Dr Lizzy
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My wife has been working with this other woman for 2 months. About a month ago they started texting each other very often. On days they don't work they text each other 40-50 times per day. It starts has soon as my wife wakes up and goes on until she goes to bed. I tried to check my wife's text messages but she deleted them. I did however see some texts from last week. It started with the other woman sending my wife three texts first thing in the morning. First text "I". Second text "Miss". Third text "You". This seemed very strange to me. Later in the day during one of their conversations my wife says "love ya". This had nothing to do with their conversation. Later in the day during another conversation my wife says "miss you and love you". Again, this had nothing to do with the conversation. Later she sends a text that says "watcha doin". The other woman's reply "missing you". They continued texting off and on all day. I was able to see some of these other texts and in one of them the woman says "i miss you". then in the next text she says "do you miss me". I confronted my wife about it later that night and she began crying uncontrollably saying she can't believe that I think she is a lesbian. She said they are just very good friends. Last Friday they were both off from work and texted each other all day long. My wife deleted the texts before I could read them. one of the sms from the other woman was like this "i'm worried about you today. are you ok?" My wife deleted her response before I could read it but didn't delete any of ther other texts between them. But when I checked my wife's phone that night all texts were deleted. I confronted her about it again and this time she got mad and continues to say they are just really good friends. I would really appreciate your input on this. Please tell me I'm reading too much into this and that it is all innocent.
wanaume hapo ndio mnaponishangaza.wewe mwenyewe mbona una cheat.kuna topic uliiweka kwa wakubwa,na ku admit kuwa kuna mwanamke huwa unatembea nae,topic ilikuwa chumvini kunakupa shida.leo afanye mke wako,inakuuma eeh.sasa ona raha ya kutembea nje,pengine na yeye amejua na akaamua apate wa kumpa raha.imekula kwako
soln ni mbili mkuu
My wife has been working with this other woman for 2 months. About a month ago they started texting each other very often. On days they don't work they text each other 40-50 times per day. It starts has soon as my wife wakes up and goes on until she goes to bed. I tried to check my wife's text messages but she deleted them. I did however see some texts from last week. It started with the other woman sending my wife three texts first thing in the morning. First text "I". Second text "Miss". Third text "You". This seemed very strange to me. Later in the day during one of their conversations my wife says "love ya". This had nothing to do with their conversation. Later in the day during another conversation my wife says "miss you and love you". Again, this had nothing to do with the conversation. Later she sends a text that says "watcha doin". The other woman's reply "missing you". They continued texting off and on all day. I was able to see some of these other texts and in one of them the woman says "i miss you". then in the next text she says "do you miss me". I confronted my wife about it later that night and she began crying uncontrollably saying she can't believe that I think she is a lesbian. She said they are just very good friends. Last Friday they were both off from work and texted each other all day long. My wife deleted the texts before I could read them. one of the sms from the other woman was like this "i'm worried about you today. are you ok?" My wife deleted her response before I could read it but didn't delete any of ther other texts between them. But when I checked my wife's phone that night all texts were deleted. I confronted her about it again and this time she got mad and continues to say they are just really good friends. I would really appreciate your input on this. Please tell me I'm reading too much into this and that it is all innocent.
LoL,
This is double amazing...
will this be a solution for the sender?
That could be a women's dream. For a man, the dream is as mentioned above.
if i were you, i would invite the other woman to our house and when the two of them are together you will be able to know if theres something goin on...and rather than fight with them why not join in...ask them if you could all do a threesome and have a bit of fun...i would do that!! :A S tongue:
what is your point ndugu, am in dilemma too i don't know what to do? pse help me with any appropriate solution
safi sana...nimependa jibu..tujifunze kukaa mbali na simu za watu..!!!pokea like yangu..!!!sDon't spoil your marriage, girls can do that, don't ignore your feelings keep on checkin out but stay away from her phone and be gentlemen.
Gals can talk like that to each other without anything going on between them. Be positive but as said, don't ignore your doubts but be wise when you follow it up.
Again and again, stay away from her phone that's very stupidy if you don't trust her, don't live with her! Again I repeat don't live with her.
VERY SORRY MY DEAR FRIEND but I can tell u the only person who can sustain your marriage is God!!! The Lord is every thing, please turn to God instead of looking for solution from some where else!! God is love and power to control every thing on earth marriages, finances inclusive!!!!!
........@ Lizzy[B said:Mujumba[/B];3886094]what is your point ndugu, am in dilemma too i don't know what to do? pse help me with any appropriate solution
if i were you, i would invite the other woman to our house and when the two of them are together you will be able to know if theres something goin on...and rather than fight with them why not join in...ask them if you could all do a threesome and have a bit of fun...i would do that!! :A S tongue: