NewDawnTz
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- Nov 15, 2010
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One of the things I always believe about people is that each one of is purposefully , perfectly and uniquely made/born. We are unique from one another. The way I was created (if you believe in creation or whatever) differs from the way you were created. I am NewDawnTz and I can never be Arnold Schwarzenegger. You are who you are and not Halle Berry.
From little experience with my sweet girl baby (I prefer calling her so, if not hon), I came to realize most of todays relation broke up simply because couples are trying to live artificial life. But surely I tell you, if you allow and support your man or woman to live to his/her natural unique traits and character; that is the best thing you can do to keep your relation chill 365.
During my early days with my hot girl baby, I use to take her dinner and I expected that when we get to the hotel our dinner will be fantastic just like Mainda and Kanumba in one of thrilling and sexiest bongo movies they act. On the contrary, if found her looking gorgeous in the outfits she wore but you know what, she appeared dismal!!!! Why, because she was not sexiest like a woman I saw on a TV when she is out with her man. I decided not to take her for dinner because she doesnt make my dinner look hot. At a certain point I was about to give her a shit so I can look for another sexiest woman on dinner outings.
One day she told me, you seem like you dont enjoy dinner outings with me?? And I honestly said yes Mam. Then she told me, you look for what I do not have and maybe I cannot get it. I have the best of me, search for them.
This made me, came back to my senses and remember that every person is uniquely made and with some specific character and I realized that keep on call for my girl baby to bear characters like what I saw in a TV show or one of woman in my neighborhood is like forcing her to become artificial. Today I will want this from her and it is not there and she will discover I need it and because she want to keep me she will try her best; then ARTIFICIAL thing number 1, and tomorrow again artificial thing number 2, another day artificial thing number 3, and a day after tomorrow, another artificial thing number 4, and at the end of the day YOU HAVE A COMPLETE ARTIFICIAL MAN/WOMAN.
Then, I said no, NO, NO!! I will help my girl be natural and live to her potentials and support her do so. I will not milk a he-goat!!! Let me support her to become the best of herself. Lack of this realization will always made YOU a quitter in the name of happiness in love because you will be looking for a woman/man with everything you saw in a TV OR elsewhere.
You know what; I started to learn about her, to explore her nature and God given attitudes, potentials and other unique characters. I told her a story about how I feel about her when I take her for dinner and finally, I clearly told her that I want to know about her unique characters, support them to grow and shine and help her become the best of herself. I told her to do the same and we agree each other that we be open and show our real characters and nature.
From that point, after knowing each other, we are now living happy and my girl baby doesnt like to see Kanumba or Ray or whoever, whatever in me, what she want to see is me, NeDawnTz, and she enjoy everything. The same thing for me, I hate to see Mainda, Uwoya or any other character in a TV show or in my neighborhood in her. I WANT HER NATURAL BEING and that is the best thing in our relation.
Mfahamu mwenza wako na Natural character zake na msaidie kuziishi ili uwe nae natural sio na artificial character. Itawasaidia. Kama kuna ya kufundishana, taratiiiiiiiibuuuuu!!! Ili msiharibu mambo.
HOW DO YOU HELP YOUR PARTNER TO BECOME THE BEST OF HIMSELF/HERSELF and not like a movie Star???
Wish you all nice relation hasa katika msimu huu wa sikukuu, msimu ambao outings ni nyingi sana. If you like her/him natural, you will have the best in your marriage/relationship
From little experience with my sweet girl baby (I prefer calling her so, if not hon), I came to realize most of todays relation broke up simply because couples are trying to live artificial life. But surely I tell you, if you allow and support your man or woman to live to his/her natural unique traits and character; that is the best thing you can do to keep your relation chill 365.
During my early days with my hot girl baby, I use to take her dinner and I expected that when we get to the hotel our dinner will be fantastic just like Mainda and Kanumba in one of thrilling and sexiest bongo movies they act. On the contrary, if found her looking gorgeous in the outfits she wore but you know what, she appeared dismal!!!! Why, because she was not sexiest like a woman I saw on a TV when she is out with her man. I decided not to take her for dinner because she doesnt make my dinner look hot. At a certain point I was about to give her a shit so I can look for another sexiest woman on dinner outings.
One day she told me, you seem like you dont enjoy dinner outings with me?? And I honestly said yes Mam. Then she told me, you look for what I do not have and maybe I cannot get it. I have the best of me, search for them.
This made me, came back to my senses and remember that every person is uniquely made and with some specific character and I realized that keep on call for my girl baby to bear characters like what I saw in a TV show or one of woman in my neighborhood is like forcing her to become artificial. Today I will want this from her and it is not there and she will discover I need it and because she want to keep me she will try her best; then ARTIFICIAL thing number 1, and tomorrow again artificial thing number 2, another day artificial thing number 3, and a day after tomorrow, another artificial thing number 4, and at the end of the day YOU HAVE A COMPLETE ARTIFICIAL MAN/WOMAN.
Then, I said no, NO, NO!! I will help my girl be natural and live to her potentials and support her do so. I will not milk a he-goat!!! Let me support her to become the best of herself. Lack of this realization will always made YOU a quitter in the name of happiness in love because you will be looking for a woman/man with everything you saw in a TV OR elsewhere.
You know what; I started to learn about her, to explore her nature and God given attitudes, potentials and other unique characters. I told her a story about how I feel about her when I take her for dinner and finally, I clearly told her that I want to know about her unique characters, support them to grow and shine and help her become the best of herself. I told her to do the same and we agree each other that we be open and show our real characters and nature.
From that point, after knowing each other, we are now living happy and my girl baby doesnt like to see Kanumba or Ray or whoever, whatever in me, what she want to see is me, NeDawnTz, and she enjoy everything. The same thing for me, I hate to see Mainda, Uwoya or any other character in a TV show or in my neighborhood in her. I WANT HER NATURAL BEING and that is the best thing in our relation.
Mfahamu mwenza wako na Natural character zake na msaidie kuziishi ili uwe nae natural sio na artificial character. Itawasaidia. Kama kuna ya kufundishana, taratiiiiiiiibuuuuu!!! Ili msiharibu mambo.
HOW DO YOU HELP YOUR PARTNER TO BECOME THE BEST OF HIMSELF/HERSELF and not like a movie Star???
Wish you all nice relation hasa katika msimu huu wa sikukuu, msimu ambao outings ni nyingi sana. If you like her/him natural, you will have the best in your marriage/relationship