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"Contraceptives" zinaboa kwenye majamboz????????????

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Rutashubanyuma, Apr 14, 2011.

  1. Rutashubanyuma

    Rutashubanyuma JF-Expert Member

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    Contraceptives interfering with our love life


    Published on 10/02/2011
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    Hello LVCT
    I’m newly married and I have enjoyed every moment of it. However, of late my wife has suffered from low libido after using pills as contraceptives, which she promptly stopped. She tried injections but she gained weight and she had to stop using them too. Now we are at cross roads and we don’t know which method to use. What can we do?
    Harry
    Dear Harry,
    Thank you for seeking our support. This shows that you care for your wife and there is good communication in your relationship.
    It must be very frustrating for the two of you now that the various contraceptive methods are causing adverse effects to your wife. This is not unique to you and many other people have experienced the same.
    Moreover, you are not helpless in this situation and there are other methods that you can use.
    Contraceptives when used correctly and consistently are very effective. The body reacts in various ways towards these hormones[​IMG] and what your wife experienced are the common undesirable effects of contraceptives.
    Contraceptives are classified into two main categories depending on whether they contain hormones or not. The first group contains hormones and are known as hormonal contraceptives. These contraceptives contain the normal hormones found in the female’s body and they control the menstrual cycle. They include every day pills, injection, and implants. Your wife used the pills and injections, meaning she used the hormonal methods.
    The other category is the non-hormonal methods and as the name suggests, they do not contain hormones. Examples include condoms and the IUD (intra-uterine device).
    The hormonal methods are known to cause changes in mood swings including low libido, changes in menstrual patterns and body weight. However, effects vary from one woman to the other.
    Since the hormonal contraceptives had adverse reactions to her body system, she might want to try the non-hormonal contraceptives and see if they have any effects at all.
    However, it is very important that you support your partner to access a family planning clinic near you to get more information on the alternatives she has. This will help you get factual information and, therefore, enable you to make an informed decision.
     
  2. Rutashubanyuma

    Rutashubanyuma JF-Expert Member

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    Kwa wasiyojua umombo ni kuwa wapenzi hawa wamejaribu kinga za uzazi lakini wakakutana na changamoto zifuatazo:

    a) mama kapoteza hamu ya tendo la ndoa na walipojaribu sindano wakakutana na kipingamizi cha mama kuongezeka uzito maradufu..........................................

    sasa wanahitaji ushauri wako.....................usiogope toa ushauri.................................
     
  3. afrodenzi

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    Condom.. kuzuia mimba na kama hawaaminiani
    Otherwise
    Wameoana wanaweza kwenda peku..
     
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    afrodenzi Platinum Member

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    Ushauri mwingine huu hap

    Wanaweza kufanya mchezo
    na ku make sure PRE COME inatoka
    Halafu wanaingia ulingoni..
    Ngumi zikiisha jamaa ahikikishe anafungua bomba njee
    ni rahisi sana ..nway ni hayo tuu
     
  5. Nyani Ngabu

    Nyani Ngabu Platinum Member

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    Moja ya side effects za contraceptives ni kukausha chem chem kule sehemu sehemu
     
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    You have said it all bro.
     
  7. KWI KWI

    KWI KWI JF-Expert Member

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    Kuna njia mimi binafsi nafanyaga kwa mke wangu akiwa kwenye ''danger''....''uwa na mwaga mzigo nje''
     
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    Hiccup please....pulling out (withdrawing) is the most ineffective contraceptive method ever.
     
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    aahahahah Nyani Ngabu,It works for me.Ila it is very challenging indeed.mwanzoni utapata shida ''withdrawing'' but on the long run...fresh.
    NB:Consult with your partner first on this.......
     
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    Hahaa If you've mastered it then I have no choice but to give it up to you coz it takes an awful lot of willpower to pull it off with surgical precision.
     
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