Kuna dada mmoja anaefanya kazi ofisi ya jirani ambaye huna tunakutana wakati wa kula na tumezoeana nae na hula pamoja na kupiga stori za hapa na pale.Juzi kaja akiwa mnyonge sana nikamuuliza vipi mbona umepooza sana leo akasema we acha tu sisi watoto wakike tuna mitihani mikubwa sana humu makazini.Anasema bosi wake amekuwa akimsumbua kwa muda mrefu eti anamtaka kimapenzi,huyo bosi kaoa na ana watoto wakubwa tu.Mara hii ya mwisho bosi kasema asipopata majibu mazuri hali yake pale kazini itaharibika na akikubali ataongezewa mshahara na marupurupu mengine kibao.Mara hii ya mwisho alipoitwa ofisini alihisi suala hilo litazungumzwa kwa hiyo akajifanya anachezea simu bosi alipokuwa anaongea pumba zake akarekodi yale mazungumzo anasema apeleka wapi ili hatua zichukuliwe?
Hivi unyanyasaji wa kijinsia makazini utaisha kweli?
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Hii ni njia moja anayofikiria lakini anataka ajue options zote kabla hajaamua.
Kaamua kuvunja ukimya unaosumbua kina dada wengi,tumsaidie mawazo.
Preta
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Sawa rafiki,nakutakia wiki njema ijayo.
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Amerekodi mazungumzo kwenye simu yake nimemshauri airekodi kwengine pia.
Kunta Kinte
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Kweli anastahili kumfundisha adabu, mwanaume wa kileo analazimisha penzi?! ametoka sayari gani huyo mwehu?!
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Mbona wamejaa makazini watu kama hawa wanaotutia aibu jinsia ya kiume?
MwanajamiiOne
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Uporoto01 unajua hata mie nilikuwaga nafikiria kuwa watoto wa kike tuna bahati mbaya kuzaliwa watoto wa kike untili nilipokuja kurealize kuwa uvictim wa sexual harrassment tunautaka na kuukubali wenyewe. Kwa namna gani basi
1. Kama wewe ni mfanyakazi mwenye qualifications unajiamimi na unadeliver according to the job descriptions za kazi/post yako hakuna nasema tena HAKUNA bosi wala mlinzi atayekusumbua. Tena mwonyeshe kuwa unajua haki zako kisheria (hata kama huzijui zote take trouble ya kujua chache). Unapoanza kuonyehsa dalili ya kuwa wewe bila favor huwezi basi unajiweka kwenye victim position na hawa mabosi waroho huwa wanasubiri those chances.
2. Kama huna qualification ya kazi unayoifanya jitahidi u-do something to prove kuwa you have experience ambayo inakupa ufanisi wa kazi. KMwonyeshe kuwa uko tayari kuacha kazi kuliko kuudhalilisha utu wako kwa kumfurahisha yeye (But mhakikishie kuwa the moment you loose your job kwa sababu yake s/he is going down with you and worse enough him/her with the sameful act ever imargine- Hata kama hujawahi record mwambie you have evidence... believe me hata kama atakufukuza kwa kashfa kiasi gani moyoni atabakia akisema ..... daaaah mwanamke ana msimamo balaa and he is going to respect you for than
Lastly akumbuke Imani yake ya dini... aamini na kujua kuwa kama anaikimbia dhambi kiukweli basi ajue MUNGU ana mipango mikubwa kwake na she is going to be rewarded thrice!!
1. Kama wewe ni mfanyakazi mwenye qualifications unajiamimi na unadeliver according to the job descriptions za kazi/post yako hakuna nasema tena HAKUNA bosi wala mlinzi atayekusumbua. Tena mwonyeshe kuwa unajua haki zako kisheria (hata kama huzijui zote take trouble ya kujua chache). Unapoanza kuonyehsa dalili ya kuwa wewe bila favor huwezi basi unajiweka kwenye victim position na hawa mabosi waroho huwa wanasubiri those chances.
2. Kama huna qualification ya kazi unayoifanya jitahidi u-do something to prove kuwa you have experience ambayo inakupa ufanisi wa kazi. KMwonyeshe kuwa uko tayari kuacha kazi kuliko kuudhalilisha utu wako kwa kumfurahisha yeye (But mhakikishie kuwa the moment you loose your job kwa sababu yake s/he is going down with you and worse enough him/her with the sameful act ever imargine- Hata kama hujawahi record mwambie you have evidence... believe me hata kama atakufukuza kwa kashfa kiasi gani moyoni atabakia akisema ..... daaaah mwanamke ana msimamo balaa and he is going to respect you for than
Lastly akumbuke Imani yake ya dini... aamini na kujua kuwa kama anaikimbia dhambi kiukweli basi ajue MUNGU ana mipango mikubwa kwake na she is going to be rewarded thrice!!
Mbu
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...HA HA HA, mbona kama ushaanza kurushia ngumi kivuli wewe?
Hujaona mbwa akijipeleka kwa chatu shingo upande na mkia kati ya miguu!?
Sexual Harrasment inaniudhi sana lakini for some reason kuna kina dada wanadhani ni haki yao 'kudhalilishwa,' ili kupata azma zao na hivyo kuwaweka pabaya wengi waliobakia.
Unaweza nyanyasika indirectly,
mfano; wewe na degree yako...unaongozwa na kabinti mwenye certificate tu.
Kwakuwa yeye ni chakula ya bosi kanakupelekesha na pa kushtakia huna, Unless nawe 'uingie ubia'
bht
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Mbu we acha tena kivuli chenyewe cha gizani.
Huo uoga wa mbwa hapa hautumiki aisee. Na usemacho ni sahihi baadhi yetu huwa tunaona ni sawa tu kudhalilishwa kwa kupewa upendeleo ambao hata hauna mantiki yoyote.
Sasa huo ubia unaingiaje na bosi wako? Mbu u will asking for trouble bora uvumilie kuendeshwa na kabinti ka bosi lol!
Huo uoga wa mbwa hapa hautumiki aisee. Na usemacho ni sahihi baadhi yetu huwa tunaona ni sawa tu kudhalilishwa kwa kupewa upendeleo ambao hata hauna mantiki yoyote.
Sasa huo ubia unaingiaje na bosi wako? Mbu u will asking for trouble bora uvumilie kuendeshwa na kabinti ka bosi lol!
Gama
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hivi (he) hawasumbuliwi?, kaka mmoja alinisimulia kisa chake cha kuacha kazi kuwa boss wake (she) alimtaka ki ngono, alipochelewa kumkubali shuruba zikaanza. Akaona atimke.
Gama
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kwani lile shauri la leila na boss wa TACAIDS liliishia wapi?
