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Tips on Women and How to Date Them

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by chriss brown, Jan 6, 2012.

  1. chriss brown

    chriss brown JF-Expert Member

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    Whether you want to find women to date on an occasional basis or are looking to start a long-term relationship, your success depends on a variety of factors. While every woman is different, there are a few key elements you can concentrate on that may help boost your ability to maintain a romantic relationship.



    • [h=2]Make Her Feel Irreplaceable[/h]
      • Most beings have a desire to feel needed, and women are no exception to this rule. Use reassuring words to let your mate know just how irreplaceable she is to you. Contrast the pitfalls of your past relationships to the positive aspects of your current one, or thank her for the small things she does for you on a daily basis. Actions like these can also help point out your attentiveness to her effort in the relationship.

      [h=2]Be Thoughtful[/h]
      • Make your mate feel special by putting in extra effort when you interact with her. This can include surprising her with random gifts or an impromptu evening out. Also, try sacrificing your own desires so you can instead do something that she enjoys. If your mate has a headache or sore muscle, offering to massage the affected area to help ease her pain without being asked can show how much you care about her personal well-being and comfort.

      [h=2]Be Confident[/h]
      • Attraction isn't something that women debate over. People generally feel attraction upon first contact with another individual. While being the nice, quiet guy may work for a select few, women are more apt to notice a man who is confident and more in-control than those around him. The first thing to change when you want to exhibit more confidence is your mindset. Rather than thinking of yourself as someone who needs to be richer or more successful to attract women, think of yourself as someone who is already meeting those standards, and use this new motivation to find the woman of your dreams.

      [h=2]Communicate Effectively[/h]
      • Communicating with your mate requires participating in the relationship as an active listener. Women do not want to feel that conversations are a one-way street, but rather seek some sort of indication that you are participating in the dialogue exchange. Always try to discuss things on an even level, and make a point to make eye contact and continue to hold your partner's gaze throughout the conversation. Try to keep yourself from reacting irrationally when you are conversing with her, and keep yourself from overreacting to any statements that are made during the conversation.


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  2. Kongosho

    Kongosho JF-Expert Member

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    Asante!
    Ngoja nika-apply kwa mtu fulani
    anasumbua mbaya sana.
     
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    Kilahunja JF-Expert Member

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    And wot bout the tips 4 dudes?
     
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    Eiyer JF-Expert Member

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    Hii inawahusu na wale wa kule Bariadi?
     
  5. V

    Victor Jeremiah Member

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    hapo kwenye point 4-comunicate effectively- tuwe waangalifu hapo. ukicommunicate na huyo mtu wako, if it is for first time, unampigia simu au kumwandikia sms,wiki ya kwanza, ya pili,ya tatu bado upo 2,yeye ndo kwanza ameweka miguu juu,kusubiri simu zako/sms zako, hajisumbui kukutafuta,akijitahidi nI kujibu tu sms zako, PIGA CHINI,HAMTAFIKA MBALI, Kama tu unamaanisha/serious
    kama ni mtu wako wa muda mrefu,mwambie ukweli, kuwa evey human being has a desire to feel needed. ni mtazamo wangu tu
     
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    Victor Jeremiah Member

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    you were not born to get hurt,angalia TAA NYEKUNDU MAPEMA KABLA HUJAMUINGIZA MTU MOYONI ZAIDI,IKAKUCOST
     
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    Mimi nilidhani vile vitabu vya Mills&Boon viliacha kuandikwa kumbe bado vipo?
    Hizi tips will work wonders to Form 2 girls or anybody who owns CDs by Marlow and Lady Jaydee ... A bucket to puke please
     
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    Jestina JF-Expert Member

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    wengine wanaleta topic they dont understand women,wengine mnaleta topic kuwa ni maexpert when it comes to women...dah!
     
  9. fazaa

    fazaa JF-Expert Member

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    Hawa wanawake wasiku hizi , unadhani watangojea mpaa usome hizo tips...Si watakuona stupid tu.
     
  10. Lizzy

    Lizzy JF-Expert Member

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    Yani tips unazo na kazi zinafanya ila yule girlfriend wako umeshindwa kumuweka mikononi? Kaaazi kweli kweli.
     
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    lizzy,girlfriend wangu amerudi bana..ndo maana nkaandika.
     
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    Lizzy JF-Expert Member

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    Leo hii hii tips zimefanya kazi?
     
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    fazaa JF-Expert Member

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    Hahaha c ndo ajabu hio.
     
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    chriss brown JF-Expert Member

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    amini usiamini lizzy,mnajijua nyie wasichana,and when you fade up,u fade up for real..i kam down,and start to talk to her.mambo yameisha,tuko poa now.wanawake mnapenda kubembelezwa sana..kuna jamaa kanipm,eti mwanamke akikuchunia,mchunie mwezi mzima,nililomjibu sidhan kama atani pm tena..kumchunia msichana,tena mwanaume,huo ni ushamba wa mapenzi.fungukeni.
     
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    Ralphryder JF-Expert Member

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    Women are unpredictable creatures! When she says no,she means maybe,and when she says maybe she means yes! Watchout when she says "yes" you won't beleave what'll happen next!
     
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    niliposema mawasiliano,i mean,si kwamba umtext kila mara,mtoe mtoto out,nendeni mkatembee,kuwa nae karibu,siyo kwa text,wala kumpigia simu,wanawake wanachoshwa na mapenzi ya namna hiyo,ndo maana mwingine ukimtext,hakujibu,ninapo maanisha communication,siyo text na calls,kuwa nae karibu physical..text,calls zinachosha,what is needed is the true love and not real love..mtu yupo zanzibar,na wewe upo zanzibar,eti mnawasiliana kwenye simu,facebook,au jf..chukua mtoto wkend,kaa nae karibu,hayo ndo mawasiliano,si ya simu,au kungojea text.au kusikilizia atanitext leo?.mapenz ya kitoto hayo.fungukeni
     
  17. Lizzy

    Lizzy JF-Expert Member

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    Hahahahaha. . . huyo jamaa sijui kafikiria nini!!

    Nwy kwahiyo wewe siku zote ulikua unafanya nini mpaka mzungushane hivyo muda wote huo?
     
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    Lizzy JF-Expert Member

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    Ajabu haswa. . .
    Inaonekana tips nazo zina maajabu yake.Fanyieni kazi mwenzenu kafanikiwa.
     
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    Mwali JF-Expert Member

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    Ninacho pendea JF (home of great thinkers) ni hizi generalization, kwamba kuna abracadabra fulani ukisema wanawake wote wanaanguka. lol
     
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    chriss brown JF-Expert Member

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    Mambo ya kusikilizia msg,na kals,yan ujinga tu dah!,nlikuwa nki mtext au kumkal mng,i expect mchana afanye yeye..asipofanya,basi,na take kama anamwingine anayemtext na kumkal,kumbe kadem kalichoka mawasiliano tu,ana expect text iwe hivii Dear wkend hii twende beach..siyo mpenzi umeshakunywa chai?umelala?umeamka?umeoga?unafanya nini?umefua?karibu tunywe uji..Ameniambia leo alichoshwa na mambo hayo..haaaaaa,WOMEN!!.
     
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