Ngabu na wanawe

Nyani Ngabu

Nyani Ngabu

Platinum Member
May 15, 2006
92,232
113,610
What's good JF-MMU nation.

I hope y'all are hunky-dory just as I am.

So let's get right to it and set aside all pretenses, fronting, machismo, the fear of honest emotions, the usual BS and talk about some real life stuff.

And in the interest of full disclosure, I am a dad of one [hopefully I'll be able to add another one in the not so distant future but I'll cross that bridge when I get to it]. An amazing, adorable and uber-intelligent young miss lady. I love her to death and I literally mean it.

I think I may be different but I don't know and that's the very reason why I thought of involving you all.

I have a soft-spot for children. That I will admit with no hesitation, qualification, or equivocation. I love children.

In that vein, I enjoy daddyhood very much. I enjoy every single solitary second of it.

Sometimes I wish my little miss lady shouldn't grow. There are times I wish she remained a tot forever.

However, I know that's pie in the sky.

There will come a time where she'll be interested in boys [no matter how deep in denial I am] and maybe one day I'll walk her down the aisle.

Nevertheless, I'm keeping my powder dry for whatever challenges that may come up.

So what do I love most about daddyhood? Everything...and I mean everything. I enjoyed changing diapers, giving baths, feeding, making the bottle, burping her, singing lullabies, pushing the stroller, you name it.

I even enjoyed those sleepless nights...especially when you have to be to work at 7 in the morning and she wakes you up at around 3am thinking it's time to play and she won't go to sleep till like 5am or so.

Or refusing to sleep alone in her crib and walking over and climbing on your king-sized bed and catching some Zs right next to you till daybreak.

Watching a child grow is surreal. It's like an out of body experience.

The little tiny baby that could barely open her eyes after you put her in the bassinet now is a young lady with an ever expanding vocabulary that leaves me speechless at times.

Anyway I could write a weighty tome just gushing about her but that would be selfish of me and it would defeat the purpose of this thread, which is to share daddyhood experiences.

So you are all welcome to share your experiences - good and bad [if there's is any]. What did you or what do you like most about being a dad?

One thing I know for a fact is daddyhood is not for the faint of heart or stomach, for that matter.

And good dads don't measure their self-worth by their paychecks. Good dads know that their children need more of their presence than presents.

Good dads...I yield the floor to you.....bienvenidos.

 
Mungu mkubwa, una binti?! Basi piga picha ule ukwale wako kwa mabinti za watu atakavyokuwa anaupata kwa kipimo kilekile.

Kweli muosha huoshwa.
 
Mkuu hii kitu kama mimi ila sina chakufanya ni nature inatake place hivyo tuvumilie.
 
Sijui sana hii lugha ya malkia na natamani ningeifahamu na kuflow

But I think I got your point that you have a GREAT LOVE to your daughter....that's perfect n Congratulations.
 
Nyani Ngabu said:
What's good JF-MMU nation.

I hope y'all are hunky-dory just as I am.

So let's get right to it and set aside all pretenses, fronting, machismo, the fear of honest emotions, the usual BS and talk about some real life stuff.

And in the interest of full disclosure, I am a dad of one [hopefully I'll be able to add another one in the not so distant future but I'll cross that bridge when I get to it]. An amazing, adorable and uber-intelligent young miss lady. I love her to death and I literally mean it.

I think I may be different but I don't know and that's the very reason why I thought of involving you all.

I have a soft-spot for children. That I will admit with no hesitation, qualification, or equivocation. I love children.

In that vein, I enjoy daddyhood very much. I enjoy every single solitary second of it.

Sometimes I wish my little miss lady shouldn't grow. There are times I wish she remained a tot forever.

However, I know that's pie in the sky.

There will come a time where she'll be interested in boys [no matter how deep in denial I am] and maybe one day I'll walk her down the aisle.

Nevertheless, I'm keeping my powder dry for whatever challenges that may come up.

So what do I love most about daddyhood? Everything...and I mean everything. I enjoyed changing diapers, giving baths, feeding, making the bottle, burping her, singing lullabies, pushing the stroller, you name it.

I even enjoyed those sleepless nights...especially when you have to be to work at 7 in the morning and she wakes you up at around 3am thinking it's time to play and she won't go to sleep till like 5am or so.

Or refusing to sleep alone in her crib and walking over and climbing on your king-sized bed and catching some Zs right next to you till daybreak.

Watching a child grow is surreal. It's like an out of body experience.

The little tiny baby that could barely open her eyes after you put her in the bassinet now is a young lady with an ever expanding vocabulary that leaves me speechless at times.

Anyway I could write a weighty tome just gushing about her but that would be selfish of me and it would defeat the purpose of this thread, which is to share daddyhood experiences.

So you are all welcome to share your experiences - good and bad [if there's is any]. What did you or what do you like most about being a dad?

One thing I know for a fact is daddyhood is not for the faint of heart or stomach, for that matter.

And good dads don't measure their self-worth by their paychecks. Good dads know that their children need more of their presence than presents.

Good dads...I yield the floor to you.....bienvenidos.

Click to expand...

Mbona kakideo chako umekabana Sana, tulitaka tuone yaliyomo yamo
 
unaotuanzishia uzi watu watandale sasa hicho kizungu tena hongera lakini kuwa na kid bt huy mbona anachez sana nyimbo za kidunia angalia akikua sije akawa anashinda disko
 
Mzigua90 said:
NN your daughter is lucky. Baba wote wangekua kama wew kwa mabinti zao cjui dunia ingekuaje
Click to expand...

Yes indeed she is!

But I was also very lucky to be my dad's son.

I meant the world to him and he meant everything to me.

Therefore, I do believe that children really do learn what they live.

I lived with a lot of praise, acceptance, and approval and as a result I learned to appreciate, love, and like myself.

So you can see where that foundation was laid and all what I'm doing now is add onto it.
 
You are being strategic...seeking approval or something.Almost every parent has got the same feeling to their kids as you do...
 
Rob Art said:
You are being strategic...seeking approval or something.Almost every parent has got the same feeling to their kids as you do...
Click to expand...

I most definitely don't need approval from strangers.

What will their approval do for me? Add another zero to my savings account? Gain me a pound of muscle? I think not.

So you are way off beam with your assumption.

And just an FYI, not almost every parent has what you call "the same feeling to their kids". Otherwise there wouldn't be any deadbeat dads, child cruelty, abandonment, etc.

But you are entitled to your point of view and you have all the rights in the world to be stupid. That is as far as I'm concerned anyway.
 
Nothing good to Parents than seeing their beloved daughters and sons are happy and health,and of course you did.
This should be a lesson to most parents whom don't have even a single day to have fun with their kids.
 
Wangu kazingua sasa hivi! Kanichania bedsheet na kiwembe alichokua anachezea! Nimetamani kumwadabisha lkn kakimbilia nje! Ila hii thread yako imenirudisha nyuma aisee! Sijui tufanyeje wanapozingua!! Well, wangu ni 8 yrs though
 
DISGUISE16 said:
Wangu kazingua sasa hivi! Kanichania bedsheet na kiwembe alichokua anachezea! Nimetamani kumwadabisha lkn kakimbilia nje! Ila hii thread yako imenirudisha nyuma aisee! Sijui tufanyeje wanapozingua!! Well, wangu ni 8 yrs though
Click to expand...

Heri uchaniwe shuka kuliko kuchaniwa au kuchorewa makaratasi ya kazini.

Wakati mwingine unaweza kupandwa na hasira huku mwenzako akidhani ni mchezo tu.

I just love kids.
 
What about playing in the rug - face jam/tomato war.
I admire men who are responsible and close to their children to the extent a dad knows every timetable of his/her child.
 
Lucky is the girl who'll bare another child of yours.

Hahahahahaha I see her singing.... naughty and funny like her daddy. She is so sweet.
 
Nyani Ngabu said:
Yes she will.

My future baby mama.....who dat? Kasie?
Click to expand...

Hahahahaaa for now let her be in bracket till then..... it's for her safety too..... otherwise watu wanamsubiria hapa wakishamjua tuu ni flani watamuiba halafu wewe utakosa baby mama au utapata kazi ya kutafuta mwingine......

Love you though pumpkin.

Kasie.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.

Similar Discussions

Back
Top Bottom
Forums
New posts
Post thread
Back