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His phone rang in church by accident during prayers.
The Pastor scolded him.
The worshippers admonished him after prayers for interrupting.
His wife kept on lecturing on his carelessness all the way home.
His co-vineyard workers shook their heads in disgust
You could see the shame, embarrassment and humiliation on his face.
He never stepped foot in the church again.
That evening, he went to a bar.
He was still nervous and trembling.
He spilled his drink on the table, bottle falls by accident and it splashed on some people.
Those it touched rushed towards him. He closed his eyes expecting bashing of words or slaps.
Instead they cared to know if he didn’t get a cut from the broken bottle.
The waiter apologized and gave him a napkin to clean himself.
The janitor mopped the floor.
The female manager offered him a complimentary drink.
She also gave him a huge hug and a peck while saying, "Don't worry man. Who doesn't make mistakes?"
He has not stopped going to that bar since then.
#Lesson
Sometimes our attitude as believers drives souls to Hell.
You can make a difference by how you treat people especially when they make mistakes.
* IF you cannot be a bridge to connect people, then do not be a wall to separate them.
* IF you cannot be a light to brighten people's good deeds then do not be darkness covering their efforts.
* IF you cannot be water to help people's crops sprout, then do not be a pest destroying their crops.
* IF you cannot be a vaccine to give life, do not be a virus to terminate it.
* IF you cannot be a pencil to write anyone's happiness, then try to be a nice eraser to remove their sadness.
We can always be each others keeper and resolve to heal
The Pastor scolded him.
The worshippers admonished him after prayers for interrupting.
His wife kept on lecturing on his carelessness all the way home.
His co-vineyard workers shook their heads in disgust
You could see the shame, embarrassment and humiliation on his face.
He never stepped foot in the church again.
That evening, he went to a bar.
He was still nervous and trembling.
He spilled his drink on the table, bottle falls by accident and it splashed on some people.
Those it touched rushed towards him. He closed his eyes expecting bashing of words or slaps.
Instead they cared to know if he didn’t get a cut from the broken bottle.
The waiter apologized and gave him a napkin to clean himself.
The janitor mopped the floor.
The female manager offered him a complimentary drink.
She also gave him a huge hug and a peck while saying, "Don't worry man. Who doesn't make mistakes?"
He has not stopped going to that bar since then.
#Lesson
Sometimes our attitude as believers drives souls to Hell.
You can make a difference by how you treat people especially when they make mistakes.
* IF you cannot be a bridge to connect people, then do not be a wall to separate them.
* IF you cannot be a light to brighten people's good deeds then do not be darkness covering their efforts.
* IF you cannot be water to help people's crops sprout, then do not be a pest destroying their crops.
* IF you cannot be a vaccine to give life, do not be a virus to terminate it.
* IF you cannot be a pencil to write anyone's happiness, then try to be a nice eraser to remove their sadness.
We can always be each others keeper and resolve to heal
Numbisa
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Shakespeare.
Never play with the feelings of others because you may win the game but the risk is that you will surely lose the person for a life time.
.
Napoleon.
The world suffers a lot. Not because of the violence of bad people, But because of the silence of good people!
.
Einstein.
I am thankful to all those who said NO to me It's because of them I did it myself.
.
Abraham Lincoln.
If friendship is your weakest point then you are the strongest person in the world.
.
Shakespeare.
Laughing faces do not mean that there is absence of sorrow! But it means that they have the ability to deal with it.
.
William arthur.
Opportunities are like sunrises, if you wait too long you can miss them.
.
Shakespeare.
Coin always makes sound but the currency notes are always silent. So when your value increases keep quiet
Never play with the feelings of others because you may win the game but the risk is that you will surely lose the person for a life time.
.
Napoleon.
The world suffers a lot. Not because of the violence of bad people, But because of the silence of good people!
.
Einstein.
I am thankful to all those who said NO to me It's because of them I did it myself.
.
Abraham Lincoln.
If friendship is your weakest point then you are the strongest person in the world.
.
Shakespeare.
Laughing faces do not mean that there is absence of sorrow! But it means that they have the ability to deal with it.
.
William arthur.
Opportunities are like sunrises, if you wait too long you can miss them.
.
Shakespeare.
Coin always makes sound but the currency notes are always silent. So when your value increases keep quiet
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Life isn’t always going to make sense.
You come across obstacles, hardships, betrayal, illness.
Don’t let bitterness and anger rule your thoughts.
Become mentally tough enough to let those things come in and quickly adjust.
No matter what, you have to move forward.
You come across obstacles, hardships, betrayal, illness.
Don’t let bitterness and anger rule your thoughts.
Become mentally tough enough to let those things come in and quickly adjust.
No matter what, you have to move forward.
Numbisa
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5 Things that will change your life instantly:
1) Discipline - Stop eating garbage
2) Discipline - Stop Wasting your time
3) Discipline - Stop Being Lazy
4) Discipline - Stop making excuses
5) Discipline - Stop blaming others for your problems
The idea is simple
The process is never ending
1) Discipline - Stop eating garbage
2) Discipline - Stop Wasting your time
3) Discipline - Stop Being Lazy
4) Discipline - Stop making excuses
5) Discipline - Stop blaming others for your problems
The idea is simple
The process is never ending
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Japanese surprising research...
1. Acidity not only caused by diet errors, but more dominated because of stress.
2. Hypertension not only caused by too much consumption of salty foods, but mainly because of errors in managing emotions.
3. Cholesterol is not only caused by fatty foods, but the excessive laziness or sedentary lifestyle is more responsible.
4. Asthma not only because of the disruption of oxygen supply to lungs, but often sad feelings make lungs unstable.
5. Diabetes not only because of too much consumption of glucose, but selfish & stubborn attitude disrupts the function of the pancreas.
6. Kidney stones : .Not only Calcium Oxalate deposits, but pent up emotions and hatred
7. Spondylitis : not only L4L5 or cervical disorder; but over burdened or too much worries about future
If we want to be healthy then first
1) Fix your Mind
2) Do regular Exercises,
2) Move around,
3) Do Meditation
4) Laugh and make others laugh too.
5) Make Friends
These activities will help you to strengthen your soul, mind and body...
Be Healthy And Enjoy Your Life.
GOD BLESS ALL
1. Acidity not only caused by diet errors, but more dominated because of stress.
2. Hypertension not only caused by too much consumption of salty foods, but mainly because of errors in managing emotions.
3. Cholesterol is not only caused by fatty foods, but the excessive laziness or sedentary lifestyle is more responsible.
4. Asthma not only because of the disruption of oxygen supply to lungs, but often sad feelings make lungs unstable.
5. Diabetes not only because of too much consumption of glucose, but selfish & stubborn attitude disrupts the function of the pancreas.
6. Kidney stones : .Not only Calcium Oxalate deposits, but pent up emotions and hatred
7. Spondylitis : not only L4L5 or cervical disorder; but over burdened or too much worries about future
If we want to be healthy then first
1) Fix your Mind
2) Do regular Exercises,
2) Move around,
3) Do Meditation
4) Laugh and make others laugh too.
5) Make Friends
These activities will help you to strengthen your soul, mind and body...
Be Healthy And Enjoy Your Life.
GOD BLESS ALL
Numbisa
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Learn To Be Happy!
Some people learn to be sad and miserable. Some people even expect to be miserable!
And because they expect it, that's exactly what they are!
In some churches, people even talk and sing about being miserable. They sing, "Sometimes I'm up, sometimes I'm down, sometimes I'm almost level with the ground." EVEN THE DEVIL DOESN'T GET THAT LOW!
Learn to Be Happy! Learn to lift yourself up. Expect good to come to you, and that is what you will receive! Imagine, if there is half a glass of water, a pessimist Will say it is half empty, but an optimist will say it is half full. Learn to be an optimist! Learn to be cheerful! Learn of the goodness that is already within you.
Learn Happiness, love, success, health and prosperity. Learn that the Divine Self within you is perfection.
Some people learn to be sad and miserable. Some people even expect to be miserable!
And because they expect it, that's exactly what they are!
In some churches, people even talk and sing about being miserable. They sing, "Sometimes I'm up, sometimes I'm down, sometimes I'm almost level with the ground." EVEN THE DEVIL DOESN'T GET THAT LOW!
Learn to Be Happy! Learn to lift yourself up. Expect good to come to you, and that is what you will receive! Imagine, if there is half a glass of water, a pessimist Will say it is half empty, but an optimist will say it is half full. Learn to be an optimist! Learn to be cheerful! Learn of the goodness that is already within you.
Learn Happiness, love, success, health and prosperity. Learn that the Divine Self within you is perfection.
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Stay focused. We often get sidetracked because we are worrying too much about whose watching, what they are thinking and what's being said. Who cares.. Opinions are not results! People can assume all they want but they will never be able to predict your next winning move. Only you can determine that!
Yes, some may see you fall. Yes some may see you make a myriad of mistakes. But your lessons learned will be your wisdom earned. That gives you the confidence and mental fortitude to keep trying and giving it your best. They will wonder how you did it! Well let them wonder. They will wonder about many of the wonderful things you are about to do. But you must be ACTIVE! Be that powerful, optimistic individual who makes things happen because you are determined to out last your challenges. Believe the Champion in You! -Adrian Starks
Yes, some may see you fall. Yes some may see you make a myriad of mistakes. But your lessons learned will be your wisdom earned. That gives you the confidence and mental fortitude to keep trying and giving it your best. They will wonder how you did it! Well let them wonder. They will wonder about many of the wonderful things you are about to do. But you must be ACTIVE! Be that powerful, optimistic individual who makes things happen because you are determined to out last your challenges. Believe the Champion in You! -Adrian Starks
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Its worthy to read,..
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Life is too short to wake up
in the morning with regrets,
so love the people who treat you right,
forget about the ones who don't,
and believe that everything
happens for a reason.
If you get a chance, take it.
If it changes your life, let it.
Nobody said life would be easy,
they just promised it would be worth it.
Good morning
in the morning with regrets,
so love the people who treat you right,
forget about the ones who don't,
and believe that everything
happens for a reason.
If you get a chance, take it.
If it changes your life, let it.
Nobody said life would be easy,
they just promised it would be worth it.
Good morning
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I think the hardest thing in the world is having to admit to yourself that you're the one to blame for everything that's wrong with your life. But the reason that it’s the hardest thing in the world is because it’s also the scariest thing in the world—because people don't tend to live very long after they finally realize that the call is coming from inside the house.
#haveablessedtuesday#
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Mi huu uzi naupitia sana unasaidia sana kuna vitu nakopi hapa namtumia rafiki yangu yupo depressed sana
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