I was watching Tyra Banks last week, she had a very good discussion about the pains and dillemmas that most marriageable black (african american) women are facing on the dating scene. she had a focus group discussion comprising of young single and married black men and women. it was very interesting to say the least. some of the issues were: men preferring women with long wavy hair, thats why we see all these women in weaves and wigs. they want petite, light skinned black women over real black ones. one of the guys openly said that a guy may flirt with a fat woman, make her feel hot and sexy when all he wants is sex and nothing else? hebu the men in JF is this true? is sex all u want? and whats going on your mind when u do this? what really do men want in your g/f or wife? one of the guys on the show openly talked of how he had the best night of his life with a co-worker on national tv with the wife listening and shamelessly tried to propose on the show!! why do you think u will do such a thing and get away with it?? i guess this is a global issue, smart, independent , beautiful single women are roaming the streeets like lone lionesses! leteni habari sasa!!