When Women Take Charge..!

[MwanajamiiOne]

Kufuatia utafiti uliofanywa East, Southern and Western Africa, imegundulika kuwa wanawake wenye 'maamuzi ya mwisho' juu ya sex ndani ya ndoa zao hupata huduma hiyo less than wale ambao waumezao ndio wenye final say. Utafiti huu uliofanywa na Johns Hopkin's Bloomberg School of Public Health Study, umebainisha yafuatayo;
- Uganda, Mali na Rwanda - ambako wanaume wana say kubwa kuliko wanawake (hasa Malawi na Mali) - tendo hili hufanyika mara 1 kila baada ya siku 8
- Rwanda na Zimbabwe - Mara 1 kila baada ya siku 6
- Ghana - Mara 1 kila baada ya siku 28.!!

Source: The EastAfrican : October 3 - 9, 2011 pg X
Section: Health & Lifestyle under the same tittle.

Nimejikuta nina maswali mengi juu ya hii article.
1. Title ya hii article inajaribu kulink power of a woman and sexual matters in a negative way
2. Je wanaume na wanawake wana sexual urges (sijui ndo mnaita libido) tofauti - wanaume wakiwa na ya hali uya juu kuliko wanawake au??

 

[Mr Rocky]

Hebu nitafakari then nitarudi baade maana huu utafiti ni kiboko
Wangeweka na tanzania tuone hali ikoje maana hapa kuna different culture na different perspective kuhusu sex kwa makabila mbalimbali

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

Hivi MwanajamiiOne unachangiaga mada kwenye majukwaa mengine kweli? Au wewe uko ki-MMU zaidi?

 

[MwanajamiiOne]

Hivi MwanajamiiOne unachangiaga mada kwenye majukwaa mengine kweli? Au wewe uko ki-MMU zaidi?

Kaka mie huku nshajenga kibanda lol! Umeniumbuaje mwenzio?!

 

[The Finest]

Ningependa kujua huu utafiti ulifanywaje i mean njia gani zilitumika

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

Ningependa kujua huu utafiti ulifanywaje i mean njia gani zilitumika

Probably by filling out a questionnaire

 

[MwanajamiiOne]

Hebu nitafakari then nitarudi baade maana huu utafiti ni kiboko
Wangeweka na tanzania tuone hali ikoje maana hapa kuna different culture na different perspective kuhusu sex kwa makabila mbalimbali

Yaani Mr Rocky nimebaki na maswali lukuki! Maana ukianza kuangalia kwa jicho la tatu ina maana wale wanaokaa muda mrefu bila mf. Ghana wanaishiishije kama si kucheat kwa kwenda mbele?

 

[Rejao]

Ngoja nisubiri nione wataalam wa mapenzi wataongea nini

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

Ngoja nisubiri nione wataalam wa mapenzi wataongea nini

Mbu atakuja na mijedwali na mi pie chart yake na michoro na mipicha. Wee subiri tu.

 

[MwanajamiiOne]

Ningependa kujua huu utafiti ulifanywaje i mean njia gani zilitumika

Survey method; interview as the technique combined with secondary information from reports like Demographic Health Surveys e.t.c

Sampling frame: walikuwa wanawake wote walioolewa (excluding singles, widows, separeted, divorced na wale walio katika ndoa za wake wengi )

 

[Mr Rocky]

Yaani Mr Rocky nimebaki na maswali lukuki! Maana ukianza kuangalia kwa jicho la tatu ina maana wale wanaokaa muda mrefu bila mf. Ghana wanaishiishije kama si kucheat kwa kwenda mbele?

Hapo ndipo ninapopata wasi wasi na hizo tafiti maana ule mhemko wanaupeleka wapi kama sio kwenye nyumba ndogo
Na ukiangalia kwa hao wanaume kukaa siku nane bila sex ni issue sana

 

[The Finest]

Survey method; interview as the technique combined with secondary information from reports like Demographic Health Surveys e.t.c

Sampling frame: walikuwa wanawake wote walioolewa (excluding singles, widows, separeted, divorced na wale walio katika ndoa za wake wengi )

Basi Ghana watakuwa na high rate of Cheating!!! Mara moja baada ya siku 28

 

[MwanajamiiOne]

Rejao, hili linahitaji utaalamu wa mapenzi kweli? Ah bana .... Hebu jiulize wanaume waliooa Ghana wanaishiishije iwapo kwa wastani wanapata huduma ya ndoa mara moja ndani ya siku 28?

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

Hapo ndipo ninapopata wasi wasi na hizo tafiti maana ule mhemko wanaupeleka wapi kama sio kwenye nyumba ndogo
Na ukiangalia kwa hao wanaume kukaa siku nane bila sex ni issue sana

Mimi surveys kama hizi huwa nazichukulia with a grain of salt.

It is wise not to take/ accept them as gospel truth.

 

[Mr Rocky]

Mimi surveys kama hizi huwa nazichukulia with a grain of salt.

It is wise not to take/ accept them as gospel truth.

Accept ila with tahadhari kubwa maana huwa sometime kukuelezea kwamba what will happen if something happen halipo
maana hapa tunaelezwa wanaweza kukaa siku nane bila sex then what will happen if hawatafanya sex kwa siku hizo nane

 

[MwanajamiiOne]

Mimi surveys kama hizi huwa nazichukulia with a grain of salt.

It is wise not to take/ accept them as gospel truth.

.... Its true usemayo kakangu yaani sometimes tunapewa issue za ajabu sasa kama Ghana ambako ndo less kihivyo je hali hii inaendana na ukubwa wa janga la UKIMWI au watasema wanaume wa huko hawacheat, au wakicheat wanatumia kinga?! Ah hata sijui kama nimeuliza maswali yanayoeleweka!

 

[Roulette]

Kuna thread ilianzishwa hapa ilisema men need it every 3 days and women every 7 days so yes, there is a difference. na kama unavo jua kuna vipindi we need it everyday (everytime) and some period we just need ice cream and visa cards... lol

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

Accept with quotion maana huwa sometime kukuelezea kwamba what will happen if something happen halipo
maana hapa tunaelezwa wanaweza kukaa siku nane bila sex then what will happen if hawatafanya sex kwa siku hizo nane

And we have no way of verifying the veracity of their responses!

Mtu anakwambia hajaundama kwa wiki nne....mimi na wewe tuna uhakika gani na anachotuambia?

 

[Chauro]

hao lazima watakuwa na damu tofauti na zetu inakuaje labda watuambie wanavibanda saidizi pembeni

Rejao, hili linahitaji utaalamu wa mapenzi kweli? Ah bana .... Hebu jiulize wanaume waliooa Ghana wanaishiishije iwapo kwa wastani wanapata huduma ya ndoa mara moja ndani ya siku 28?

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

.... Its true usemayo kakangu yaani sometimes tunapewa issue za ajabu sasa kama Ghana ambako ndo less kihivyo je hali hii inaendana na ukubwa wa janga la UKIMWI au watasema wanaume wa huko hawacheat, au wakicheat wanatumia kinga?! Ah hata sijui kama nimeuliza maswali yanayoeleweka!

Na hao wanaume wa ki Ghana wakicheat wanacheat na nani? Si wanacheat na wanawake...(kwa kiasi kikubwa)