We live in a world of war where your own blood, your friend and someone you trust most can betray your trust for them. One of the ways you can deny yourself from making it in life is by revealing everything about yourself or your goals to people. It’s better to keep silent and carryout your plans first before letting people know of it.
Even if you want to share your plans with people let it be someone that can give you the courage and offer useful suggestions to ensure success is ascertained. Advise given by friends can influence your decision which might be misleading.
When you make people know of your plans after achieving it, anyone that it will pain let it pain that person after all the did has already been done, nothing can be done again to stop you from succeeding.
Here are the things you should always keep quiet about:
1. Don't tell anyhow people that someone wants to assist you: Disclosing to people that someone wants to help you is quite dangerous. Know the kind of people you disclose things like someone wants to give you a job, someone wants to buy you a car, someone wants to buy or rent you a house. Telling anyhow people can create room for jealousy which may likely make you not the get this assistance.
2. Never tell anyone of what you want to use your income for; Announcing things as relate to your income to anyhow people is not advisable. Plan on how to spend your money secretly, strange people shouldn't interfere with your financial life.
3. Never disclose your weaknesses to anyone: Telling anyhow people of the things that can easily bring you down can be quite dangerous. Once you have a problem with that person he may likely get angry and use your weaken point to destroy your life.
4. Your status in the society: It is not everywhere you go that you have to show yourself. Because you are the head boy of your school today doesn't mean that you should be telling and tormenting everyone that you are a prefect. Great people don't introduce themselves rather people identify them.
Because a junior student matched you in school, you will tell the person that he is not afraid of his head boy and then begin to flog him or her mercilessly. Something you don't know is that this junior student might be your life changer tomorrow. He may become an owner of a big company and when you are in need of a job he can employ you, but if he is someone that put things in mind what you did years back will definitely affect you.
Calm down and be careful in your dealings, the head boy you are today is just a matter of one year, what you claim to be today and refused to help people today will affect you badly tomorrow, but when you do good to people with your position today they will do you good also in the future.
5. Never tell anyone of your plans for the future: Making everyone know about your future plans is never the best. Even if you are to whisper it into anyone's ears, make sure the person is your right hand man, someone that is loyal to you and can be part of the struggle to achieve victory.
6. Your family background: Don't be proud of the wealth of your father, uncle, sister, aunty, brother have to the extent that you have to tell people around.
When you want to toast a girl you tell her that your father, uncle is rich. This is not all that okay, don't try to win a ladies heart with money rather make sure her love for you is not based on material things. You can begin to show up your family background after getting her love. If you get this girl because of your dad's wealth and this money finishes one day, What will you do? What are your expectations from the lady? Think twice and be wise.
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Thanks for reading.
Even if you want to share your plans with people let it be someone that can give you the courage and offer useful suggestions to ensure success is ascertained. Advise given by friends can influence your decision which might be misleading.
When you make people know of your plans after achieving it, anyone that it will pain let it pain that person after all the did has already been done, nothing can be done again to stop you from succeeding.
Here are the things you should always keep quiet about:
1. Don't tell anyhow people that someone wants to assist you: Disclosing to people that someone wants to help you is quite dangerous. Know the kind of people you disclose things like someone wants to give you a job, someone wants to buy you a car, someone wants to buy or rent you a house. Telling anyhow people can create room for jealousy which may likely make you not the get this assistance.
2. Never tell anyone of what you want to use your income for; Announcing things as relate to your income to anyhow people is not advisable. Plan on how to spend your money secretly, strange people shouldn't interfere with your financial life.
3. Never disclose your weaknesses to anyone: Telling anyhow people of the things that can easily bring you down can be quite dangerous. Once you have a problem with that person he may likely get angry and use your weaken point to destroy your life.
4. Your status in the society: It is not everywhere you go that you have to show yourself. Because you are the head boy of your school today doesn't mean that you should be telling and tormenting everyone that you are a prefect. Great people don't introduce themselves rather people identify them.
Because a junior student matched you in school, you will tell the person that he is not afraid of his head boy and then begin to flog him or her mercilessly. Something you don't know is that this junior student might be your life changer tomorrow. He may become an owner of a big company and when you are in need of a job he can employ you, but if he is someone that put things in mind what you did years back will definitely affect you.
Calm down and be careful in your dealings, the head boy you are today is just a matter of one year, what you claim to be today and refused to help people today will affect you badly tomorrow, but when you do good to people with your position today they will do you good also in the future.
5. Never tell anyone of your plans for the future: Making everyone know about your future plans is never the best. Even if you are to whisper it into anyone's ears, make sure the person is your right hand man, someone that is loyal to you and can be part of the struggle to achieve victory.
6. Your family background: Don't be proud of the wealth of your father, uncle, sister, aunty, brother have to the extent that you have to tell people around.
When you want to toast a girl you tell her that your father, uncle is rich. This is not all that okay, don't try to win a ladies heart with money rather make sure her love for you is not based on material things. You can begin to show up your family background after getting her love. If you get this girl because of your dad's wealth and this money finishes one day, What will you do? What are your expectations from the lady? Think twice and be wise.
Am very glad you learnt something inspiring from this article. Ensure to share it with friends and family members, you can also drop your comments under the comment box.
Thanks for reading.
