So my 7-11 guy asked me to marry him this week. I didnot know his visa had expired. I hardly knew anything about him. I knew he is a nice guy. He smokes like a chimney. Not so great in bed. I have had these propositions before. But normally money was involved. he is so desperate..... I feel bad for him. I am extremely hesitant. I am not marriage minded, nor do i want to be put in a situation that i am stuck in for a period of time. I use to have this fantasy of falling madly in love with someone and having a dream wedding.As I get older my dreams of marriage turned to just looking for a kindred spirit. This greencard marriage thing is a whole other topic. I feel cornered. I would like to help him out but this is an extreme. And I don't know the legalities to it. Why can't I just find a guy who is simple and not looking for much but peace and happiness???? Instead I meet complicated. Hell I would just settle for a great sexual relationship with someone!!!! Can somebody help me plzzzz!