Bila kuangali mliachana kwasababu gani, unawezaje kujua bado anakupenda ata kama tayari ana mahusiano na mtu mwingine?au kuna uwezekano wa nyie kurudiana? Au hakuna kabisa?
Au? Au? Ukiachana na mtu tema mate chini' kamwe usigeuke hata hizo au au hautakuwanazo!! Ukiona unajiulizauliza ujue upo mguu ndani, mguu nje' yaani staki nataka...
Bila kuangali mliachana kwasababu gani, unawezaje kujua bado anakupenda ata kama tayari ana mahusiano na mtu mwingine?au kuna uwezekano wa nyie kurudiana? Au hakuna kabisa?
Well our dearest friend and member symwo,
I guess kutokana na majibu ya wengine umejifunza jambo...i.e. let bygones be bygones.
Najua some of us tumekujibu kikejeli zaidi but I know jibu la kila mmoja limekuwa na mwelekeo uleule. Haimaanishi hatujawahi kuachana au kuacha na kutamani kurudiana. Heck, wengine wetu tulishawahi kuachwa tukalia na machozi ili turudiane.
Kuna nyakati nilimwacha shemeji/wifi yako mmoja hivi na baada ya muda nikaumwa, literally, so i had to go back begging her back.
In every breakup kama at least kulikuwa na a bit of love..utajihisi upweke. Utatamani kuwa kama zamani. Utajidanganya kuwa u can overlook the faults and move on.
But most of those make ups lead to a more hurting breakup.
I agree there are always exceptions to the general rule. Ila kwa hili u v got to be extra cautious. Lazima ujitafakari sana. Jipe muda wa kuwaza ujue kama ni upweke tu au ni kweli unampenda huyo mtu. Je anajihisi vivyo kwako?!
Na unapoamua kum-confront huyo mtu inabidi uwe na sound mind. Muongee (sio kubishana au kulalamika) have a meaningful lengthy talk...ndipo mkubaliane kuhusu hilo.
Nonetheless, it really hurts being alone. It really hurts kuachwa/kuachana/kuacha na mtu umpendaye. Utatamani mrudiane but dont always heed to that.
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