Kwa nini watu wanacheat?

[Shingo]

Cheating ni UFISADI (kwa maana halisi ya ufisadi). Cheating ni evil na matokeo yake ni mabaya kulingana na level ya uongo. The ultimate results of cheating is more cheating, loss of reputation and trust and SHAME.

More cheating, loss of reputation and trust and SHAME causes weakened or failed relationships, marrieges, families, societies, organizations and even governments.

Cheating ni FAILURE IN ALL ITS FACES.

 

[Yona F. Maro]

Shingo -- true love can make ur way

 

[Mbu]

Pretty,

Cheating ni tatizo na ni ishara mbaya kwa jamii, kwa ndoa, kwa organization, kwa uchumba, kwa vyama vya siasa au vya kiraia, etc. Put it simple cheating is a sign of corruption.

Sasa kwa nini watu wana-cheat? hapa nadhani context ni kwenye mahusiano. Watu wana-cheat kwa sababu ya lack of moral values, lack of ethical values, emotional incompetence, etc. etc.

Cheating is corruption. Cheaters are corrupt morally, ethically, emotionally, etc ..... you name it.

Kwa hiyo cheating is not a healthy situation kama baadhi hapa wanavyoonekana ku-suggest. Binadamu umepewa the faculty of intelligence ambayo inatutofautisha na wanyama wengine. With this faculty moral and ethical values are imprinted. Sasa ukikosa vitu hivyo we utakuwa ni mtu wa ku-cheat and you will see comfort in cheating.

kwa nini cheating ni ishara mbaya? Danganywa uone utakavyo feel. Ukidanganywa halafu bado unaona ni normal, ujue una tatizo. Uongo au cheating siku zote kwenye mahusiano una matokeo mabaya na kila mtu anajua hilo. Sasa kwa nini aendelee kudanganya wakati anajua anachofanya kibaya? Ndo hayo niliyoelezea hapo juu.

Wakati mwingine mtu unaweza kujiuliza kwa nini watu wanakuchukia mtu mweusi au Mwafrika hasa ukienda Ulaya? They are afraid of your trickery. You will cheat at opportune and inopportune moments. You cannot be trusted. You are corrupt. You have no moral values. etc. etc.....

Kwa hiyo cheating in relationships si tofauti sana na cheating elsewhere. Zote ni dalili za kitu kimoja; corrupt personality, incompetent personality, poor personality, na vitu vinavyofanana na hilo.

Cheaters wa kwenye relationships will cheat elsewhere at different levels but surely they will cheat. They will cheat on money, they will cheat in exams, they will cheat.......

Cheating ni ishara ya jamii inayoamini katika mkato.

Tiba ya cheating??? Change yourself to negate the very characteristics of cheating! Ukijibadilisha wewe you will enlighten others.

Cheating ni UFISADI (kwa maana halisi ya ufisadi). Cheating ni evil na matokeo yake ni mabaya kulingana na level ya uongo. The ultimate results of cheating is more cheating, loss of reputation and trust and SHAME.

More cheating, loss of reputation and trust and SHAME causes weakened or failed relationships, marrieges, families, societies, organizations and even governments.

Cheating ni FAILURE IN ALL ITS FACES.

...ee bana eeh! Mbona unalalama sana? nobody Cheats, ...ni experiment mojawapo katika self actualization process, sawa sawa bana

 

[Shingo]

...ee bana eeh! Mbona unalalama sana? nobody Cheats, ...ni experiment mojawapo katika self actualization process, sawa sawa bana

Mbu,

Silalamiki. tunaelimishana. Tunajuzana. Tunahabarishana. If nobody cheats then cheating has no meaning. Eti unataka tubadilishe maana ya cheating iwe experimenting?

Humans are not Bonobo Chimpanzees. They are human complete with intelligence and codes of morals and ethics. These have proved to be evolutionary tools by which human species is thriving. All thriving human societies have very strong codes of morals and ethics especially when it come to sex.

Sex with all its thrills is very dangerous when not controlled and exercised in a moral and ethical manner. It can result in societies perishing. Although sex is a creation and recreational tool, it is only humans who have recreational use of sex. And this is evolutionary. It binds societies and keep people together for the survival of the species.

However sex is also dangerous when exercised in irresponsible way and it is one of the common means where antihuman bacteria and viruses are transmitted from one person to another. No mistake then that humans have evolved the sexual control instincts and these are seen through religious rules, taboos, ethical and moral codes of conduct.

Cheating in relationships is one way of using sex irresponsibly and is dangerous and all human societies have evolved a way to control it.

Sex to dogs and other animal is only for creation and is controlled by biological clocks. A female dog cannot have sex when not 'on heat'. And male dogs has no feeling for a female dog which is not 'on heat'.

But humans? No. Why? Evolution has proved that sex at all times is advantageous to the human race. Therefore female humans have evolved a capacity to tolerate sex for recreation. But not without limits.

Every being has a certain level of intelligence. But humans' one is superior. So humans have evolved some biological characteristics that can only be controlled by the higher levels of intelligence only available in humans.

That's why humans when cheated have evolved the feeling of disguist, shame, anger, etc.

Shule hiyo chukua

 

[Bonnie1974]

Mbu,

Silalamiki. tunaelimishana. Tunajuzana. Tunahabarishana. If nobody cheats then cheating has no meaning. Eti unataka tubadilishe maana ya cheating iwe experimenting?

Humans are not Bonobo Chimpanzees. They are human complete with intelligence and codes of morals and ethics. These have proved to be evolutionary tools by which human species is thriving. All thriving human societies have very strong codes of morals and ethics especially when it come to sex.

Sex with all its thrills is very dangerous when not controlled and exercised in a moral and ethical manner. It can result in societies perishing. Although sex is a creation and recreational tool, it is only humans who have recreational use of sex. And this is evolutionary. It binds societies and keep people together for the survival of the species.

However sex is also dangerous when exercised in irresponsible way and it is one of the common means where antihuman bacteria and viruses are transmitted from one person to another. No mistake then that humans have evolved the sexual control instincts and these are seen through religious rules, taboos, ethical and moral codes of conduct.

Cheating in relationships is one way of using sex irresponsibly and is dangerous and all human societies have evolved a way to control it.

Sex to dogs and other animal is only for creation and is controlled by biological clocks. A female dog cannot have sex when not 'on heat'. And male dogs has no feeling for a female dog which is not 'on heat'.

But humans? No. Why? Evolution has proved that sex at all times is advantageous to the human race. Therefore female humans have evolved a capacity to tolerate sex for recreation. But not without limits.

Every being has a certain level of intelligence. But humans' one is superior. So humans have evolved some biological characteristics that can only be controlled by the higher levels of intelligence only available in humans.

That's why humans when cheated have evolved the feeling of disguist, shame, anger, etc.

Shule hiyo chukua

Mkulu
Heshima mbele.
Darasa ulotoa limetulia.

Lakini kuna TATIZO MKULU,
SEXUAL BEHAVIOUR YA HUMANS SIYO PERIODICAL NA HAPO NDIPO PENYE TATIZO KUBWA ZAIDI.

HAIHITAJI MTU AWE KWENYE HEAT PERIOD,NI MWENDO MDUNDO TU,PROVIDED AMESHAPEVUKA.

Both kwa Humans,Male and Female,ZA KWAO ni BALAA, kwani ZIKIPATA FREQUENCY TU, HIZO MWANANGU...ZENYEKUAMKA ZINAAMKA, NA ZENYE KUVIMBA NDIYO HIVYO TENA.

Wanyama wengine wana nafuu Sheikh, lakini Humans hasa wale wakiswahili ambao wakiamka lazima washike katikati ya miguu yao ni BALAA.