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"I will go down with as many people as I can..."

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Ab-Titchaz, Jan 24, 2009.

  1. Ab-Titchaz

    Ab-Titchaz Content Manager Staff Member

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    KENYA: Jane Nyasuguta: "I made it a resolution to go down with as many men as possible

    22 Jan 2009 13:38:34 GMT

    Source: IRIN


    KURIA, 22 January 2009 (IRIN) - Jane Nyasuguta*, 40, a former teacher living in Nyanza Province, western Kenya, thought she and her husband had a good marriage until she discovered he had a mistress in a neighbouring town. She told IRIN/PlusNews that after his death from an AIDS-related illness, and her discovery that she too was HIV-positive, she was filled with resentment.

    "When we first married, we were a very loving couple. We had started life together from scratch; we pooled together our little resources to build a wonderful family together because we were both receiving very little salary from the government.

    "I thought we were both very faithful to each other; I had no reason to suspect that my husband had a mistress outside our marriage. In 1999, he was promoted to be a head teacher and I thought that would make us happy even more, but it was never to be.

    "He started coming home late, drunk, and at times was very abusive both emotionally and physically. Then it became worse and he would stay away from home for close to one week.

    "I was dejected even more when I realised he had a mistress in Isebania township, near the Kenya-Tanzania border. He became sick around 2000 and he later died in 2002 of tuberculosis.

    "Immediately after his death, I went for an HIV test because I wanted to be sure. I was shocked when I realised I was positive. I knew I had got the disease from my husband and I made it a resolution to go down with as many men as possible, even very young boys in high school.

    "The disease finally put me down, and I was almost dead when a friend of mine took me to hospital, where I was introduced to ART [antiretroviral therapy].

    "When I regained strength, what I had done haunted me - I was destroying people's future and families, yet they never sent my husband out to go and get the disease.

    "I resigned from my teaching job, and together with my friend we formed a network of widows to sensitise people on the need to know their status, and even go public about it.

    "The past is behind me, but it still haunts me, especially the young boys I took to bed because of a problem within my family that they knew nothing about.

    "I pray every day that God will forgive me for what I did. But I also advise the young girls I talk to, if possible, to stay out of marriage because men can be sly."



    http://www.alertnet.org/thenews/newsdesk/IRIN/80c4ad40ec4c1cd028ca3b4e7c25bbb1.htm
     
  2. BelindaJacob

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    Its such a sad story of what she experienced. How come she wanted to kill other men? I assume its because her husband was dead thus he could not kill him once more.

    But if learn she to accept that pain is part of life,she will be better able to endure the difficult times and move on leaving the pain behind her.

    Lets be very careful in what we do out there!

    Bel.
     
  3. Kaizer

    Kaizer JF-Expert Member

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    Mi nadhani kwa sheria zetu huyu anapaswa kufikishwa mahakamani na kushtakiwa haraka sana.....huo ni ukatili wa hali ya juu!
     
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    Viushauri vingine ni mgogoro tu
     
  5. Opaque

    Opaque JF-Expert Member

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    Nilitegemea angewapa ushauri wavulana waepuke akina mama walio kama yeye!
     
  6. Dark City

    Dark City JF-Expert Member

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    Kwa maelezo ya huyu mama nilidhani ametubu na kujutia makosa yake na hivyo kustahili msamaha. Ila sentensi yake ya mwisho inaonesha kuwa bado ana kinyongo. Sina hakika kama kweli anajutia makosa yake ya kuwaua watu wasio na hatia kwa kosa lisilo lao. Na sasa kuwashauri hao wasichana (ambao anawaingiza mkenge) ili wawachukie wanaume kuna tofauti gani na hao vijana aliwaambukiza virus vya ukimwi? Je hao mambinti watakwepaje ukimwi endapo wataishi maisha yao bila kuoelewa? Mimi naona anaandaa jeshi la ma-mistress kama hao waliotembea na mume wake na kweli anatengeneza silaha za maangamizi zaidi.
     
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    Mwan mpambanaji JF-Expert Member

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    Mshahara wa dhambi ni mauti
     
  8. K

    Kafara JF-Expert Member

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    tatizo ni kwamba hakuwaua wanaume na wavulana pia.
    katika hiyo hasira yake inawezekana amewaua kina mama,
    watoto wachanga, wasichana na pia kuwaacha wengine
    wakiwa. aidha inawezekana amewauwa ndugu zake wa karibu
    ambao ama wamepitiwa na hao aliowaathiri au wamewapitia wa
    waliopitiwa na aliowaathiri. kweli hasira hasara
     
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  9. Opaque

    Opaque JF-Expert Member

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    Yeah, na huenda hao wasichana anaowapa ushauri wameshaathirika kutokana na chain aliyoiunganisha yeye mwenyewe kwa wale young boys!
     
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    MzalendoHalisi JF-Expert Member

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    Inaskitisha kweli..sasa kuwaua wengine innocent was it a revenge?

    Au ni kukosa akili?
     
  11. Ab-Titchaz

    Ab-Titchaz Content Manager Staff Member

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    ..ni kuchanganyikiwa tu.

    Hata hivyo bottomline ni kwamba she is not justified to do as she did.
     
  12. Pundamilia07

    Pundamilia07 JF-Expert Member

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    Hapa funzo tunalolipata ni kuwa yeye ni mmoja tu aliyejitokeza kati ya wengi waliokumbwa na hali kama ya kwake au inayofanana na hiyo.

    Je ni watu wangapi wamefanya hivyo au wanafanya hivyo au watafanya hivyo?

    Tatizo ni kubwa kuliko!!!!
     
  13. Kandambilimbili

    Kandambilimbili R I P

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    aaah wapi, DAWA ni kuacha au kuwa makini, hao wanaomfuata fuata kwani hawajui kuwa kuna UKIMWI, wewe uendekeze libeneke alafu matokeo yake umlaumu mtu?

    Dunia ya leo unaenda kavu kavu? kazi ipo.
     
  14. Bonnie1974

    Bonnie1974 JF-Expert Member

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    WEWE UNAYEISHI HUNA DHAMBI?.Since as you said " mshahara wa dhambi ni mauti?"
    KUNA MASWALI MENGI KATIKA MAISHA AMBAYO HAYANA MAJIBU.BE CAREFULL.

    What about hivyo vichanga vinavyokufa?.......mkulu mimi nikupa hii...HUJAFA ..HUJAUMBIKA.
     
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