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JF-Expert Member
- Jun 12, 2009
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1. She is too stressed out:
Tension in a woman's body is the number one killer of orgasms.
If she's holding a lot of tension in her body it will inhibit endorphins
from flowing freely through her body which is essential for her
experiencing the level of pleasure of a vaginal orgasm.
If she has a lot of tension give her a massage. Massage is very
powerful for getting any woman relaxed and in the moment.
2. All her emotional needs in the relationship are not being met:
It's all to common for us men to overlook or not understand a woman's
needs in the relationship.
If she feels an emotional void toward you for whatever reason she will
be guarded and will not let her mind go, or surrender herself if
this is the case.
3. She is "trying" to hard to orgasm:
Many guys learn the physical techniques and the first thing they do
is say "oh hey honey, I have these super tricks I want to try to make
you orgasm".
This is not the right way to go about it.
This puts pressure on her to orgasm which will kill any chance of
her achieving orgasm. There should not be any discussion or
expectation about the outcome of the sexual experience.
This will free up her mind so that she can let go on her terms
with out expectation.
4. You are not a leader in your relationship, and ESPECIALLY not in
the bedroom:
She should trust and BELIEVE that she can surrender herself to you
in the bedroom. You need to be the leader in the bedroom and lead
her to orgasm.
Guys who are wussies or supplicate to much in the relationship or
bedroom will not be able gain enough trust for her to surrender
herself fully.
5. She is not confident in her body or her sexuality:
If she's self conscious about her body she's going to have a hard time
letting go.
She shouldn't have any unhealthy thoughts about sex or giving
herself to you. If she does, which isn't uncommon for women raised
in very conservative environments, then you must take things slowly
and make sure she's comfortable and can overcome any self-limiting
beliefs about her sexuality.
Sex is an enjoyable and healthy part of life for adults to experience
and she needs to fully embrace her sexuality.
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