The ten (10) qualities of the Wife Material every man desire ...

Mr What

JF-Expert Member
Oct 22, 2016

Searching for a rundown of extraordinary spouse characteristics? Possibly you're a young lady who needs to encapsulate these characteristics for your beau, or perhaps you're a sweetheart prepared to move onto something genuine.

You might've discovered this page by needing to comprehend what to search for before wedding your darling, or possibly you need to figure out how to be spouse material. In any case, it's good karma you discovered this asset.

Wifey Material is an expression used to depict the characteristics of a lady that would be a totally extraordinary spouse. The particular attributes fluctuate among men, yet there are a couple of universals that all men appear to concur upon.

There comes when most men need to settle down and construct a home with a decent lady. In any case, it appears to be increasingly more hard to track down a lady that hits all the focuses on our rundowns. In all actuality we're not looking hard enough. All things considered, most great ladies don't for the most part hang out at the bar each night, and they don't get saw without any problem.

It additionally matters the degree of your desires.

In the event that on your rundown of characteristics that make her wifey material you have "seeming as though a goddess", "cooks like my mom", and "guesses what broadly to grow her might be thinking" you may never discover such a woman.And if do you discover her, she may not discover you fascinating enough.However, there are some significant characteristics that make her wifey material.

Underneath I recorded the most widely recognized ones and I leave it to you, to search for the ones that make her interesting to you.

#1: She Knows how to Handle Life
At the point when you're dating and having some good times, you may welcome a lady in trouble who needs you to save her.

In any case, this element isn't something you should search for in a wife.When you're hoping to begin a family with somebody, you would prefer not to be the one to shoulder all the duty. All things considered, marriage is an association and requires two individuals to make it work through various challenges.

Search for a lady who can deal with awful news and frustration in light of the fact that there's a lot of this throughout everyday life. In the event that she doesn't have the foggiest idea what she needs and she's sulking when things don't go her direction, she's not wifey material at this time. Funds are a decent marker of a lady's development level, yet we will discuss that later.

#2. An amazing cook.
One needs to cook like the culinary specialists at five star inns. She has to know the correct elements for every feast. Aside from having the option to get ready customary dinners, she should ace how to set up an entangled feast. Her chapatis ought to be delicate like the bum of her infant, her meat tasty,her rice moja and her tea shouldn't be watery

#3: Inner Beauty: Personality
One of the must-have characteristics that make her wifey material is spoken to by inward excellence. Search for a lady who listens when you talk (doesn't simply gesture along while considering most recent patterns in design) and is understanding.

She ought to be caring, not too bad, and for the most part have a decent personality.Even on the off chance that you don't have any acquaintance with her for that long, in the event that you focus on the manner in which she treats others, you'll know. For example, would she say she was pleasant with the server that served you on your first supper date? She utilizes "please" and "thank you" when addressing customary individuals? Internal magnificence is one of the most significant qualities in a lady you intend to wed since it doesn't change chomp when you're old and exhausted with one another!

#4. God dreading.
She ought not exclusively be a congregation goer yet in addition have jobs in chapel. Like ensemble pioneer or youth pioneer. The minister should know her. She ought to consistently take the front seat in chapel. In case I overlook, she needs to go to chapel in a dress beneath her knees. She should give offering and tithe. Anything short of does not merit the difficulty. She won't bring up kids in a Godly manner

#5: She makes you a Better Man
The ideal relationship is when the two accomplices have space to develop and build up their fantasies.

Much the same as the last characteristic, she shouldn't attempt to transform you, however she should change with you.
Individuals consistently develop, however it's a matter of becoming together or developing apart.Just in light of the fact that you got hitched, it doesn't mean your social and expert lives should end! A decent lady will bolster your objectives and work with you to accomplish them. Obviously, you should give back in kind, however it shouldn't be that difficult when she is glad to help you.

This additionally implies you must have objectives and to keep on chipping away at yourself too. A ton of folks surrender their fantasies and settle when they get hitched, which raises a lot of ruckus.

A lady who surrenders her solace to give you space to seek after your vocation objectives is certainly showing solid wifey characteristics!

(In the event that you need to be an incredible spouse, you also should surrender some solace space to assist her with pursueing her objectives.)

#6: She Gets Along with the Ones You Love
Ought to be in acceptable terms with parents in law. A decent spouse regards and demonstrates unequivocal love to her parents in law. She adores her relative and sister in law as her family. She never contends or conveys feelings of resentment regardless of what occurs. All parents in law love her thusly.

In this way, you don't need a lady who will continually cry about your sister, upset your mom, or battle with your dad.

Truly, moms can be overprotective, yet an insightful, develop lady knows this. Obviously, I'm not saying she ought to be a mat for your family, yet she should discover center ground by being patient and kind.
Watch and watch how she coexists with your family, her associates, and particularly her own family.If she treats them with disregard, expect a similar when you're married.One of the best statements is "You can inform a great deal concerning an individual by how they treat creatures". The equivalent goes for other individuals, including your sweetheart or life partner.
Keeping in mind you, she should open her heart and life to your whole family. Consequently, you ought to be available to her gathering your family also.

#7: Common Values
I realize it very well may be energizing to be with a lady who challenges you consistently, on the grounds that she is not quite the same as you.

Be that as it may, as life proceeds onward, you will become weary of her continually moving your power and attempting to upset your ruling.While it's hard to locate an ideal match, you ought to in any event share a similar basic beliefs. For example, on the off chance that you need loads of children and a decent, comfortable home, she ought to be energetic about this objective.

You won't have an upbeat life in the event that she needs to live in a penthouse in New York, tasting universe throughout the day!
This doesn't mean you need similar interests or dreams, only similar qualities that are critical to both of you. I support discussions that spread these significant regions early.

#8: The Financial Situation
She ought to have the option to utilize cash admirably. She needs to utilize each coin cautiously. She shouldn't accepting extravagant cosmetics and Brazilian weaves flaunting that "my man has cash.

She should live in opposition to the motto; a man ought to have a spouse who goes through more cash than he can make. Lucrative endeavors and wise speculation ought to be readily available.

One of the characteristics that make her wifey material is a stable budgetary circumstance and a lifelong that is heading off to some place.

At the point when children tag along or you need to purchase a house, the monetary weight shouldn't fall just on your shoulders.Not to make reference to that a lady with a decent profession has dreams and objectives of her own. So she knows how significant yours are as well. On the off chance that she's awful with cash and money related duties, inquire as to whether she would approve of you taking care of a large portion of it. Then again, I don't suggest looking for a genuine relationship if your own funds are a disaster area.

On the off chance that she has amazing monetary obligation that is not supported up by a genuine explanation, you might be picking an individual who prefers more to go through than to bring in cash.
This is a colossal warning of adolescence, so be very cautious about this!

#9: She Calls You on Your BS
Hitched life isn't simply milk and nectar and you should ensure the individual remaining close to you is sufficiently able to call you on your BS when it is important. She ought to have the option to call attention to when you're committing a life changing error and you ought to have the option to confide in her recommendation.

For example, in the event that one day, you choose to sell the house and put the cash in an online ice-selling business, your better half ought to be the one to call attention to the blemishes in your arrangement.

She ought to have the option to clarify (tranquilly) why she doesn't concur and where things could go wrong.Of course, you ought to have the option to call her on her BS without serving a long time in Hell for your motion.

#10: She's Funny to Be With
In this way, my keep going thing on the rundown of characteristics that make her wifey material is a great demeanor. You ought to have the option to go to get-togethers, appreciate nighttimes with your companions, and by and large make some incredible memories together.

However, it's not just about when you are going out; you should feel incredible in one another's organization and she ought to move positive sentiments in you with a pleasant, comforting grin.

Ought not be a bother. A decent spouse material should trickeries from bothering. She shouldn't have the propensity for calling her beau constantly and moping in the event that he doesn't pick. Her requests ought to be sensible. Questions like "uko wapi?" Should not originate from her mouth.

The Monk

Platinum Member
Oct 12, 2012
You might be right but mind you, people change! The Monk you interacted with 5 years back is not the same.

Those so called qualities also change according to what the individuals go through in their lives. They are not permanent!

As long as you love each other, and of course agree staying together, the rest can be managed. That's all for now!


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Dec 21, 2013
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