My farther is a Kenyan but my mum is Tanzanian, i was born and grown up in TZ, always i go Kenya to visit my relatives, over there various people ask me why Tanzanians are not friendly and why always they run aways from them? i get a hard time to answer them coz i real don't know exactly why, may be because of language barrier and inferiority complex.
It is neither the matter of inferiority complex nor the language barrier.Myself I do not hate kenyans,but to live with them It need so much wisdom.it is very hard,due to the following reasons.these are some of them:
1.If he/she come to your territory,doesn't know his/her limits.he will need to control you the way he think its right.including teaching you on how to control your own family.
2.If they become close to you, they do not have a genuine friendship,only because they want something.once they get what they want;then they treat you like a piece of shit,forgetting all your goodness.
3.once they are in the office,they try to manipulate the high ranks managers that they are the best, by doing whatever they can do and convince the whole panel that the remaining staffs are full of shit.(hypocrisy)
4.If they see you succeed, they show their joy with half teeth as they wish they can grab your position (unnecessary jealousy),they will never feel comfortable until they make sure that they plan for your downfall for whatever the cost.WHEN YOU FALL THEY BECOME BEST FRIENDS AND ENCOURAGE YOU,AS IF THEY MEAN IT.
5.They come under your roof, you give them food and shelter and yet they turn against you.
6.They are always feel superior and underestimate the power of others,even where there is no the reality of it.moreover,they can underestimate even the stranger whom they do not know.
7.They do not know their limits when they relate to others.
8.They do not read the foreigners climate before they enter in somebody's roof.
9.They are tribalistic in nature.
Nimeprove mwenyewe, majority wako hivyo,not all tho.Those are just some of the reasons, kawaambie,if they ask you again.Na nimefanya nao kazi pamoja na kuishi nao,more that years.