The art of power and control

souljar

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Another session of gems dropping comrades bare with me in this rolla coster..

There is a reason why we ignore people who want us and keep chasing those who ignore us. There is a also a reason why we keep going back to people who break our hearts, like for example why girls keep going back their boyfriends even after getting their hearts broken. Or why they keep chasing assholes and bad boys.. the reason is simply that . It's not love we seek, we think its love we want but in reality we seek something more. We seek power and control over others, power being one of the greatest human desires.

We want those who ignore us to admit that they like us back which in some way gives us control over their emotions.( power if you may call it).
If someone admits that they like us, they give us their power thus to us they cease to be a challenge, thus we dont find them interestinganymore. (The ones you want dont want you and the ones who want you , you dont want them back..ever heard of that phrase?)

Truth is, what we seek in romance is power over others not their love for us. That's why women ignore nice guys because they give away their power easily, but an asshole? He never submits to a woman, never let's a woman control him thus she keeps chasing after him , trying to get exert her dominance over him but she never succeeds thus she stays in love with him forever even after he breaks her heart again and again.

(Its also important I note that , a woman biggest desire in romance is not love or material possessions and many like to claim. Its power. Power over man to be precise. )

In conclusion, I will say this .
Love is a game of power moves. Those who understand this fact win the game, they are the ones who break our hearts but they are also the ones we fall in love with.

Those who are naive enough to believe that love is a fairytale always get their hearts broken.

It's all a big game of power moves. Never forget that.

When you give away your power she gets bored, you cease to be interesting. So she finds another man who is a challenge to her.

YOUR AVERAGE AT YOUR BEST..

HAPPY SATO COMRADES!!
 

G4N

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The ones you want dont want you and the ones who want you , you dont want them back..ever heard of that phrase?)
Yes. I have heard it. And it is a common scenario in the world of love.
 

G4N

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Ma' grand mum once said love isn't really, but rather mythical. That's a reason the today's sweethearts (one fesh and soul) are big enemies of tomorrow. How is this possible if love exists?

There is only a temporary lust for sex which diminish with time. That's why in marriages people have to give vows before the priest and witnesses, thereafter sign some papers to document their promises. Why all these if love exists?
 

souljar

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Ma' grand mum once said love isn't really, but rather mythical. That's a reason the today's sweethearts (one fesh and soul) are big enemies of tomorrow. How is this possible if love exists?

There is only a temporary lust for sex which diminish with time. That's why in marriages people have to give vows before the priest and witnesses, thereafter sign some papers to document their promises. Why all these if love exists?
There is a thin line between love and hate same applies to genius and insanity. Love is much of individual perspective if you have never felt it then you dont know it.
 

G4N

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if you have never felt it then you dont know it
Many talk about love but very very few feel it. Likewise, many look for love but very few get it. Thus love is an insatiable hunger of human desire.
 

souljar

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Many talk about love but very very few feel it. Likewise, many look for love but very few get it. Thus love is an insatiable hunger of human desire.
Now there is were power and control(desire) comes along its much of psychological fancy Comrade..
 
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