1.Self-esteem: You finally know yourself. 2.Commitment: You're likely in more committed, calmer relationships than you have had in the past. 3.Experience: More than a decade of sexual experience. Phone sex? Done it. Porn? Watched it. Nothing shocks u anymore. 4.Body: More comfortable in it and you know how to take care of it better. 5.Peak: Women peak sexually and athletically in their 30s-40s. Don't be discouraged if you've never been there. 6.Love: You're probably in it or at least have been. 7.Variety: You have probably had a few kinds of guys, enough to know what you like when it come to making love. 8.Knowing: What you want and how to get it. 9.Fear: You have lost it, so tell him what is bad, what is good. The 30s and 40s lady is fearless! 10.Turn-Ons: You know yours and your lover's. HAVE A BEAUTIFUL SATO.. MWAAAAH.