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Hatua Mbalimbali Za Mapenzi Ya Kweli

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Superman, Jun 14, 2009.

  1. Superman

    Superman JF-Expert Member

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    "Love in the heart was not meant there to stay. Love is not love till you give it away". For love to be ever lasting and eternal every one should be aware of the different stages of love and know its significance. Following are the different phases through which you will travel in your love life and only those who pass it will have an endless love.

    Attraction can be defined as something, which is more than friendship and is a step towards getting ready for a relationship. Now attraction is of two types:

    Physical Attraction - happens when your body reacts to another person. Heart rate increases; temperature rises, palms get sweaty; stomach flutters; throat tightens; etc. This is what will tell you that you are ready for the first contact and also whether you are comfortable in the company of the other person.

    Emotional Attraction - develops next if the circumstances are right. After being drawn to a person physically, you then begin to come closer. If you find you have things in common -- hobbies, ideologies, career, education, or some other common ground -- then an emotional attraction starts to form. Sometimes an emotional attraction can occur even when a physical attraction does not. And in this case, the bond will be stronger between the two who connect, since no preconceived notions based on physical appearance has occurred.

    INTIMACY Intimacy is something, which a person experiences when you learn to trust and believe your lover. It is a close association with another person of the deepest nature. You share you thoughts, feelings, and dreams. You feel free to discuss everything with this person and you are absolutely comfortable in his company. Thus intimacy develops gradually. If you can't establish intimacy with your partner, your relationship may work for a while, but is unlikely to endure throughout the years. Intimacy is actually the path to a true, healthy and beautiful relationship.

    ROMANCE Romance is the essence of a relationship. Without romance your love life will not exist. Romance is the true identity of your love. It brings out your true self and helps you be a better lover, husband and partner. Romance is a celebration of the life you live as part of a couple. It springs naturally and originates from within your heart. It makes you do things that you possibly couldn't have imagined to do otherwise. It shows you who you are and reminds you of the role you play in a relationship. Romance is not responsibility but it is caring about your responsibilities towards your lover and partner. Romance is the appreciation of two people who are celebrating the lucky coincidence that they found each other.

    PASSION The third stage is passion, which basically means a desire for another person, which has grown to an intensity that can't be ignored. This is often where an emotional relationship turns into a physical relationship. The passion stage is very important. For from here you will understand the true meaning and nature of your relationship. If there is no passion then its best to let go but if there is passion in your relationship then it is time to go on to the next stage.

    COMMITMENT The last stage is commitment. This is when you know that you want to spend your whole life with this person you love and you can do anything for him. It is when your whole world just revolves round your lover and you take a pledge to remain true to your mate throughout good and bad times, be by his side whenever he needs you.

    Eyes Meet, it is like a Touch...a Spark...Attraction
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    Mapinduzi JF-Expert Member

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    Mbona hujaweka kutoelewana na ugomvi? Kama hivi havipo hayo sio mapenzi ya kweli bali pretence.
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    Superman JF-Expert Member

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    Mkuu; katika sehemu zote hizo, maugomvi yako kama kawa . . .
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    kui JF-Expert Member

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    Interesting, love it..
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    Superman JF-Expert Member

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    Mkuu unkumbuka wimbo wa Dr. Remmy Ongala juu ya Mapenzi. Stages za Utamu wake?

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    WomanOfSubstance JF-Expert Member

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    Most people get in stages 1 and 2 many times which is quite normal..... kuingia stages zinazofuata inahitaji ujue unataka nini na kwanini na kama una kibali cha kufanya hivyo.
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    obseva JF-Expert Member

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    kazi kweli kweli. soma sana kazi kuyafanya maandishi yawe kitu halisi.

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    sidhani kama inaahusika hiyo
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    Eiyer JF-Expert Member

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    Kama umelenga kuwapa faida wana JF na thread yako umekosea sana,ni 40%ya wana JF wanaweza kusoma ma kuielewa lugha uliyoandika!Ni bora ungeandika kwa lugha inayoeleweka kwa watu wengi!
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    Caroline Danzi JF-Expert Member

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    Kiswahili ni kizuri zaidi jamani tupende lugha zetu. google inafanya kazi siku hizi.
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    Bajabiri JF-Expert Member

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    asante sana,tunapaswa kuithamini lugha yetu adhwiim......