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Sex in marriage

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Ujengelele, Jul 16, 2009.

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    Ujengelele JF-Expert Member

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    Sex according to Pastor Gitwaza (Rwanda)
    A lot of people don't associate sex with God - they associate it with Satan and darkness, as if sex weren't holy.
    The bible is explicit when it comes to sex. Sex is holy within marriage, and there is no prescribed style.
    Nowhere in the Bible does it say that the missionary position is the only sexual style. Not discussing sex in a relationship leads to divorce!!!!!

    Pastor Gitwaza has counseled women who've complained: my husband treats me as if I were his brother. There was one who told him: I am tired of getting sex fortnightly, like a salary. Gitwaza told her she was lucky to be getting sex fortnightly, since some wives only get it on big days, like elections.

    Many husbands leave their wives to seek sexual pleasures in Hillbrow.
    Have you ever asked yourself what those wives have that you don’t? Wives have become very frigid and even sleep with their panties. If you're a married woman, you should sleep naked and let your bum touch your husband. Today you find men going out of their way to get a glimpse of a vagina. They page through magazines and even go to lingerie departments in stores hoping to see what's hidden under panties, because their wives hide it from them.

    Marriage is about being free with your body in front of your partner. A woman should parade naked and do some modeling to tempt her husband. There are many married women who don't know what their husbands' penises look like. They only feel it when he enters her. They've never touched it, let alone see it, because the husband switches off the lights before undressing. A penis is a wife's toy - she is supposed to play with it.

    He blames couples for not making time for sex and complaining about being tired after a day's work. You find many couples who've been sexually starved for years. God created sex for procreation and also for pleasure. You can't marry and not have a good time in bed.

    Why can't you drive home during lunch and have a quickie with your wife?
    We're all equal in sex - it's not just about a woman satisfying a man. You have to satisfy each other. Have you ever seen a woman who has been satisfied? Have u noticed how she glows and becomes energetic? May the Lord Bless you.
    This is the "Whole Truth, Nothing But The Truth" so God Help Us From The Beginning.
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    Babuyao JF-Expert Member

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    Mmmh! Mambo hayo! Ushauri wa bure huo!
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    libidozy Member

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    Mzeee uko deeeeep! Nimekukubali!
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    Edson JF-Expert Member

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    huyu pastor noma sana
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    mmaroroi JF-Expert Member

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    Safi sana,kuna wanandoa wanajua kunonino usiku tu,wanawake wengine akiambiwa na mwenzake fanya hivi anasema mimi si mhuni,kuna uhuni kwenye ndoa?Hili darasa tosha.
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    Nasolwa JF-Expert Member

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    Ni kweli kabisa hata Mwinjilisti Mwakasege katika moja ya semina zake kwa wanandoa aliwahi kutoa ushauri kama huu. Nanukuu...." Mnapokuwa na mwenzi wako kwenye tendo la ndoa hamtakiwi kuwa kimya ni lazima kila moja amweleze mwenzake ni jambo gani afanyiwe ili afurahie tendo la ndoa. Mwuulize Diana( mke wake) mimi ni kichaa kwenye tendo la ndoa" ..Mwisho wa kunukuu.
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    MwanajamiiOne Platinum Member

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    Hiyo red imenifurahisha!!
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    BAK JF-Expert Member

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    MJ1, Nafurahi kuona unafurahi pamoja na matatizo yote uliyokuwa nayo. Ndiyo mambo ya dunia hasa kwenye mapenzi ni kizungumkuti. Usikilize moyo wako unataka nini kwenye matatizo yako. Ongea na ndugu wa mwenzio ambao umesema wanakupenda na kukujali uwasikilize kabla ya kufanya uamuzi wako wa mwisho.

    Kuhusu hili, nakubaliana na Mwakasege Mke na mume msiwekeane mipaka 'hili ni uhuni' au 'hili mimi sifanyi' ha ha ha ha lakini msinitilie maneno kinywani mwangu. Sijatamka lolote kuhusu TIGO, of course with capital letters ha ha ha ha ;)

    Have a great day and all the best and luck in your situation.

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    ni maelezo mazuri its good more for those in marriage.
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    NGULI JF-Expert Member

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    Ningependa mke wangu anipigie ....honey leo nahamu ningependa uwahi au toroka uje unipe chapu then gotta back to job, pia ainnishe which style drives her crazy....tupo hapo???