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Man caught with married woman forced to drink toilet water, urinated on head, beaten

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Dingswayo, Jun 25, 2012.

  1. Dingswayo

    Dingswayo JF-Expert Member

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    A Bulawayo (Malawi) man will rue the day he kissed a married woman in her house. The woman’s husband walked in on them as they locked lips. Apart from being thrashed the man’s head was shoved into the toilet bowl and forced to drink the water. He was also urinated repeatedly on his head.

    The husband, Mr Israel Banda, confirmed that he came home and found his wife (Mrs Cinderella Banda) of five years in the arms of a man, their lips locked in a French kiss. He said that he locked them up in the house and called neighbours to be witnesses to his wife’s infidelity. With the assistance of his neighbours, Mr Banda unlocked the door of his house, grabbed the man, stripped him naked and tied his hands and feet using ropes. They then dragged the man outside and brutally beat him.

    One of the neighbours, Mr Andrew Matshazi, suggested that they make the man drink water from the toilet. They dragged the man to the toilet and forced his head into the toilet chamber and told him to drink if he did not want to be beaten anymore.

    With the false promise of being spared the man gulped down the toilet water but failed to hold it down as he immediately vomited. The irate Mr Banda and his neighbours were not done. They dragged the man outside again and took turns to urinate on his head and face.

    The man was let go after a community leader, who had been made aware of what was happening at Mr Banda’s house, rushed to the scene and told them that what they were doing was repugnant and beyond anything that any human should go through.

    After the man was let go the neighbours wanted to turn to Mrs Banda who was cowering in a corner of the sitting room when her boyfriend was being tortured, but Mr Banda refused to have his wife beaten. He packed her bags and chased her away from his house.

    Mr Banda, who has had two failed marriages, said he was done with women and was never going to marry again.

    “Women you can’t live without them and you can’t live with them. I am not going to marry again, women and I don’t work. I don’t know whether I am the problem or not. Maybe it’s because I love too much. I don’t know, all I know is that I am not going to stay with a woman again,’’ said Mr Banda.

    Mrs Banda, who is now staying at a friend’s house in Sizinda high-density suburb, refused to give her side of the story. She said: “I don’t want to talk about what happened, it’s in the past. Please leave me alone and mind your own business.’’ Mrs Banda also refused to divulge the name and contact details of her boyfriend.

    Mr Matshazi said they thoroughly beat the man to ensure that he would never have an affair with a married woman again in his lifetime.

    “Wherever he is, if he has a girlfriend she is not married because he now knows the dangers of going out with married women. We really beat him up; in retrospect I believe that if we were not stopped we could have left him for dead,” he said.
  2. Mazingira

    Mazingira JF-Expert Member

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    Nafikiri hatarudia tena
  3. Vin Diesel

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    Safi kabisa....siku ingine akitaka fate me wa mtu stimu za kojo alilokunywa zitamrudia na kumuokoa....
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    Suppose it was Mr. Banda who was caught doing the same could the mob behave the same? I fail to grasp the logic behind Mr. Banda behaving as such but I commend his last decision of letting the woman go as marriage is a contract between two consenting adults and behaving like Mrs Banda amounts to severe breech of contract that merits the last action by the offended.
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    mimi siku zote nasemaga tatizo la kucheat sio watu wa nje bali ni nyie couples...inawezekana huyo jamaa aliyepigwa alidanganywa na huyo mke wa mtu kua hajaolewa au kaachika tutajuaje? yeye katongoza kakubaliwa sasa tatizo hapo ni mke ana kosa kukubali.

    Mi nikimfumania wa kwangu wala sihangaiki na huyo mwanaume, nita deal na huyo bibie itabidi anieleze kwa undani kipi kilitoka kwanza yai au kuku
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    Kusahihisha Jiografia kwa nia njema tu - Bulawayo iko Zimbabwe, sio Malawi.
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    kiroho safi tu watu8 naulizaje??? ana undugu na kikwete?? au ana undugu na simbachawene?? au yote ni majibu?? ahsante!
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    hahaha! kwa kuwa wote ni DHAIFU bila shaka wana kaundugu kwa mbaliiii