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Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Kimbweka, Jun 7, 2010.

  1. Kimbweka

    Kimbweka JF-Expert Member

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    Oprah wrote this about men

    If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
    If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
    Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
    Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
    Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
    Slower is better.
    Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
    If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
    then heck no, you can't "be friends".
    A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle.
    If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
    Don't stay because you think "it will get better."
    You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
    The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
    Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
    He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
    Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
    Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
    If something bothers you, speak up.
    Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
    You cannot change a man's behavior.
    Change comes from within.
    Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...
    even if he has more education or in a better job.
    Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
    Never let a man define who you are.
    Never borrow someone else's man.
    If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
    A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
    All men are NOT dogs.
    You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way street.
    You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage...
    Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
    You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...
    a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...
    look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
    Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
    Make him miss you sometimes...
    when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him -
    he takes it for granted.
    Never move into his mother's house.
    Never co-sign for a man.
    Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
    Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
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    Mokoyo JF-Expert Member

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    Nimependa hizo hapo Mkuu Kimbweka
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    Mom JF-Expert Member

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    ningejua haya mapema.....!
  4. Kimbweka

    Kimbweka JF-Expert Member

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    hapo kila woman/girl ajisome
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    Kimbweka JF-Expert Member

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    Mom JF-Expert Member

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    acha nisiseme, may be nisingekua mom!
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    Ramos JF-Expert Member

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    Kumbe akiamua oprah anakuwa mwandishi wa mashairi...
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    Masikini_Jeuri JF-Expert Member

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    Ndo maana hana mume? uhakika na marital status yake lakini sijawahi usikia kuwa huyu ndiyr mume wa Oprah!
  9. Pomboo

    Pomboo Senior Member

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    Maskini Oprah

    A difficult childhood

    Oprah Gail Winfrey was born to Vernita Lee and Vernon Winfrey on an isolated farm in Kosciusko, Mississippi, on January 29, 1954. Her name was supposed to be Orpah, from the Bible, but because of the difficulty of spelling and pronunciation, she was known as Oprah almost from birth. Winfrey's unmarried parents separated soon after she was born and left her in the care of her maternal grandmother on the farm.
    As a child, Winfrey entertained herself by "playacting" in front of an "audience" of farm animals. Under the strict guidance of her grandmother, she learned to read at two and a half years old. She addressed her church congregation about "when Jesus rose on Easter Day" when she was two years old. Then Winfrey skipped kindergarten after writing a note to her teacher on the first day of school saying she belonged in the first grade. She was promoted to third grade after that year.
    At six years old Winfrey was sent north to join her mother and two half-brothers in a Milwaukee ghetto, an extremely poor and dangerous neighborhood. At twelve years old she was sent to live with her father in Nashville, Tennessee. Feeling secure and happy for a brief period she began making speeches at social gatherings and churches, and one time earned five hundred dollars for a speech. She knew then that she wanted to be "paid to talk."
    Winfrey, again, was called back by her mother, and she had to leave the safety of her father's home. The poor, urban lifestyle had its negative effect on Winfrey as a young teenager, and her problems were compounded by repeated sexual abuse, starting at age nine, by men that others in her family trusted. Her mother worked odd jobs and did not have much time for supervision.
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