Harusi ya Maxence na Stella - Hongera kutoka JF


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Ndugu Maxence Melo anatarajia kufunga ndoa na Dada XXXXXX mwezi wa saba mwaka huu. WanaJF tujiandae kumuunga mkono mwenzetu. Hiyo ndiyo itakuwa zawadi kwake kwa kazi anayoifanya hapa kulitumikia taifa


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Ndugu Maxence Melo anatarajia kufunga ndoa na Dada XXXXXX mwezi wa saba mwaka huu. WanaJF tujiandae kumuunga mkono mwenzetu. Hiyo ndiyo itakuwa zawadi kwake kwa kazi anayoifanya hapa kulitumikia taifa


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hongera Maxence....... nitakutumia mchango wangu karibuni!
 

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Tufahamishane utaratibu wa kuchangia.
Hongereni kwa kuamua kufunga pingu za maisha...:) Mie mchango wangu uko njiani. Nawatakia kila la heri na baraka katika maandalizi yenu ya moja ya siku muhimu katika maisha ya binadamu hapa duniani.
 

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Dada Asha kwani hadi sasa huna Mume...?

Muoaji na Muolewaji mfanikiwe ktk kufunga ndoa....na mkishafungaa ndoa...mambo ya kuchuja NJE myaepuke...
 

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Ama kweli waTanzania tusha kuwa taifa omba-omba, hata kwenye ndoa tunaomba-omba tuchangiane duhh. Tuwacheni haya jamani. Kwani mwenyewe alisema anataka kuoa kwa omba-omba?

Wewe kama unataka kumpa zawadi mpe kivyako-vyako sio upitishe UMATONYA.
 

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Muoa na muolewa nawapa hongera kwa kufikiria jambo la maana.

Nawaomba msikubali ndoa yenu iwe ya kuomba-omba au kuombewa-ombewa na watu wanaojidai wanawapenda kwa kuchangisha watu.

Jee mkiomb-omba na kuchangiwa itakuwa mnaoana au mnaolewa au mnaoana kwa umatonya?

Msikubali, kama mnataka ndoa ya heri na baraka basi iwe ni yenu wenyewe na si ya kuchangiwa, haina raha hata kidogo ndoa ya umatonya.
 

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Mkuu Dar, punguza jazba huyu Max ni mwenzetu hapa JF kama na wewe ulivyo pia, ukioa au ukipatwa na matatizo huwa tunaweka itikadi zetu pembeni na kuwa wa-Afrika, Dogo hakuomba mchango isipokuwa ni sisi wanachama ndio tunaamua kumpa mkono wa heri, yaani wa hali na mali kwa kuambiana mapema, na sio lazima kutoa mkuu kwa mgeni kama wewe, lakini huo ni utamaduni mzito tulionao hapa, mara ya mwisho tulimchangia Marehemu Member mwenzetu aliyefariki Makene (RIP), na pia majuzi tu tulikuwa na mchago wa kuiendeleza JF.

Mkuu jina lako linaanza kuwa kubwa hapa JF, sasa jaribu ku-live up to it, hoja zenye jazba siku zote huondoa utamu wa hoja zenyewe, na kumshusha hadhi mtoa hoja, hili ni baraza la majadiliano sio mahakama au kamati kuu, na wala JF sio tume ya Mwakyembe bro, heshimu uliowakuta mkuu na wewe uheshimiwe.

Uliyoyakuta yaheshimu mkuu, kama hatuna macho na wewe utoe.

Ahsante Mkuu.
 

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Mkuu Dar, punguza jazba huyu Max ni mwenzetu hapa JF kama na wewe ulivyo pia, ukioa au ukipatwa na matatizo huwa tunaweka itikadi zetu pembeni na kuwa wa-Afrika, Dogo hakuomba mchango isipokuwa ni sisi wanachama ndio tunaamua kumpa mkono wa heri, yaani wa hali na mali kwa kuambiana mapema, na sio lazima kutoa mkuu kwa mgeni kama wewe, lakini huo ni utamaduni mzito tulionao hapa, mara ya mwisho tulimchangia Marehemu Member mwenzetu aliyefariki Makene (RIP), na pia majuzi tu tulikuwa na mchago wa kuiendeleza JF.

Mkuu jina lako linaanza kuwa kubwa hapa JF, sasa jaribu ku-live up to it, hoja zenye jazba siku zote huondoa utamu wa hoja zenyewe, na kumshusha hadhi mtoa hoja, hili ni baraza la majadiliano sio mahakama au kamati kuu, na wala JF sio tume ya Mwakyembe bro, heshimu uliowakuta mkuu na wewe uheshimiwe.

Uliyoyakuta yaheshimu mkuu, kama hatuna macho na wewe utoe.

Ahsante Mkuu.
Ninachoongelea hapa hakina itikadi wala dini awe ni mwana JF asiwe mwana JF. kuomba-omba kwenye ndoa yake si vizuri, kama ni mwenzetu na mwana JF na tunampenda na tunataka heri kwenye ndoa yake basi tusiifanye kuwa ya kimatonya. Kama unaweza na unampenda mpelekee zawadi bila wengine kujuwa umempa zawadi gani na si kuomba-omba na kutaka kujitangaza kuwa mimi nimesaidia hivi. Si vizuri, na kwa hili Mkuu utanisamehe sana, si la kiitikadi bali ni ukweli, kuomba-omba hata kwenye ndoa?
 

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Mkuu ni utamaduni ulioukuta hapa JF, kama haukufai basi ni kubadili channel tu mkuu, hakuna sababu ya ku-create debate kwa kitu ambacho kiko wazi mkuu, kuwa huu ni utamaduni wetu wa-Afrika, sisi tutamchangia wewe kaa pembeni tu mkuu, lakini hakukuwa na sababu ya kimsingi ya kuwshambulia wanaotaka kujitolea.

Pili pili iliyoko shamba isikuwashe mkuu, hili la mchango halina mjadala either utoe au usitoe, FULL STOP!
 

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Halafu napenda kukumbusha kuwa aliyetoa mada hajagusia kabisa habari ya michango wala kuomba-omnba. alichosema yeye ni kumuunga mkono, kumuunga mkono ninavyochukulia mie sio kuifanya harusi ya huyu kijana kuwa ya umatonya, kumuunga mkono ni kumuombea duwa za kheri katika ndoa yake, kumuunga mkono kwa kuhudhuria kwa watakaoalikwa, kumuunga mkono kwa kumpelekea zawadi bila ya kufanya organised umatonya.

Alietowa mada katowa jambo zuri tu na sidhani alikusudia tufanye umatonya, wengine waliochangia ndio wamekurupukia kwenye umatonya.
 

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Yani sometimes u may wonder how other people reason, with their heads, souls or what?
Simple Tangazo limeletwa, mwenzetu anataka kuoa, WanaJF tujiandae kumuunga mkono mwenzetu.sijaona sehemu pameandikwa ni lazima uchangie na sijaona sehemu iliyoandikwa wewe Dar es salaam unaombwa?
pia sijaona sehemu iliyoonyesha kuwa ni lazima ujitangaze kuwa utatoa ngapi au utaunga mkono kivipi?

why the big fuss, unajua maelezo ya mtu yanaweza kuonyesha ana personality gani na urefu au ufupi wa mawazo yake. Kama hutachangia ama hupendezwi be silent, send your wishes silently, hizi dhana za umatonya kwa kweli ni kumsushia hadhi mleta hoja. Malezo yapo as clear as pure water but still mtu anaamua for a reason known to himself kuwa trouble. Nafikiri kwa desturi zetu Watz wengine huchangia pesa, wengine mawazo wengine ushauri, wengine nguvukazi n.k na hiyo ndiyo michango ifanikishayo shughuli iwe harusi, msiba au lolote, we cant pretend kuwa sisi ni purerly western no na ndio maana hata huku ughaibuni tuna societies zetu na tunachangiana kwa hali na mali ktk shughuli zakijamii zimhusuzo mtanzania mwenzetu. Please tuheshimu mawazo ya wengine.
 

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Mkuu ni utamaduni ulioukuta hapa JF, kama haukufai basi ni kubadili channel tu mkuu, hakuna sababu ya ku-create debate kwa kitu ambacho kiko wazi mkuu, kuwa huu ni utamaduni wetu wa-Afrika, sisi tutamchangia wewe kaa pembeni tu mkuu, lakini hakukuwa na sababu ya kimsingi ya kuwshambulia wanaotaka kujitolea.

Pili pili iliyoko shamba isikuwashe mkuu, hili la mchango halina mjadala either utoe au usitoe, FULL STOP!
Wewe ingawa hii JF ni yako lakini usihubiri umatonya na kama JF utamaduni wake ni umatonya basi mimi naupinga sana tena sana. Hiyo ni kibri ya kumwambia mtu Full-stop. Na usifikiri unamtengezea bali unamharibia na kumfundisha umatonya.
 

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Yani sometimes u may wonder how other people reason, with their heads, souls or what?
Simple Tangazo limeletwa, mwenzetu anataka kuoa, anayeweza achangie,
sijaona sehemu pameandikwa ni lazima uchangie na sijaona sehemu iliyoandikwa wewe Dar es salaam unaombwa?
pia sijaona sehemu iliyoonyesha kuwa ni lazima ujitangaze kuwa utatoa ngapi
why the big fuss, unajua maelezo ya mtu yanaweza kuonyesha ana personality gani na urefu au ufupi wa mawazo yake. Kama hutachangia ama hupendezwi be silent, send your wishes silently, hizi dhana za umatonya kwa kweli ni kumsushia hadhi mleta hoja. Malezo yapo as clear as pure water but still mtu anaamua tu for a reason known to himself only kuwa trouble. Please tuheshimu wengine.
Huo ndio umatonya wenyewe, wewe unauchukulia simpo kwa kuwa umeshakukaa kwenye damu. Kuomba-omba hakuna usimpo kuna mbinu kama hii ya michango ni moja wapo.
 

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Dar,

Si ukae kimya? lazima upinge itikadi au utamaduni wa wenzako?

Bongo hii tunachangiana mzee!
Hakuna utamaduni wa kiTanzania wa kuwa omba-omba huu ni utamaduni tuliojijengea kwa upungufu wetu wa mawazo na hautusaidii kutujenga kifikra bali untuharibia na ndio mpaka hawa vijana wanaotaka kuanza maisha tunawarithisha umatonya. Kwa hili sioni wala sisikii nalipinga mpaka dakika ya mwisho, tunataka kujenga taifa aina gani kwa hili la kuomba-omba hata kwenye ndoa?
 

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Mac, big up kaka!!!!! Al the best kwa siku kubwa sana hiyo kaka.... Nakutakia wewe na "MTARAJIWA" heri na baraka kuelekea siku hiyo na kisha maisha mema!!!

Welcome to the club!!!
 
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