Mujumba
JF-Expert Member
- Jan 20, 2011
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When you are about to make love with a woman, the last thing you want to do is turn her off. Helping you become a Better Man means helping you become a better lover, and toward that end, we want to make sure you are aware of these mistakes to avoid in bed.
1. NOT KISSING: Believe it or not, many men do not kiss the woman they are with when they are having sex. That is one of the biggest mistakes to avoid in bed. I recommend that you make an effort to kiss your woman when you are inside her.
2. FOCUSING ONLY ON THE SEXUAL PARTS: Breasts and vaginas are great,no doubt but you should definitely pay attention to other parts of her body. Lick behind her knees, kiss her wrists, rub her back, caress her stomach; focus on her entire body. It will turn her on more and, in turn, increase the chances of her pleasuring you back.
3. PUTTING ALL YOUR WEIGHT ON HER: It is OK to lose yourself in the moment every once in a while and go crazy on your woman. However, when you are lying on top of her, you have to be careful not to drop your weight on her, making her struggle to breathe. This is not a good thing during sex.
4. EJACULATING TOO SOON/TOO LATE: You need to have good penile control to ensure that you can ejaculate at an appropriate time. Too soon and she may be unsatisfied; too late and she starts feeling like sandpaper. If you can not control yourself and end up letting go too soon, spend a lot more time on foreplay. If you last too long and can only ejaculate via manual stimulation, do your best to give her an orgasm and then get her to satisfy you manually.
5. NOT WARNING HER THAT YOU WANT TO EJACULATE: If you are going to come, whether it is inside her vagina, in her mouth or anywhere on her body, you need to tell her beforehand. Something as simple as Iam going to come, will do. She deserves to know.
6. TREATING SEX LIKE PORN: Although some couples enjoy having nasty, raunchy sex, It will be wise to talk to the girl you are going to sleep with before you engage in such behavior. If you begin forcing her head back and forth when she is sucking you, or you pound away on her and start spanking her without knowing if she likes it first, chances are their will be a very nasty fight.
7. STAYING QUIET: Iam sure you want to hear when your woman is enjoying herself, so pay her the same respect and give her a bit talk. Something as simple as a little moan, or even saying something like, That feels so good, will encourage her.
8. POUNDING HE LIKE YOU ARE DRILLING FOR OIL: It may feel good for you to pump in and out of a woman like you are running a 100 meters race, but you will quickly discover that most women do not enjoy such an act for long. Mix it up a little bit. Go fast at times, then slow down. Go all the way in at times, and other times let only the tip of your head in.
Remember, it is up to you to mix it up and avoid making sexual errors that irritate women.
NICE DAY..MWAAAH
1. NOT KISSING: Believe it or not, many men do not kiss the woman they are with when they are having sex. That is one of the biggest mistakes to avoid in bed. I recommend that you make an effort to kiss your woman when you are inside her.
2. FOCUSING ONLY ON THE SEXUAL PARTS: Breasts and vaginas are great,no doubt but you should definitely pay attention to other parts of her body. Lick behind her knees, kiss her wrists, rub her back, caress her stomach; focus on her entire body. It will turn her on more and, in turn, increase the chances of her pleasuring you back.
3. PUTTING ALL YOUR WEIGHT ON HER: It is OK to lose yourself in the moment every once in a while and go crazy on your woman. However, when you are lying on top of her, you have to be careful not to drop your weight on her, making her struggle to breathe. This is not a good thing during sex.
4. EJACULATING TOO SOON/TOO LATE: You need to have good penile control to ensure that you can ejaculate at an appropriate time. Too soon and she may be unsatisfied; too late and she starts feeling like sandpaper. If you can not control yourself and end up letting go too soon, spend a lot more time on foreplay. If you last too long and can only ejaculate via manual stimulation, do your best to give her an orgasm and then get her to satisfy you manually.
5. NOT WARNING HER THAT YOU WANT TO EJACULATE: If you are going to come, whether it is inside her vagina, in her mouth or anywhere on her body, you need to tell her beforehand. Something as simple as Iam going to come, will do. She deserves to know.
6. TREATING SEX LIKE PORN: Although some couples enjoy having nasty, raunchy sex, It will be wise to talk to the girl you are going to sleep with before you engage in such behavior. If you begin forcing her head back and forth when she is sucking you, or you pound away on her and start spanking her without knowing if she likes it first, chances are their will be a very nasty fight.
7. STAYING QUIET: Iam sure you want to hear when your woman is enjoying herself, so pay her the same respect and give her a bit talk. Something as simple as a little moan, or even saying something like, That feels so good, will encourage her.
8. POUNDING HE LIKE YOU ARE DRILLING FOR OIL: It may feel good for you to pump in and out of a woman like you are running a 100 meters race, but you will quickly discover that most women do not enjoy such an act for long. Mix it up a little bit. Go fast at times, then slow down. Go all the way in at times, and other times let only the tip of your head in.
Remember, it is up to you to mix it up and avoid making sexual errors that irritate women.
NICE DAY..MWAAAH
