Vijana mnaotarajia kuoa mjipange kwelikweli

[Luther760]

Natumai mko poa, Ingawa korona ndo wimbo kila sehemu. Wakuu nimefanya karesearch kidogo tangu mwaka 2017 nilipo toka chuoni.

Nikarudi home sina namna, nikaanza kununua karanga. Wauzaji wakubwa ni wanawake wa umri kuanzia 20-35 hivi. Kilicho nishangaza, wengi ni single mothers, Kuna sehemu unakuta mtaa mzima ni haohao tu. Ukiuliza kwa nn, ukweli sababu zao ni za kitoto sana.

Wengi wameachika baada ya miaka miwili walio kaa sana ni miaka mitano. Hapa kunahitajika umakini mkubwa sana katika kuchagua mwanamke wa kuishi nae. Nilicho baini kwa hawa wanawake, wengi yaonekana hawakuwa na Upendo wa dhati kwa wenzi wao, pia wanawake wengi kwa sasa wanapenda uhuru sio kubanwa banwa na mwanamme.

Mwisho kabisa hofu ya Mungu kwa walio wengi imetoweka kabisa, yaani kama pochi halijanona jiandae kisaikolojia yangu ni hayo msije sema sikuwadokezea.

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[imhotep]

Wanawake wa vijijini na wao wameanza kuwaiga wenzao wa mijini

 

[Drone Camera]

Sehemu gani hiyo

 

[Kipangaspecial]

Usitutishe wewe

 

[Usher-smith MD]

Sioi, Acha nile Bata kwanza.

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[Antonio de Guzman]

Wengi wa wanunuaji ni wanawake? Uliwauliza ni kwanini wanazinunua izo karanga

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[mzabzab]

No money no honey kaka.
Tafuta pesa ujigegede warembo kwa raha zako. Mambo ya kuweka demu ndani ujue unataka stress tuu.

 

[Rasterman]

Wanasingizia eti mume anasumbua kuosha vyombo, kufua, kufagia, kupika kila wakati na wengine si tu hawapendi kupika bali pia hawajui kupika. Kikubwa ni mpunga tu. Na wengi ni wachafu yaani mtu unamwacha nyumbani hali unayokutana nayo utadhani umemwacha mbuzi. Vyombo vya kulia toka jana havijaoshwa, watoto wachafu, bafuni/ chooni ndio usiseme. Ukimuuliza anasema kachoka. Mtu huyu sasa wa kazi gani.

 

[Rasterman]

Sioi, Acha nile Bata kwanza.

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Mzee umekula bata toka 2010 hadi leo bado tu??

 

[Rasterman]

Wanawake wa vijijini na wao wameanza kuwaiga wenzao wa mijini

Aisee kuna kiswazi hivi niliwahi kaaa kila nyumba kuna mtoto wa kike kaachika. Ni laana sijui. Yale wale wanawake wa mtaa ule wanakua starehe tu. Shule hawana na hawajishughulishi na chochote.

 

[Pablo Blanco]

No money no honey kaka.
Tafuta pesa ujigegede warembo kwa raha zako. Mambo ya kuweka demu ndani ujue unataka stress tuu.

mzee una mpango wa kuoa

Hittin Blunts and Bustin Nuts

 

[Pablo Blanco]

Wanasingizia eti mume anasumbua kuosha vyombo, kufua, kufagia, kupika kila wakati na wengine si tu hawapendi kupika bali pia hawajui kupika. Kikubwa ni mpunga tu. Na wengi ni wachafu yaani mtu unamwacha nyumbani hali unayokutana nayo utadhani umemwacha mbuzi. Vyombo vya kulia toka jana havijaoshwa, watoto wachafu, bafuni/ chooni ndio usiseme. Ukimuuliza anasema kachoka. Mtu huyu sasa wa kazi gani.

vipi bado upo nae?

Hittin Blunts and Bustin Nuts

 

[mzabzab]

mzee una mpango wa kuoa

Hittin Blunts and Bustin Nuts

Sina mpango huo. Nilishajizoelea maisha yangu ya ubachela full raha sina stress.
Nikiwa na hela nagegeda nimiwa sina natulia ndani kama kuku kamwagiwa maji

 

[Rasterman]

vipi bado upo nae?

Hittin Blunts and Bustin Nuts

Hicho kingereza kaka mkubwa sijakuelewa Rahisisha lugha basi twende sawa.

 

[Pablo Blanco]

Sina mpango huo. Nilishajizoelea maisha yangu ya ubachela full raha sina stress.
Nikiwa na hela nagegeda nimiwa sina natulia ndani kama kuku kamwagiwa maji

. umefikisha 40?

Hittin Blunts and Bustin Nuts

 

[Mtingozi]

Mkuu huna hofu kwa Muumba wako?

Sioi, Acha nile Bata kwanza.

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[Demi]

Usitutishe wewe

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[Demi]

Wanasingizia eti mume anasumbua kuosha vyombo, kufua, kufagia, kupika kila wakati na wengine si tu hawapendi kupika bali pia hawajui kupika. Kikubwa ni mpunga tu. Na wengi ni wachafu yaani mtu unamwacha nyumbani hali unayokutana nayo utadhani umemwacha mbuzi. Vyombo vya kulia toka jana havijaoshwa, watoto wachafu, bafuni/ chooni ndio usiseme. Ukimuuliza anasema kachoka. Mtu huyu sasa wa kazi gani.

Wa kwako ndo yupo hivyo. Binadamu hawafanani

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[amu]

Mimi sijaelewa unanunua karanga za nini? Logic ya wewe kununua karanga ni ipi? Au karanga ni lugha fulani hivi mjini? Na kama ni karanga hizi hizi za kawaida kwa nini kila siku au kila mara ununue karanga?

 

[Joh Doe]

I am pro marriage, but I do believe in marrying with an open mind. The only benefit in a modern marriage institution has to a man is social conformity. Even your father (or 45+ older men) will not rush you into marriage because they understand what you will go through. They start hinting when you have your life together but they will not pressure you.

If you do not want kids, do not get married. If you marry do it so that your kids can grow up in stable environment with both parents. Be extremely selective when choosing a life-partner.

This is purely for demonstration purposes and I am in no way trying to commodify women.

Consider the dating zone as a market, and women as tomatoes. You want to make some stew (kids), would you take a rotten tomato to make the stew? No, because of obvious health risk. In this context, the rotten tomatoes are women who are more trouble than they are worth (single mothers, gold diggers, slay queens, 25+ women - unless you know her for not less than 15 years usije ukasema hukuambiwa etc.). So, the best approach is to keep checking other stands until you find a fresh tomato.

If you can't find a woman who is good enough for you (the one adding value to your life), then stay single and avoid a sad life. People do not lie when they say the biggest customers of madanguro (brothels) and bars are married men, and even the bible itself that promotes marriage say that it is better to live in a dessert than with a quarrelsome wife.