barafu
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- Apr 28, 2013
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No-one has the right to tell anyone how to vote. Voting is personal, and we all have different past experiences, current circumstances and hopes for the future. But the beauty of a democracy is that we all have the right to vote. We should use it. Because we’re lucky to live in a country where regardless of who you are – rich or poor, black or white, Manchester United or Man City – we can get out there on Thursday and have our say. Every vote is equal, and each one really matters.
Sometimes democracy makes us angry. It pushes us to extremes, especially in a referendum like this that makes everyone pretend things are black and white, when they’re probably not. But the blessing to express yourself – and to disagree respectfully – is one we should cherish. Especially when the outcome will affect everyone so much.
Thursday will be the first time I’ve ever been motivated to vote in an election. That’s how seriously I’m taking this. Because the question about our future in Europe isn’t about Conservative versus Labour; it’s not about which bunch of politicians we want running the country. It’s much bigger than that. It’s not about the next five years; it’s about the next fifty. Probably even longer. It’s about the sort of country our kids are going to grow up in, and how the rest of the world will look at Britain from now on. And from all I’ve heard on both sides of this debate, I think our country is at a pretty important fork in the road, and the decision we make could take us to very different places.
As for me – for what it’s worth – I am for remaining part of the EU. Some people say this is the unpatriotic choice – that being part of the EU waters down our national identity. To that, I say: come off it. One of the proudest moments of my life was playing for and captaining England – in a shirt I was privileged to wear 81 times. You won’t find many people more patriotic than me – more proud of what this country is about and what we stand for. And for me, there are three simple reasons why, on balance, I think we should remain.
The first is my kids. I’ve got three. I teach them that they can achieve anything – that they should dream big. And a lot of the things I’ve heard in this referendum tells me that there’ll be less opportunity for them if we’re out there on our own, pulling up the drawbridge to the rest of the world. I think other countries will just do the same to us. And the rest of the EU is hardly going to give us a great deal for walking out on them, are they? They’ll want to send a message to other countries not to leave as well. It’s just common sense. That means sorting out our new relationship with Europe could take years and years. I don’t know about you, but I think most people have got plans for the next few years. We want to get stuff done; we don’t want to be messing about and having endless Europe discussions. None of that is going to make my kids’ futures brighter; it’ll just make their world smaller. I don’t want that for them.
The second reason is that I think that politics is a team game. I worked for the greatest manager of all time. Sir Alex Ferguson always taught us that no individual is bigger than the team; that just because we played for Man United – a massive, famous club – didn’t mean we could swan around doing our own thing. We had to work even harder, and be even more of a team, to get where we wanted to be. And I think Europe is a bit like that. Britain is an amazing country, but we’ll achieve much more if we’re a team player – working with others to get things done. I am a big believer in needing to work with our friends and neighbours in Europe if we want to make a change we and our children can be proud of. The sort of things young people care about: tackling climate change, helping refugees, fighting disease in Africa – they can only get fixed if we all work together. So we shouldn’t cut off our nose to spite our face by walking away.
The third reason is the kind of country I want us to be. I’ve got a bit of a unique perspective on this. I’ve seen racism in football and I’ve spoken out about the racism my family and I experienced growing up in London in the 1980s. A lot has changed for the better – don’t get me wrong. But in this campaign, to tell you the truth, I haven’t liked what I’ve seen. I think all the focus on immigration has been a real shame. I don’t want Britain to become an angry and mean-spirited country. I think there’s a danger that, if Leave wins, it’ll be an endorsement of the idea that it’s OK to blame all our problems on foreigners. The England football team used to do that. And it didn’t help us play any better. Then we started learning from the foreign players we’d brought to the Premier League, and we improved ourselves. So let’s remember: Europeans make a really important contribution to our country, and most of our problems are actually home-grown.
That’s just my two cents’ worth. If we do vote to remain, I think we’ve got to use this massive moment in time to make our country better and bring everyone together again. But in the end, it’s your decision. And my main message is: whatever you do, get out there and have your say on Thursday. Because the kind of Britain we wake up in on Friday – and every day after that – depends on us all getting out there and #voting.
