Ndoa Ina umuhimu mkubwa katika mafanikio, malezi na afya.

[Ngo]

Kuna Ukweli kuwa Ndoa yenye afya njema ina umuhimu wake katika masuala ya kipato, umri wa kuishi, malezi ya watoto na mafanikioa yao katika maisha.

Soma research finding hizi hapa chini



Even though marriage has lost ground in the minority communities in recent years, marriage has not lost its value in these communities.

1. Marriage seems to be particularly important in civilizing men, turning their attention away from dangerous, antisocial, or self-centered activities and towards the needs of a family.
2. Beyond its well-known contributions to adult health, marriage influences the biological functioning of adults and children in ways that can have important social consequences.
3. The relationship quality of intimate partners is related to both their marital status and, for married adults, to the degree to which these partners are committed to marriage.

[FONT=Times New Roman,Times,Times NewRoman,serif]Update Research Findings[/FONT]
[FONT=Times New Roman,Times,Times NewRoman,serif]Among the research findings summarized by the report are: [/FONT]

[FONT=Times New Roman,Times,Times NewRoman,serif]About Children[/FONT]

• [FONT=Times New Roman,Times,Times NewRoman,serif]Parental divorce reduces the likelihood that children will graduate from college, and achieve high-status jobs.[/FONT]
• [FONT=Times New Roman,Times,Times NewRoman,serif]Children who live with their own two married parents enjoy better physical health, on average, than children in other family forms. The health advantages of married homes remain even after taking into account socioeconomic status.[/FONT]
• [FONT=Times New Roman,Times,Times NewRoman,serif]Parental divorce approximately doubles the odds that adult children will end up divorced. [/FONT]

[FONT=Times New Roman,Times,Times NewRoman,serif]About Men[/FONT]

• [FONT=Times New Roman,Times,Times NewRoman,serif]Married men earn between 10 and 40 percent more than single men with similar education and job histories. [/FONT]
• [FONT=Times New Roman,Times,Times NewRoman,serif]Married people, especially married men, have longer life expectancies than otherwise similar singles.[/FONT]
• [FONT=Times New Roman,Times,Times NewRoman,serif]Marriage increases the likelihood fathers will have good relationships with children. Sixty-five percent of young adults whose parents divorced had poor relationships with their fathers (compared to 29% from non-divorced families).[/FONT]

[FONT=Times New Roman,Times,Times NewRoman,serif]About Women[/FONT]

• [FONT=Times New Roman,Times,Times NewRoman,serif]Divorce and unmarried childbearing significantly increases poverty rates of both mothers and children. Between one-fifth and one-third of divorcing women end up in poverty as a result of divorce. [/FONT]
• [FONT=Times New Roman,Times,Times NewRoman,serif]Married mothers have lower rates of depression than single or cohabiting mothers.[/FONT]
• [FONT=Times New Roman,Times,Times NewRoman,serif]Married women appear to have a lower risk of domestic violence than cohabiting or dating women. Even after controlling for race, age, and education, people who live together are still three times more likely to report violent arguments than married people. [/FONT]

[FONT=Times New Roman,Times,Times NewRoman,serif]About Society[/FONT]

• [FONT=Times New Roman,Times,Times NewRoman,serif]Adults who live together but do not marry—cohabitors—are more similar to singles than to married couples in terms of physical health and disability, emotional well-being and mental health, as well as assets and earnings. Their children more closely resemble the children of single people than the children of married people.[/FONT]
• [FONT=Times New Roman,Times,Times NewRoman,serif]Marriage appears to reduce the risk that children and adults will be either perpetrators or victims of crime. Single and divorced women are four to five times more likely to be victims of violent crime in any given year than married women. Boys raised in single-parent homes are about twice as likely (and boys raised in stepfamilies three times as likely) to have committed a crime that leads to incarceration by the time they reach their early thirties, even after controlling for factors such as race, mother's education, neighborhood quality and cognitive ability.[/FONT]

Fundamental Conclusions

The authors conclude with three fundamental conclusions:

1. Marriage is an important social good, associated with an impressively broad array of positive outcomes for children and adults alike.
   Marriage is an important public good, associated with a range of economic, health, educational, and safety benefits that help local, state, and federal governments serve the common good.
2. The benefits of marriage extend to poor and minority communities, despite the fact that marriage is particularly fragile in these communities.

Uko katika Upande upi, wewe uliyeolewa/ owa, na wewe unaye sita kuowa au kuolewa?.
Tulioowa/olewa tuna wajibu mkubwa sana kuzilinda ndoa zetu. Ambao mnatalajia kuowa/kuolewa, mafanikio ya ndoa yako ni wewe na mwenzi wako, si marafiki, ndugu au majirani. Na ndoa hazifanani.Ahsanten

 

[Junius]

Mimi nakubalina na utafikiti huu kama wanandoa wataishi kwa kuamini Mungu, kujiamini wenyewe na kuaminiana

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

Vile vile kuna ushahidi mwingi tu wa watu ambao walilelewa na mzazi mmoja na kupata malezi mazuri na baadaye kuja kuwa na mafanikio mengi kuliko wale waliolelewa kwenye familia zenye wazazi wote wawili. Wengine wamelelewa nje ya ndoa na wazazi wote wawili na wametokea kuwa poa tu.

Hawa watafiti wanakuja na kila aina ya ugunduzi/ matokeo kila mwaka. Kila kukicha kuna tafiti mpya. Yaani ni vurugu mechi tupu!

Kwa hiyo mimi sitilii maanani sana hizi tafiti kwa sababu watu wamezigeuza kuwa miradi yao ya kujipatia hela na kwa ujumla haziakisi hali nzima za maisha na kidunia.

Nimeamua kuishi maisha yangu kwa kufuata uzoefu wangu mimi mwenyewe na wa wengine huku nikiongozwa na busara na akili zangu za kawaida.

So research and researchers can kiss where the sun don't shine.