Mtazamo: Wanaume wapole wanaongoza kwa kusalitiwa na wapenzi wao

[chakii]

Habari wanaMMU.

Nililete kwenu hili ili nipate pia maoni/maono yenu.

Mara nyingi nimeweza kufuatilia visa vya kusalitiana kwa wanandoa/wapenzi nimegundua wanawake wengi wenye mahusiano na wanaume wapole wamekuwa wepesi au rahisi mno kuwasaliti wenzao.

Sijajua huu ujasiri wanaupata wapi au wanaume wapole ni kwamba wanakuwa legelege ama vipi, kati ya visa 10 vya kusalitiana basi visa 8 kati ya hao wanaume wengi wao wanakuwa ni wapole/wataratibu na huenda wanawaheshimu sana wenza wao.

Naomba wanawake/wasichana mtusaidie japo kidogo hapo mbona inakuwa hivi. Huenda mtizamo wangu hasi, hilo pia linawezekana.

 

[Martin Luther Jr]

Haupo sahihi kwa asilimia zote....Tena Mara nyingi wapole huwa wanawaoa wapole wenzao..ndoa tulivu kabisa....hahaaa kwani Nay wa mitego mpole???? Nay alimfumania mzazi mwenzie live live bila chenga

 

[sumbai]

Wapole wa kugegeda.....Hawa acha wasalitiwe tuu....

Wapole wa kutoa pesa.....acha wasalitiwe tuu.....

 

[Shunie]

Wapole wa kugegeda.....Hawa acha wasalitiwe tuu....

Wapole wa kutoa pesa.....acha wasalitiwe tuu.....

hakuna namna ingine teh

 

[Castr]

Uwe mpole au mkali lakini kama huna time na baby mama, nyumba haikaliki na matatizo yake ushauri hakuombi wewe kwakua unaonyesha haujali na haujamfanya kua rafiki.
Ndugu yangu kusalitiwa kunakuhusu.

 

[sumbai]

hakuna namna ingine teh

Hamna namna........ Ila dah sijui tuwe malaika

 

[Eidj5]

Haupo sahihi kwa asilimia zote....Tena Mara nyingi wapole huwa wanawaoa wapole wenzao..ndoa tulivu kabisa....hahaaa kwani Nay wa mitego mpole???? Nay alimfumania mzazi mwenzie live live bila chenga

Safi sana mkubwa

 

[Shunie]

Hamna namna........ Ila dah sijui tuwe malaika

kuwa malaika ni kitu ambacho hakiwezekaniki kabisa

 

[Smart911]

Usaliti ni tabia na tamaa za mtu... Haijalishi upole au ukorofi...

Mwanaume unaweza kuwa mkorofi na bado mwanamke wako akakusaliti...


Thanks God mahondaw wangu ni mwanamke mwenye msimamo sana... Sina shaka nae hata mara moja... Love her sana..


Cc: mahondaw

 

[Komagunda]

Mpende,msamini,mjali hawezi kuchepuka.Maana mwanamke ni kama mtoto kila wakati anahitaji uwe karibu naye ukijifanya uko busy humpi muda lazima atatafuta faraja kwingine.

 

[JohnSnow]

Upo sahihi kiasi fulani ni kweli watu wapole/wastarabu hupenda kufuata utaratibu ama njia fulani kufanya mambo.Mapenzi hayana utaratibu ni lifestyle.ukiyaweka kama lifestyl utaenjoy sana.

 

[Leoone]

Kuchepuka hakujali hali yoyote ile!!!!

 

[miss chagga]

wanalack mambo mengi

 

[Leoone]

MTU akiamua kaamua tu bhana

 

[msweety]

Nakutaarifu pia Wanaume wapole wanavutia wanawake wengi. Hali hii hupelekea wanaume wapole kuwa na wanawake wengi hata kama ameoa. Huficha makucha yao kwa upole wao lakini ni chui mwenye ngozi ya kondoo. Mwanaume mpole simuhitaji hata awe bilionea. Najua mwisho wake ni stress. Na watu hawataamini nikiwaeleza vituko vyake, kwa kudhani anaonewa kwa vile machoni anaonekana mpole. The same kwa wanawake wapole na wakimya.

 

[callmeGhost]

Habari wanaMMU.


Nililete kwenu hili ili nipate pia maoni/maono yenu.


Mara nyingi nimeweza kufuatilia visa vya kusalitiana kwa wanandoa/wapenzi nimegundua wanawake wengi wenye mahusiano na wanaume wapole wamekuwa wepesi au rahisi mno kuwasaliti wenzao.


Sijajua huu ujasiri wanaupata wapi au wanaume wapole ni kwamba wanakuwa legelege ama vipi, kati ya visa 10 vya kusalitiana basi visa 8 kati ya hao wanaume wengi wao wanakuwa ni wapole/wataratibu na huenda wanawaheshimu sana wenza wao.


Naomba wanawake/wasichana mtusaidie japo kidogo hapo mbona inakuwa hivi... Huenda mtizamo wangu HASI, hilo pia linawezekana.

Nilisha jibu swali kama hili. Just a summary.

Women want a challenge, hilo la muhimu. Nilishatoa mfano wa hili pia. Fikiria wewe level yako Tecno, moyoni utaipenda iPhone 6 kwasababu huna uwezo nayo. Siku ukiipata, mzuka utaisha, utasema now nataka iPhone 7. Same with women, wapole wengi ni Beta males, yani kama baba yao. He will do all he can to impress a girl. Women wanasema wanapenda good guys, that's not TRUE. Relationship gets boring, wantaka spark, now and then. Muignore hata siku 2, make a plan and cancel, make her chase you, not you chasing her. Utaona kama she will ever leave. Ever wondered why wanaume wakorofi wanalast na women more than wapole? Wapole ni Mwendo wa kusema sawa in everything.

Summary siku zote ni one paragraph, since huu sio mthihani, acha niongeze.

Good guys(wapole) wengi wao wanacontroliwa na women. Akisema 'Babe kesho twende Mcity kwanza then twende shambani' atakubali. He is thinking he is making her happy, lakini kiukweli anashusha your value as a man. A man you should stand your ground. Make her jealous, look at other women in front of her and wasifie indirectly. She will work hard akuimpress. But ukiwasha green light every direction, atatafuta mwanume, since you aren't acting as one.

Majority of women are wired like that, 1/10 are not. I myself I am more of a beta man, sina muda na kuplay games. But once in a while naignore texts makusudi, akikutumia text jibu after an hour, I think it helped my relationship. Technique is called push and pull, don't exceed and be a douche bag tho

-callmeGhost

 

[msold msward]

Sio kwel

 

[Swenailie]

Wapole hawasalitiwi Ila mwanaume asiejua wajibu wake huyo halali yake kusalitiwa. Mwanaume mpole Ila unataka kufugwa usisalitiwe unanini. Mpole kucare hujui usisalitiwe unanini

 

[byancas]

Haaa haaa hujatembea wewe ukaona, wanaume wapole wana vitu vya kimya kimya wanatumia upole wao kama defensive mechanism, maana hamna mtu wa ku-judge matendo yake watu huwa wanawapa asilimia 100 kuwa hawana makandokando, kumbe balaaaa

 

[Testar]

Mwanaume mpole anakuwa na tabia za kufanana na zile za demu wake kiasi cha kufanya mahusiano yawe yanaboa.
Unakuta wote ni emotional, tukio dogo wote wanatoa machozi.