeni kuhusu hili

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Sharp Observer, Oct 21, 2011.

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    Sharp Observer Member

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    Habari ndugu zangu.
    Juzi nilisafiri kwa basi toka arusha kuelekea mbeya kwa shughuli zangu binafsi. Tulifika makambako jioni jioni, dereva akasimama ili tuchimbe dawa halafu safari iendelee. Nikiwa napunga kaupepo kwa angalau dakika mbili, pembeni yangu nilimsikia mwanamke akimuuliza mtu kwenye simu, "Naomba please uniambie jina la ile dawa tunayotumia kuogeshea watoto tunapoanza kuchakachua". Dada huyu alionekana kuwa mjamzito. Akaendelea kuongea, then baadaye akakata simu tukapanda basi na safari ikaendelea. Tulifika Mbeya salama.

    Sasa naomba wanawake wenye uelewa wa jambo hili wanifahamishe. Kwanza hiyo dawa inafanya kazi gani? Inaitwaje? je kuna madhara kwa mtoto pale mwanamke anapochakachua (kujamiana) na mwanaume aliyezaa naye au mwanaume mwingine zaidi ya mwanaume aliyezaa naye (kazi za nje)?

    Nina hamu ya kutaka kujua jambo hili kwa undani.

    NB: Naomba mwenye ufahamu anijulishe
     
  2. feis buku

    feis buku JF-Expert Member

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    shukuru mlifika mbea salama! mengine ya ngoswe muachie ngoswe!!
     
  3. Gaijin

    Gaijin JF-Expert Member

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    Sayansi ya mzungu haitambui kubemenda (nilisikia kuhusu kudemenda JF kwa mara ya kwanza)
     
  4. Rose1980

    Rose1980 JF-Expert Member

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    kaka umezunguka dahhh..kwanini usingesimamisha hoja moja kwamoja tu kwamba...JAMAN NATAFUTA DAWA ILI NISIBEMEMNDE MWANANGU...mwanangu bado mdg na ninataka kuendeleza JUDO sasa nifanyeje ili nisimdhuru mtoto?

    km kuna dawa bas inaitwaje?

    je na mke wangu akienda kupigwa nje kuna madhara kwa mtoto?


    aya mambo ya kawaida saaaaaaaana hayaitaj tafsida panapo kuuliza

    Karibu chai bas..napata tea na kiporo cha wali na maharage ya naz.....njoo tule tukimaliza ntakuambia dwa ikoje ,utaipata wap..na unatumiaje..USIPOKUJA NO DAWA.

    NAWASILISHA...
     
  5. Rose1980

    Rose1980 JF-Expert Member

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    mhh i kitu ipo mumy..na si kila kitu lazima kipitishwe na wazungu ili kiwe sahihi...

    kipo sana na ndiyo maana wazee wetu walitafuta dawa ya ili swala....umeshawai kuish vijijin?au uswahilini kule typico?

    watu wanabemenda sana ..ukiacha utapiamlo/malaria na maradh mengne swala lingine linalosumbua watoto ni kubemendwa...

    assume we una mtoto wa mwezi mmmoja ivi afu daily unapga kaz za nje...sometimes na wanaume tofauti ahh lazima mtoto ataisoma namba ..lazima adhurike ata km kanuni nyingne za lishe na mambo yote ya sayansi kimu unazingatia bt stl mtoto atadhurika ....sjui kukuelezea kitaalamu cz m nr medical pasonee bt ivo ndo najua kwa kuona na kusikia pia

    na km ukiwa na mimba kule uswahilini mambo ya kukuambia wakat wa malez ya mtoto ni ayo..we mwanaweee kuwa makini uyu kiumbe atak uchafu...usije kumb emenda..usiruke ruke......ata km tukienda kwa HKL wanasema kuwa LISEMWALO LIPO...


    WAZUNGU SI KILA KITU KWAMBA WAKISEMA WAO/LIKITOKEA KWAO NDO KWELI/SAHIHI
     
  6. Jmturu

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    Kaka hayo yapo,kila mtu anayafaham kwa upeo wake.
    Kwa ushauri mzuri we mtafute mtaalam wa afya kwani hlo n tatizo la kiafya zaidi.
     
  7. S

    Sharp Observer Member

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    Sasa nyumbani kwako wapi? Acha utani, tell if you know. Halafununapenda kula sana
     
  8. S

    Sharp Observer Member

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    Basi naomba huo upeo wako
     
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    Kaunga JF-Expert Member

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    Ni kati ya imani zinazosaidia jamii kuishi kwa maadili tu! Hakuna shida yoyote labda mangonjwa ambapo vimelea vyake vinafika hadi kwenye Maziwa ya mama!
     
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    Eiyer JF-Expert Member

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    Nimecheka sana niliposoma post yako Rose1980!
     
  11. Gaijin

    Gaijin JF-Expert Member

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    Sijawahi ishi kijijini wala uswahili typical (kama ulivyoita), ila mimi binafsi siamini kitu kisichoweza kuthibitishwa kisayansi.

    Sasa kama mtu ataamua kufata mila ambazo hazijathibitishwa ki sayansi ni khiari yake, ila sayansi haitambui kubemenda wala mimi sikuwahi kuisikia mjini

    Suala linakuja, unajuaje kuwa mtoto ameathiriwa na kubemendwa?
     
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    MADAM T JF-Expert Member

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    Kumbe na suala la kubemenda limeongelewa na mleta uzi! Ngoja nilitafute halafu nitaliongelea....
     
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    Mamndenyi JF-Expert Member

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    Wanaume wa miaka hii wanaamini mama unapokuwa unanyonyesha umeshafuka,
    ndiyo chanzo cha kutafuta totoz nje,
    kwa afya ya mtoto siyo nzuri kwani lile jasho unalotoka nalo huko nje linamzuru mtoto.
    unakuta hata mtoto anachelewa kukaa, kutambaa hata kutembea kwa ajili hiyo.
    kwani kumngoja mkeo walau 40 days unashindwa nini??????????
     
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    lolyz JF-Expert Member

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    Dawa ya kudumu ni kukaa na mke/mme wako na wote mkubali kuacha kazi za nje sasa hizo dawa jamani mtakuwa mnampa mtoto kila siku ?si katakomaa kabla ya siku zake?mbona ss wengne tuna watoto na hawajabemendwa au ss hatuna feelings?
     
  15. The Boss

    The Boss JF-Expert Member

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    mimi huwa najiuliza hili.madhara ya kubemendwa kama yapo yanakwisha lini?
    au anayapata mtu milele???????
    akiwa mtu mzima atakuwa tofauti vipi na wengine?
     
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    Tafuta mti unaitwa mmalala chuma majani yake halafu yachemshe
    uchanganye na majani ya Likanayuma ambayo yametwangwa bila
    kuchemshwa halafu chemsha mizizi ya mnabuhulile ukimaliza koroga
    na miti ya chikandanga ambayo imelowekwa. Utakuwa unakunywa
    kabla ya Tendo la ndoa ni dawa safi sana hiyo!
     
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    Ave Ave Maria JF-Expert Member

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    Hivi kubemenda ndo kunakuwaje kuwaje jamani? Nasikiaga tu wanaongea!
     
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    Ndugu yangu sisi wazazi tunayajua. Kua uyaone wanajf wote lio wazazi mtakubaliana nami, but sori i beg to differ, shukuru sana wazazi wako hukubemendwa.
     
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    Bondpost JF-Expert Member

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    Ndugu yangu sisi wazazi tunayajua. Kua uyaone wanajf wote lio wazazi mtakubaliana nami, but sori i beg to differ, shukuru sana wazazi wako hukubemendwa.
     
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    Jeji JF-Expert Member

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    mkuu huu msamiati ni wa kabila gani??
     
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