Why women love bad boys

thehunk said:

Bad Boys. Love them or hate them, the fact remains that women just can’t get enough of them. I’ve had friends who were clearly dating guys that were so poisonous to their lives. Trying to get them to see how unhealthy the dude was for them was like convincing a certain friend (no names) that flats are so last season


Dating a bad boy is quite exhilarating. Women usually get into the trap because they(badboy) know exactly what to say, how to say it, how to look at you, exactly where to touch a woman etc. It’s like a well rehearsed play for them. They are experts at the game of seduction. For the expert bad boys, just a look is enough to have a woman’s brain turn to mush. Confidence is everything. Women love men who take charge and know what they want. Nice guys generally tend to be shyer than their counterparts, or slow to go for what they want. Basically they think too much.

This type of man is quite a rush to be around. There’s never a dull moment. He’s always on the move with what may seem brilliant ideas of things to do. While the regular nice guy may suggest dinner in town at 8.00pm two weeks away and actually show up on time, the bad boy is more likely to suggest a random trip to Naivasha, right after clubbing all night; no need to even stop by the house for some toiletries. Let me explain what you should deduce from these two scenarios. The nice guy suggests dinner because he wants to get to know you as a person. The bad boy is just out for some fun, if you happen to be there, cool. If not, life will go on…


Women are also attracted to bad boys for the drama. Yeah I said it. Women love to have quite a story for the girls at the weekly committee meeting, Whether he stood you up, didn’t call when he said he would, had the nerve to walk out on you or made you pay the bill when he’s the one who asked you out, we all love drama. A nice guy is stable and predictable. And what’s the fun in that, right?


There’s also what I like to call the Mama Nani Syndrome. Women love challenges. They think no matter how bad a guy is, they have this supernatural nurturing power to change him. Seriously, if he was brought up by his mother and that’s how he turned out, there’s nothing you will ever do to make him a better person, or turn him into the man you want him to be. He can only be the man he was when you met him. Don’t have false hopes. If you met him drinking like a fish, be prepared to live with mafans wa Tusker, serengeti nyagi, If you stole him from your pal, resign to the fact that he’s weak and will probably be stolen from you.


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thehunk said:

Bad Boys. Love them or hate them, the fact remains that women just can’t get enough of them. I’ve had friends who were clearly dating guys that were so poisonous to their lives. Trying to get them to see how unhealthy the dude was for them was like convincing a certain friend (no names) that flats are so last season


Dating a bad boy is quite exhilarating. Women usually get into the trap because they(badboy) know exactly what to say, how to say it, how to look at you, exactly where to touch a woman etc. It’s like a well rehearsed play for them. They are experts at the game of seduction. For the expert bad boys, just a look is enough to have a woman’s brain turn to mush. Confidence is everything. Women love men who take charge and know what they want. Nice guys generally tend to be shyer than their counterparts, or slow to go for what they want. Basically they think too much.

This type of man is quite a rush to be around. There’s never a dull moment. He’s always on the move with what may seem brilliant ideas of things to do. While the regular nice guy may suggest dinner in town at 8.00pm two weeks away and actually show up on time, the bad boy is more likely to suggest a random trip to Naivasha, right after clubbing all night; no need to even stop by the house for some toiletries. Let me explain what you should deduce from these two scenarios. The nice guy suggests dinner because he wants to get to know you as a person. The bad boy is just out for some fun, if you happen to be there, cool. If not, life will go on…


Women are also attracted to bad boys for the drama. Yeah I said it. Women love to have quite a story for the girls at the weekly committee meeting, Whether he stood you up, didn’t call when he said he would, had the nerve to walk out on you or made you pay the bill when he’s the one who asked you out, we all love drama. A nice guy is stable and predictable. And what’s the fun in that, right?


There’s also what I like to call the Mama Nani Syndrome. Women love challenges. They think no matter how bad a guy is, they have this supernatural nurturing power to change him. Seriously, if he was brought up by his mother and that’s how he turned out, there’s nothing you will ever do to make him a better person, or turn him into the man you want him to be. He can only be the man he was when you met him. Don’t have false hopes. If you met him drinking like a fish, be prepared to live with mafans wa Tusker, serengeti nyagi, If you stole him from your pal, resign to the fact that he’s weak and will probably be stolen from you.


nimeicopy sehem na kuMAKE some changes kidogo ili ifiti kwa wana MMU....HOPE YOU LEARN SOME THING FROM THIS

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OLESAIDIMU said:

Madame B, Madame X na Kongosho!!!!!

Check the profiles waweza kuwa retired Bad Boys hao,wengi wakimaliza scenarios they put tools down and become family men!!!!!

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OLESAIDIMU said:

Madame B, Madame X na Kongosho!!!!!

Check the profiles waweza kuwa retired Bad Boys hao,wengi wakimaliza scenarios they put tools down and become family men!!!!!

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LebronWade said:

Wewe umejiridhisha vipi eti ulikua bad boy kwa vigezo vipi mujarabu kwa hao "wasichana" wako?as per maelezo yako ulikua mzinzi sana ulipokua dogo,ndio ina maana ulikua badboy?really?

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Ennie said:

Oooh Ok!
Bad boys kumbe ni good lovers,ngoja nikamuulize kama naye ni bad boy!

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enhe said:

I'm always a bad boy! I always keep it gangsta..But in a decent way...mimi tafsiri ninayoipata hapo kwenye uzi ni kwamba u-bad boy ni ile hali ya mtu kuwa real b'se hata wanaume wengi ni pretenders tunapokuwa na wanawake misifa miingi iliyochanganyika na uoga wa kuwa wakweli kutokana na hali zetu halisi..Kwa saikolojia niliyojifunza juu ya wanawake ni kwamba wanapenda sana Wanaume wenye confidence na walio real na ndio hao machoni mwa watu huonekana ni Bad Boys! Ukiaanza kuangalia wale woman magnet wengi ni watu ambao wako real..Mimi binafsi sijisifii ila nang'oa mizigo kibao sababu niko real na najiamini..siogopi kuanzisha mazungumzo na mwanamke yoyote yule hata aweje sababu pia its my hobbie kuchat na wanawake warembo! Asanteni!

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OLESAIDIMU said:

Ha ha haaaa ulete mrejesho na reccommendations!!!!!

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OLESAIDIMU said:

Umo!!!!!

Na ndio maana huoni haja ya kwenda ATM kufuata pesa ukiwa na mpenzi wako eti tu sababu ulisema wewe muende mkale!!!!!Wakati yeye anazo hapo kwenye wallet na mnaweza ku offset baadae!!!!!!!

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Ennie said:

Oooh Ok!
Bad boys kumbe ni good lovers,ngoja nikamuulize kama naye ni bad boy!

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enhe said:

Yeah man shida yote ya nini...kidume kutoka nduki kwenye ATM wakti yeye pesa anayo kwa pochi! Na mimi hakuna tabia nisiyoipenda kama kwenda kwenye ATM katikati ya mtoko..yaani inaonesha mtu hauko organized na mambo yako!

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Ennie said:

Keep on waiting!

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OLESAIDIMU said:

Bad boys never long!!!!!!

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Ennie said:

Nimeshapata jibu

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OLESAIDIMU said:

keep the fire burning mkuu,hata ukija kuoa(kama bado)maisha yanaenda tu haina haja ya kwenda kuhangaika kwa watu kisa mambo yako yamechelewa ati unaona aibu kuchukua doo kwa wyf,utaonekana how come!!!!!!

ATM yangu ya karibu ni mke wangu!!!!!!

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