She never asks you to go into detail. Ok, let me be more specific she never asks you to go into the details as they pertain to you, personally. In other words, she doesnt want to know anything about you. If shes a colleague and passes your desk with a how was your weekend? - this means nothing if she doesnt actually stop and wait for the answer. Consider anything a less common courtesy and do not take that as a sign of serious interest. Additionally, if shes never actually asked you a question she didnt need to ask (something about work, for example) thats a good sign shes not interested in you being more than a colleague. She takes forever to get back to you. Even a brain surgeon can make time to sms someone. If the woman you lust after takes a day or two to get back to you, shes probably not that into you. Dont get me wrong, she might be as busy as she says she is. Many women are. But if a woman likes a man, she will make time for him, no matter what. More Dating Tips Five Great First Date Ideas Dating Tips: 5 Signs She's Into You First Date Mistakes Men Should Avoid Dating Secrets: 5 Signs She's A Psycho How a Man Should Dress On a First Date Dating Tips: What She's Really Thinking She never lets you do her any favors or she repays them immediately. This is a sign she knows youre into her, and she doesnt want to feel indebted or obligated to you. Why? Cos that could make her feel like she owes you something. So if you buy her a cup of coffee one morning, and find the favor returned before the end of the day, shes probably clued into your feelings. Most sane women love it when a man theyre into does something for them. If the object of your affections does not, shes either not interested, or shes a femnazi. Either way, its probably time to move on. She likes to keep a foot or more of space between you. Ok in very rare cases, this can mean a woman is so attracted to you, she doesnt trust herself to get any closer. Please realize this usually only happens in romance novels. If she does everything in her power to keep some distance between the two of you, this is a good indication shes not into you, and doesnt want to give you the idea she might be. She never makes eye contact for more than a few seconds. Again, in very rare cases, this could mean shes really, really into you. In fact, I tend to get this way myself if Im really attracted to someone. However, thats a rarity, and 98% of the time, if Im not making eye contact, its cos I want the person in question to go away. If shes not looking at you, theres a reason. And if shes not giving you other signals to indicate shes interested shes probably not. So there you are 5 signs shes not interested. As I mentioned, sometimes these can mean she actually is interested, but I really wouldnt count on it unless you see evidence to support that notion.