Getting a girl to fall for you takes time, energy, and lots of patience. If you treat a girl well and show her what makes you a great guy, she may come to appreciate you and fall for you in her own time. Keep in mind that there must be some attraction between the two of you already. If not, it's unlikely that she will fall for you. But you can increase your chances by doing things to get her attention, demonstrating your merits, and by dating her.
Step 1:
Getting her to notice you.
[1]. Go slow:
Before you start pursuing a girl, keep in mind that rushing her to fall for you is not a good idea. If you rush to get into a relationship with a girl, she might think you are desperate and lose interest in you. You should always take things slowly when you are getting to know her. Try to be her friend and get to know her better before you try to make her your girlfriend.
[2]. Find an excuse to talk to her:
To get a girl to notice you, you will need to talk to her at some point. You don't have to have a good excuse, you just need some sort of excuse to break the ice. Once you have broken the ice, talking to her again won't be difficult. Try saying something like, “Hey, do you remember what the homework was?” or “Can you please pass me that book?”.
[3]. Be yourself:
Don't try to change your personality to impress a girl. Instead, show her you really are. If she likes you, you will feel even better knowing that she likes the real you and that it wasn't that she discovered you were faking everything. If she doesn't like the real you, it just means that she's not the one for you.
[4]. Pay her compliments:
Sincere compliments are another great way to get a girl to feel more comfortable with you. Just make sure they are direct and thoughtful. Compliment her looks, intelligence, creativity, and her determination. For example, you could say, “You are such an amazing artist. I really admire your talent.”
[5]. Flirt with her a little:
Flirtation is important to show a girl that you really like her and that you are interested in more than friendship. If you are new to flirting, then you will need to learn some techniques first. But often, flirtation happens on it's own. You may find yourself smiling and locking eye with the girl you like and not even realize that you have been flirting. Smile at her when you see her and make frequent eye contacts as well. These are clear signs that you are interested in her. If she looks away, don't get worried. It might just mean that she is nervous, which can be a good thing.
[6]. Have manners:
Be polite, not only to her but to everyone you meet. Remember to say words like “Please” and “Thank you”. Use table manners when you share a meal. You can even open the door for her and follow her home to make sure she gets home safely. But the one thing you should never forget is being clean. Make sure you wear clean clothes, style your hair, and use deodorants. Showing her that you have style and you take pride in your appearance will be attractive to her.
Step 2:
Demonstrating your merits.
[1]. Live your own life:
While it is great to spend time with a girl you like, it is still important to make time for your own interests. She will be more attracted to you if she sees that you have a great life and that you are independent than if you need to be around her to feel happy.
[2]. Listen to her:
Being a good listener is crucial if you want to get a girl to fall for you. Maintain eye contact and say neutral things like,“Yes,” “I see” and “Go on”. Make sure that you repeat back what she has said now and then to show that you have been listening.
[3]. Show her what makes you special:The
Your qualities may help you to get a girl to fall for you as well. For example, if you are a good footballer, take her to one of your games. If you play guitar, show off your wonderful skills to her, and if you are a vivid reader, strike up a conversation about books with her.
[4]. Support and encourage her:
Demonstrating how supportive and encouraging you can be may also convince her that you are worthy of her love. Do little things to show her what a great guy you are before you even go on your first date. For example, you can cheer her up at one of her games, high five her for passing an exam, or congratulate her for getting promoted at her job. Look for little ways that you can offer your encouragement and she will be grateful.
[5]. Be polite and considerate:
While some girls are attracted to bad guys, a considerate guy makes a much better boyfriend. Make sure that you demonstrate you boyfriend qualities to her before you even have your first date.
Part 3:
Dating her.
[1]. Ask her out on a date:
In order to take your casual flirty friendship to the next level, you will need to ask her out on a date at some point. Ask her out in a way that is casual and low-pressured in order to increase your chances of getting a yes and to reduce the awkwardness if she says no. Try something like, “I have an extra movie ticket to [that movie she loves and would like to watch] on Friday night. Are you busy?”
[2]. Plan a special date with her preference in mind:
While you can ask her out in a way that is casual, you may also want to plan a date that will wow her. Think about what you already know about her to plan something she would enjoy, or , you can just ask her what she would like to do. She may appreciate your consideration of her desires as you plan your first date.
[3]. Be an attentive date:
Showing that you have her comfort and enjoyment at the top of your list will make it more likely that she will want to go on more dates with you. Look for littles ways that you can ensure she is having a great time all through the date. For example, if she seems cold sitting outside at a café, ask if she wants to go inside to get warm. Or, if the waiter forgot to bring her a drink refill, get the waiter's attention and ask[politely] about it or just go to the bar and get it for her yourself.
[4]. Let her know how she makes you feel:
After you have had a few dates, let her know how much you enjoy spending time with her. She might feel the same way about you, but you will have to speak up at some point if you want to be sure. Try saying something like, “I always have such an amazing time when we go out. You are really fun to be with.” Or, be more specific and say something like, “you have the most beautiful smile. It always brightens my day.”
[5]. Keep dating her and getting to know her:
Getting a girl to fall in love with you takes time and energy. Even if your first date was amazing, you can't expect her to be in love with you already. Keep taking her out on amazing dates and enjoy the process of getting to know each other. The relationship will have a better chance of thriving if you let things happen rather trying to make her fall in love with you right away.
Tips:
[1]. Remember, falling in love takes time and you should not try to rush things. Enjoy your time with her and try to be patient.
[2]. At any point of time, do not show that you are desperate for her attention, it will seem like you are a crazy maniac.
[3]. Do not ignore, be mean, bully her, or overdo your flirting with her.
[4]. Don't force it; if you feel like there is no connection or energy when you talk, then she is probably not a great match. Thanks for reading.
Step 1:
Getting her to notice you.
[1]. Go slow:
Before you start pursuing a girl, keep in mind that rushing her to fall for you is not a good idea. If you rush to get into a relationship with a girl, she might think you are desperate and lose interest in you. You should always take things slowly when you are getting to know her. Try to be her friend and get to know her better before you try to make her your girlfriend.
[2]. Find an excuse to talk to her:
To get a girl to notice you, you will need to talk to her at some point. You don't have to have a good excuse, you just need some sort of excuse to break the ice. Once you have broken the ice, talking to her again won't be difficult. Try saying something like, “Hey, do you remember what the homework was?” or “Can you please pass me that book?”.
[3]. Be yourself:
Don't try to change your personality to impress a girl. Instead, show her you really are. If she likes you, you will feel even better knowing that she likes the real you and that it wasn't that she discovered you were faking everything. If she doesn't like the real you, it just means that she's not the one for you.
[4]. Pay her compliments:
Sincere compliments are another great way to get a girl to feel more comfortable with you. Just make sure they are direct and thoughtful. Compliment her looks, intelligence, creativity, and her determination. For example, you could say, “You are such an amazing artist. I really admire your talent.”
[5]. Flirt with her a little:
Flirtation is important to show a girl that you really like her and that you are interested in more than friendship. If you are new to flirting, then you will need to learn some techniques first. But often, flirtation happens on it's own. You may find yourself smiling and locking eye with the girl you like and not even realize that you have been flirting. Smile at her when you see her and make frequent eye contacts as well. These are clear signs that you are interested in her. If she looks away, don't get worried. It might just mean that she is nervous, which can be a good thing.
[6]. Have manners:
Be polite, not only to her but to everyone you meet. Remember to say words like “Please” and “Thank you”. Use table manners when you share a meal. You can even open the door for her and follow her home to make sure she gets home safely. But the one thing you should never forget is being clean. Make sure you wear clean clothes, style your hair, and use deodorants. Showing her that you have style and you take pride in your appearance will be attractive to her.
Step 2:
Demonstrating your merits.
[1]. Live your own life:
While it is great to spend time with a girl you like, it is still important to make time for your own interests. She will be more attracted to you if she sees that you have a great life and that you are independent than if you need to be around her to feel happy.
[2]. Listen to her:
Being a good listener is crucial if you want to get a girl to fall for you. Maintain eye contact and say neutral things like,“Yes,” “I see” and “Go on”. Make sure that you repeat back what she has said now and then to show that you have been listening.
[3]. Show her what makes you special:The
Your qualities may help you to get a girl to fall for you as well. For example, if you are a good footballer, take her to one of your games. If you play guitar, show off your wonderful skills to her, and if you are a vivid reader, strike up a conversation about books with her.
[4]. Support and encourage her:
Demonstrating how supportive and encouraging you can be may also convince her that you are worthy of her love. Do little things to show her what a great guy you are before you even go on your first date. For example, you can cheer her up at one of her games, high five her for passing an exam, or congratulate her for getting promoted at her job. Look for little ways that you can offer your encouragement and she will be grateful.
[5]. Be polite and considerate:
While some girls are attracted to bad guys, a considerate guy makes a much better boyfriend. Make sure that you demonstrate you boyfriend qualities to her before you even have your first date.
Part 3:
Dating her.
[1]. Ask her out on a date:
In order to take your casual flirty friendship to the next level, you will need to ask her out on a date at some point. Ask her out in a way that is casual and low-pressured in order to increase your chances of getting a yes and to reduce the awkwardness if she says no. Try something like, “I have an extra movie ticket to [that movie she loves and would like to watch] on Friday night. Are you busy?”
[2]. Plan a special date with her preference in mind:
While you can ask her out in a way that is casual, you may also want to plan a date that will wow her. Think about what you already know about her to plan something she would enjoy, or , you can just ask her what she would like to do. She may appreciate your consideration of her desires as you plan your first date.
[3]. Be an attentive date:
Showing that you have her comfort and enjoyment at the top of your list will make it more likely that she will want to go on more dates with you. Look for littles ways that you can ensure she is having a great time all through the date. For example, if she seems cold sitting outside at a café, ask if she wants to go inside to get warm. Or, if the waiter forgot to bring her a drink refill, get the waiter's attention and ask[politely] about it or just go to the bar and get it for her yourself.
[4]. Let her know how she makes you feel:
After you have had a few dates, let her know how much you enjoy spending time with her. She might feel the same way about you, but you will have to speak up at some point if you want to be sure. Try saying something like, “I always have such an amazing time when we go out. You are really fun to be with.” Or, be more specific and say something like, “you have the most beautiful smile. It always brightens my day.”
[5]. Keep dating her and getting to know her:
Getting a girl to fall in love with you takes time and energy. Even if your first date was amazing, you can't expect her to be in love with you already. Keep taking her out on amazing dates and enjoy the process of getting to know each other. The relationship will have a better chance of thriving if you let things happen rather trying to make her fall in love with you right away.
Tips:
[1]. Remember, falling in love takes time and you should not try to rush things. Enjoy your time with her and try to be patient.
[2]. At any point of time, do not show that you are desperate for her attention, it will seem like you are a crazy maniac.
[3]. Do not ignore, be mean, bully her, or overdo your flirting with her.
[4]. Don't force it; if you feel like there is no connection or energy when you talk, then she is probably not a great match. Thanks for reading.
