Wanawake hawawezi kufanya mapenzi bila kuwa na hisia na mwanaume huyo

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A man can cheat on his woman and still love her but a woman cannot cheat on her man and still love him. I say this because while men do not have sex with emotions, women can't have sex without attaching emotions to it. This is the reason men simply need a place to have sex while women need a reason to have sex.

Most women who take their husbands to court for divorce are those that cheat on their men. A non cheating woman would most likely never take her husband to court for divorce, unless the man exceedingly abuses her physically and emotionally to the point of killing her.

Men don't equate sex with love. A man can have sex with another woman but still doesn't love her. That's why women who fell in love with married men find it difficult to find happiness in those relationships as they are just being used by those married men.

But once a married woman starts sleeping with you, she can even narrates some hidden secretes concerning her husband and she will even tell you why she hates him (her husband). She can even accept poison from you to eliminate her husband.

For men, sex and love are two different things. But for women, sex and love are one and the same things. For men, sex comes first before love (infatuation), but for women love comes first before sex (true love). Therefore, once your woman starts having sex with another man/men, her love shifts from you to that man and she can even start giving that man the best food and love than she gives you.

The fact that your man is cheating on you doesn't mean he has stopped loving you. But I can't say the same for women. Once a woman starts cheating on you, she has fallen for someone else and you people will never live the same again. And she can even kill her husband once she starts cheating on him.

If your wife starts cheating, you should be a lucky man not to die in less than 10 years. It has been found that 95% of women who cheat wish their husbands dead. That is the main reason why it is dangerous for a man to continue staying with a wife who cheats on him.

That is why is now encouraged everywhere in the world including in the Bible, for a man to divorce his wife only once she starts cheating on him. Cheating women are more deadly to husbands than ordinarily criminals or weapons.

There are many cheating women in the world who invite criminals to break into her house at night only to come and eliminate her man and police officers plus relatives can't detect this as the same woman tend to moan more than any person at the funeral so as to attract sympathy and hide her evil acts.

That's why psychologists discourage women,more than men, from cheating.

Women can't handle the emotional conflict that comes with cheating.

That's the reason an observant and intelligent man will notice that his wife has started cheating on him once he starts doing it because most women tend to lose respect to their husbands and try to avoid sex with them in most times.

Cheating Women will even be giving excuses for not wanting to have sex with their husbands. Study has revealed that nearly 90% of women who cheat find it hard to have enjoyable sex with their husbands, again an intelligent man will detect this once his wife's behavior with regard to sex start changing. But a dull man can never detect this and always tolerate fake excuses from his cheating wife until he is completely eliminated.

Women can't cheat on their partners with people they are not emotionally involved with. They attach emotions to everything. That's why you can't always trust their judgment. When a joke is cracked,most women who laugh are not laughing because the joke is funny but because they like the person who cracked the joke.

If they don't like you, no matter how funny your joke may be, they won't laugh, but when a man laughs at a joke, it's because the joke is funny, not because he likes the comedian. Men are not always sentimental and emotionally involved.

Study has shown that every relationship begins to flounder once a woman starts cheating. There are many men who cheat on their partners but still show them true love. But it is very hard to find a relationship in which a woman is cheating and things still remain the same.

I repeat, nearly 100% of cheating women wish their husbands quick death or divorce to have unlimited sex freedom while nearly 100% of cheating men can't wish their wives quick death or divorce. That is why most men cant allow their wives to be physically or verbally abused by their girlfriends. Men will always stand for their wives.

A man would cheat but still love and respect his wife, but the opposite is true with cheating women. Once your wife starts sleeping with other men/man, just know that your death is near.

R.M - Professor of Psychology
Ohio State University - USA
 
A man can cheat on his woman and still love her but a woman cannot cheat on her man and still love him. I say this because while men do not have sex with emotions, women can't have sex without attaching emotions to it. This is the reason men simply need a place to have sex while women need a reason to have sex.
Most women who take their husbands to court for divorce are those that cheat on their men. A non cheating woman would most likely never take her husband to court for divorce, unless the man exceedingly abuses her physically and emotionally to the point of killing her.

Men don't equate sex with love. A man can have sex with another woman but still doesn't love her. That's why women who fell in love with married men find it difficult to find happiness in those relationships as they are just being used by those married men. But once a married woman starts sleeping with you, she can even narrates some hidden secretes concerning her husband and she will even tell you why she hates him (her husband). She can even accept poison from you to eliminate her husband.

For men, sex and love are two different things. But for women, sex and love are one and the same things. For men, sex comes first before love (infatuation), but for women love comes first before sex (true love). Therefore, once your woman starts having sex with another man/men, her love shifts from you to that man and she can even start giving that man the best food and love than she gives you.

The fact that your man is cheating on you doesn't mean he has stopped loving you. But I can't say the same for women. Once a woman starts cheating on you, she has fallen for someone else and you people will never live the same again. And she can even kill her husband once she starts cheating on him.
If your wife starts cheating, you should be a lucky man not to die in less than 10 years. It has been found that 95% of women who cheat wish their husbands dead. That is the main reason why it is dangerous for a man to continue staying with a wife who cheats on him. That is why is now encouraged everywhere in the world including in the Bible, for a man to divorce his wife only once she starts cheating on him. Cheating women are more deadly to husbands than ordinarily criminals or weapons. There are many cheating women in the world who invite criminals to break into her house at night only to come and eliminate her man and police officers plus relatives can't detect this as the same woman tend to moan more than any person at the funeral so as to attract sympathy and hide her evil acts.

That's why psychologists discourage women,more than men, from cheating.

Women can't handle the emotional conflict that comes with cheating.

That's the reason an observant and intelligent man will notice that his wife has started cheating on him once he starts doing it because most women tend to lose respect to their husbands and try to avoid sex with them in most times.

Cheating Women will even be giving excuses for not wanting to have sex with their husbands. Study has revealed that nearly 90% of women who cheat find it hard to have enjoyable sex with their husbands, again an intelligent man will detect this once his wife's behavior with regard to sex start changing. But a dull man can never detect this and always tolerate fake excuses from his cheating wife until he is completely eliminated.

Women can't cheat on their partners with people they are not emotionally involved with. They attach emotions to everything. That's why you can't always trust their judgment. When a joke is cracked,most women who laugh are not laughing because the joke is funny but because they like the person who cracked the joke. If they don't like you, no matter how funny your joke may be, they won't laugh, but when a man laughs at a joke, it's because the joke is funny, not because he likes the comedian. Men are not always sentimental and emotionally involved.

Study has shown that every relationship begins to flounder once a woman starts cheating. There are many men who cheat on their partners but still show them true love. But it is very hard to find a relationship in which a woman is cheating and things still remain the same.

I repeat, nearly 100% of cheating women wish their husbands quick death or divorce to have unlimited sex freedom while nearly 100% of cheating men can't wish their wives quick death or divorce. That is why most men cant allow their wives to be physically or verbally abused by their girlfriends. Men will always stand for their wives.

A man would cheat but still love and respect his wife, but the opposite is true with cheating women.

Once your wife starts sleeping with other men/man, just know that your death is near.

R.M - Professor of Psychology
Ohio State University - USA
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Mtu anaweza kumdanganya mwanamke wake na bado anampenda lakini mwanamke hawezi kumdanganya na kumtenda. Nasema hili kwa sababu wakati wanaume hawana ngono na hisia, wanawake hawawezi kufanya ngono bila kuunganisha hisia. Hii ndiyo sababu wanaume wanahitaji tu mahali pa kufanya ngono wakati wanawake wanahitaji sababu ya kufanya ngono.
Wanawake wengi wanaowachukua waume zao mahakamani kwa talaka ni wale ambao wanadanganya wanaume wao.mwanamke asiyetanganya bila shaka hawezi kumchukua mume wake mahakamani kwa talaka, isipokuwa mtu huyo anamtendea kimwili kimwili na kihisia kwa uhakika wa kumwua.

Wanaume hawapati ngono na upendo. Mtu anaweza kufanya mapenzi na mwanamke mwingine lakini bado hampendi.ndiyo sababu wanawake ambao walipenda kwa wanaume walioolewa wanaona vigumu kupata furaha katika mahusiano hayo kama wanapokuwa wanatumiwa na wanaume wale walioolewa. Lakini mara moja mwanamke aliyeolewa anaanza kulala na wewe, anaweza hata kuandika siri za siri kuhusu mumewe na hata atakuambia kwa nini anamchukia (mumewe).anaweza hata kukubali sumu kutoka kwako ili kumkoma mumewe.

Kwa wanaume, ngono na upendo ni mambo mawili tofauti. Lakini kwa wanawake, ngono na upendo ni mambo moja na yale. Kwa wanaume, ngono huja kwanza kabla ya upendo (kupendeza), lakini kwa wanawake upendo huja kwanza kabla ya ngono (upendo wa kweli).Kwa hiyo, mara tu mwanamke wako anapoanza kufanya mapenzi na mtu mwingine / mtu, upendo wake hutoka kutoka kwa wewe kwa mtu huyo na anaweza hata kuanza kumpa mtu huyo chakula bora na upendo kuliko anavyokupa.

Ukweli kwamba mtu wako anadanganya juu yako haimaanishi kuwa ameacha kukupenda. Lakini siwezi kusema sawa kwa wanawake.mara moja mwanamke anapoanza kudanganya juu yako, ameanguka kwa mtu mwingine na watu wako kamwe hawaishi tena. Na anaweza kumwua mumewe mara moja anaanza kumdanganya.
Ikiwa mke wako anaanza kuanza kudanganya, unapaswa kuwa mtu mwenye hisia kutokufa kwa chini ya miaka 10. Imegundua kuwa 95% ya wanawake ambao wanadanganya wanapenda waume zao wafu.hiyo ndiyo sababu kuu kwa nini ni hatari kwa mtu kuendelea kuendelea kukaa na mke ambaye anamdanganya. Ndiyo sababu sasa inahimizwa kila mahali ulimwenguni ikiwa ni pamoja na Biblia, kwa ajili ya mtu kumfukuza mkewe mara moja tu anaanza kumdanganya. Kudanganya wanawake ni mauti zaidi kwa waume kuliko wahalifu wa kawaida au silaha.kuna wengi wanaopotosha wanawake duniani ambao wanakaribisha wahalifu kuingia ndani ya nyumba yake wakati wa usiku tu kuja na kuondokana na mtu wake na maafisa wa polisi pamoja na jamaa hawawezi kuchunguza hii kama mwanamke huyo huwa na huzuni zaidi kuliko mtu yeyote katika mazishi ili kama kuvutia huruma na kujificha vitendo vyake vibaya.

Ndiyo sababu wanasaikolojia wanatisha moyo wanawake, zaidi ya wanaume, kutoka kwa kudanganya.

Wanawake hawawezi kushughulikia mgogoro wa kihisia unaokuja na kudanganya.

Ndio sababu mtu mwenye busara na mwenye busara ataona kwamba mke wake ameanza kumdanganya mara moja alipoanza kufanya hivyo kwa sababu wanawake wengi huwa na kupoteza heshima kwa waume zao na kujaribu kuepuka ngono nao mara nyingi.

Kudanganya Wanawake hata kuwapa sababu za kutosha kufanya ngono na waume zao.Utafiti umebaini kwamba karibu 90% ya wanawake wanaojanganya wanaona kuwa vigumu kuwa na ngono ya kufurahisha na waume zao, tena mtu mwenye akili atachunguza jambo hilo mara moja tabia ya mke wake kuhusu jinsia kuanza kuanza.lakini mtu mwepesi hawezi kamwe kuchunguza hili na daima kuvumilia udhuru wa bandia kutoka kwa mke wake wa kudanganya hadi atakapokwisha kabisa.

Wanawake hawawezi kudanganya washirika wao na watu wasiohusika na kihisia. Wao huunganisha hisia kwa kila kitu. Ndiyo sababu huwezi daima kuamini hukumu yao.wakati utani utakapopasuka, wanawake wengi wanaocheka hawakicheka kwa sababu utani huwa ni funny lakini kwa sababu wanampenda mtu aliyevunja utani. Ikiwa hawapendi wewe, bila kujali jinsi utani wako unaweza kuwa, haitacheka, lakini wakati mtu anaseka mlaha, ni kwa sababu mshtuko ni wa kushangaza, sio kwa sababu anapenda mchezaji.wanaume sio kila wakati wanaohusika na hisia za kihisia.

Utafiti umeonyesha kuwa kila uhusiano huanza kuongezeka mara moja mwanamke anapoanza kudanganya. Kuna watu wengi ambao wanadanganya washirika wao lakini bado wanawaonyesha upendo wa kweli.lakini ni vigumu sana kupata uhusiano ambao mwanamke anadanganya na mambo bado yanafanana.

Ninasema, karibu 100% ya wanawake wa kudanganya wanataka waume zao haraka kifo au talaka kuwa na uhuru wa ukatili wa kijinsia wakati karibu karibu 100% ya wanadanganyifu hawawezi kutaka wake zao kifo haraka au talaka. Ndiyo maana wanaume wengi hawakubali wake zao kuwa kimwili au kwa maneno ya unyanyasaji na wasichana wao.watu daima watasimama kwa wake zao.

Mtu anaweza kudanganya lakini bado anapenda na kumheshimu mke wake, lakini kinyume chake ni kweli kwa kuchuja wanawake.

Mara baada ya mke wako kuanza kulala na wanaume / mtu mwingine, tu kujua kwamba kifo chako kimekaribia.

R.M - Profesa wa Psychology
Chuo Kikuu cha Ohio
 
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